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I'm not sure if its "legal" on this site to ask this question, but if it's not, could to re-direct me to a site that could help me?
This monday, I have off from school. I'm giving myself a total makeover. Hair, nails, everything. What I need, and what I have NO experience in, is makeup. Is there a place where I could submit my picture and have people give me makeup advice?
Thank you so much!
Ali (link)
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For your makeup, i'd start off going to the mall (i dont know where you live but the mall in Boston, Prudential, is AWESOME) and ask them for a makeover, or to get your colors done. they give them for free. after you get all made up, pick which ones you like and buy them.
For hair, look through some magazines and pick out hair styles you like and go to a hair salon and ask them to try to do their best with that.
Nails i would say buy some glue on ones at wal*mart, or just paint them yourself.
have fun!!
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whenever i lean over when i'm sitting, like at school and i'm leaning over a paper, when i look at my stomach in the bathroom theres like a line going over my belly button and above it. i'm thin and this just happens when i lean over. how can i stop this (link)
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that's perfectly normal, and sad to say (because i have those too) you cant really get rid of them. it's just extra skin that can hang over, which is quite annoying when you wear a bathing suit or anything like that. if you want to tone up your stomach you can do excersizes that might help, but for the most part they're there to stay.
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can exercising throw off your period?? i stopped playing basketball in december & then around march i juss ran & weightlifted so i was doing something. our practices started & we started playing basketball. 2 of the practices i started bleeding randomly & i'm a day off on my period, but i'm starting to get random pain in my armpits, bellybutton, leg, that feels like shooting pain kinda like before you get your period but it stopped. can exercising mess up your cycle?? (link)
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YES,
when i was in track i didnt have my period the whole time, and as soon as i stopped i got it again. this happens to a lot of active girls, especially if you're skinny. it's because when you're so active it burns off all your calories and fat and everything you dont need, and if you're on the skinny or average side, you dont get your period if you dont have that fat. It also depends on how healthy you eat.
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I know this may seem stupid. but i cannot stand freaking "popular" people. i have an advice collumn, and everyday i have a different message in my inbox from them like "stop being jelous of the popular people" or "why dont you wear preppy clothes and dress like everyone else? you'll never be popular if you do." and i sware im not jealous, and i wear all the same clothes they do. why do they think there the best? there really not that great. and i know im not a loser, so why do they call me one? they are all extremely mean, and full of themsleves. i dont want to be friends with them, but is there any way i can make them stop this? i really cant take it anymore and its really lowering my self esteem. pleaes i need help as soon as i can get it! thank you so so much!
love always.
oh bye the way if you are one of the popular people at your school, i'm really sorry im not being steriotypical and saying all popular poeple are like that. so please dont take thi the wrong way! (link)
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theyre just retarded and full of themselves, but trust me i know where you're coming from. when i first moved to a different school in 6th grade people used to make fun of how i dress (now that i think back on it i did dress like a freak...but it shouldnt be a target for judging me) and shit like that. i was really shy so i didnt do anything but now im a lot more brave than i was, and have friends. you just have to tell them off, or ignore them, but i personally would rather tell them off. some people will say "its because they have low self esteem so theyre trying to make themselves feel better by lowering you" which can be true. like, 5% of the time. most of the time theyre just assholes and feel like messing with someone. basically i would say to stand up for yourself, and dont listen to what they say. obviously you dont like assholes, so, you shouldnt care what an asshole thinks.
easier said than done, i know.
but try it out.
and give em hell.
;)
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OK My bro. is the same age i am 13. he seems to think boys are stronger than girls. But i showed him off. and beet him at like 15 different things. so my question is which do you think is stronger boys or girls. (link)
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depends on what you're talking about.
its been proven that guys are stronger in their muscles that girls because thats just the way they are built. its not saying guys are better, its saying science played eeny meeny miny moe, and happened to pick them.
however
it has also been proven (you can even look it up) that guys cant endure pain as well as women can.
it also depends on the body type...which any monkey with half a brain could've told you.
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Whats better as just a laptop to use for personal use for me, a mac or pc? (link)
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i would definitely say mac. yeah, theyre a little different, but they're much better than pc's because they're newer, faster (depending) and unlike pc's you cant get viruses. they havent been made yet for macs. so if you want one that'll last longer, thats the one i'd go for.
plus, they come in cool colors
:p
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Why is sex a sin? I know that its not a sin if your jewish, so why is it when your cathlic? (link)
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it's not a sin.
the catholic church says a lot of bullshit you shouldnt believe (not saying you should). i cant remember if the bible says it is or not...but even if it does, remember, GUYS wrote it. all guys, and it was only a one sided view (just like everything in history) and its not holy. it didnt drop out of the sky from the heavens. guys wrote it depedning on what was going on that time period, and what they wanted other people to believe.
God obviously wants us to have sex, maybe not to the extent that some people do, and not the same pervertedness that it can be sometimes looked upon, but to be a benefit of marriage, and to create life.
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The guy I'm dating is great & I love hanging out with him. The thing is, there's no "spark" with him. I don't feel that special chemistry between us, even though he does. I just want to know if it's that bad that I have some fun with him while I'm waiting for a guy to come along with that special spark? I told him honestly that I don't want to lead him on & I'm not interested in a relationship now. I don't want to hurt him, but for now he's the only guy I'm interested in. Do you even think that "spark" could develop between us? Or does it usually happen right away? (link)
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it might just take a while, or he might just not be "the one". idk if he's your first or second or third boyfriend, but "the one" isnt always the first couple. it could be the first one, or you might find him till your 40! it all depends on fate. im not ssaying you should go dump him now, but just stay with him for a while and see how things go.
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im really smart, and so what is an above average or average iq for 14/f (link)
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sweetie dont be mad at me for telling you the truth.
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I want to get my nose pierced during the summer (nothing too big, just a small piercing on the side) but I want to make sure I'll be able to take it out at school.
How long do you have to wait after getting something pierced before you can take it out? (link)
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well nose piercings are supposed to be in for the first 4 -6 monthes...but even if you take it out for a day the hole will close up. the only reason i would take it out is to clean it. its supposed to be up to a year when you can actually walk around for a week or so and change the piercing without a problem
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I was just wondering what most people thought.
Would you rather regret something you said or regret not saying anything at all? And why? Your opinion means nothing if you don't explain. (link)
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i would regret not saying anything at all.
if you never have the chance to express your opinions to someone, you'll never know what might've happened. you'll always wonder "what if?" and i think that is definitely worse than regreting something you said
actions speak louder than words.
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I have little red bumps on my legs, I'm pretty sure they're from shaving. Is it because I shave up my leg instead of down?
And how could you get these to go away? (link)
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whoaaaaaaaaa
first of all
shaving down is REAAAAAAALLY bad for you (ingrown hairs and irritation), so its good that you shave going up.
you should shave your legs last out of your shower activities. it makes it so your legs are soaked with water and arent dry. you can get those if your razor isnt sharp enough, so if you use disposable razors, its best to use them only 4 or so times before throwing them out. if its one of those "venus" ones where you buy the little razor heads then you can use those around 6 times. make sure you use shaving cream every time, and put lotion on afterwards.
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Hi, I wear eyeliner & eyeshadow, and yeah..
except I notice that towards the middle of the day its already starting to come off,
or moving further down from my eyes..
I' was just wondering if anyone knew how to make it stay on longer? I put foundation under it or whatever, so it would stick to it but it doesnt work ..
i rate high for helpful answers.
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i would just re-apply it, and wipe away the old smudgy-ness.
besides that there's nothing really you can do, it just depends on your skin type. personally, it doesnt stay on me. at all. and it looks reaaally shitty, so yeah. it took me a while to figure that out though, i tried waterproof, smudgproof, liquid, cream, and stick. i even tried one that was 18 bucks from benefit. it doenst matter how expensive or what form its in. its just your skin type.
sorry if wasnt really what you wanted to hear.
just trying to help!!
(and save your money :P )
as for the eyeshadow thing if you buy a color thats close to your skin tone, and put that on first, it should make the eyeshadow stay on longer. you probably will have to reapply it once in a while though
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Well, I'm thirteen and I'm starting to use tampons (or at least trying to start). When I try to insert the tampon, it stings a little because it is dry and solid. I know what to do and how to do it but I was wondering if I will get some sort of infection if I use vasaline to make it go in easier. I mean, if I put a little by my area and a little on the tampon. I won't glob it on, but just enough to make it smoother. Before I experiment with this, I want to know if it is a mistake or if it can harm me. I WILL RATE! PROMISE! (link)
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like the other people said, i definitely would not put vaseline on the tampon, and around your vagina. its also easier if you are doing it while you have your period, instead of before or after (my friend tried to do that to get "adjusted" to the feel, but it wasnt a very smart thing since its so dry). get a slim fit tampon, and dont get the O.B kind unless you want to stick your finger up there too. if you really want it to be a little slicker i'd try maybe to put water on the applicator before you put it in.
have fun! :p
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this is a really personal question but.
How can I motivate myself to stop smoking
marijauna (sp.) And ciggerets
and from doing drugs and alchohal all together
I hate how i feel im so sick. I cant even eat
right now cause Im so sick.
Please help me! (link)
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well just for putting this question on an advice website than i think you're getting good at motivating yourself!! :)
some things i'd maybe think about are:
- cigarettes make you smell bad, turn your teeth yellow, and can lead to cancer.
- marijuana tricks your brain into thinking everythings something its not. basically youre not treating your body with the respect it deserves. you're going to live in the same skin you're living in now your whole life so its good to take care of it!
- if you think of the dumb shit you can do under the influence it might cause you to stop.
(what if you started driving and hit a kid? what if you ran into a tree? what if you drove and then just dozed off and crashed your car?)
- and think of your health, you dont want to jeopardize your life just for having some fun once and a while.
as for stopping i would say just wean yourself off cuz if you just stop all of a sudden that would probably fuck you up more than if you did all that at once! ;)
patches, gum, talking to people that went through what you did, and maybe AA or some other group would help?
anyway im glad you decided to help yourself befre it was too late and i hopee it all works out in the end.
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alright well i had this pair of tights that were soo cute but they didnt fit anymore and so i cut the bottoms so they are like leggings but you can like tell i cut them and i wanna like sew up the bottom so it dont look like that but i dont have any needles or string lol any ideas on how to make it look like i didnt cut it? I'll rate 5 for all ideas. (link)
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i do that with my pants to make them into capris and usually i just fold them back a couple times. if you dont have needles or string than i would suggest (for a makeshift thing) either a safety pin or a button. once you get the string im sure it would stay but folding it back usually just works for me!
:)
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okk. do you think its wrong if my boy friend goes on a date with me but we meet up with a bunch of my guy friends that he isnt friends with them. (link)
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i dont think theres anything wrong with that at all. as long as you dont ignore your bf or make him feel out of place, ex. "ohh i know!! remember that time at the mall and there was that dude with the hat?!! HAHAHA" or anything like that...because it'd probably make him feel either bored or uncomfortable.
other than that it seems fine to me!
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sorry idk what catagory to put this under but whatever.
every night i take a shower but every other night i use a shower cap and dont wash my hair. a few people at school said that its bad to wash your hair everyday. i know it strips the oils out but should i not wash it every night? should i not wash it 2 days in a row? my hair is really thick and after taking a shower, my hair gets frizzy. what are some ways i can prevent friz after taking a shower? also i straighten my hair every morning but i dont like burning it so much, i just hate having it so frizzy when i wake up. so, what are some ways i can keep the friz down after taking my shower (and the results will last long through the day).
it would be amazing if you can answer all the questions i had in that paragraph. thanks, ill rate high for anything you give me (link)
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well its fine to take a shower every day but its better if you wash your hair every OTHER day because if you dont wash it often enough, it'll get greasy. if you wash it too much you get really dry hair. my hair is also reaally thick and curly so i can definitely relate to you there. after i get out of the shower i towel dry it and scrunch it with anti friz stuf (usually john frida is pretty good) and then theres this cream stuff you can put on your hands and run it through your hair that maintains it. it says RX on the front, and is in a red bottle.
good luck!
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okay so i have a ipod mini. and its like freaking out on me. it wont let me play over half my songs [ i only have 170 ] and it just skips over them and plays the ones im not the biggest fan of. i already tried reseting everthing and it did nothing. and its fully charged. any way i can fix it? or does anyone know what is wrong?!? pleasee helppp meee (link)
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hey i have an ipod mini too! (green) haha. but usually it can do that if you need a new battery, which would suck because they dont make ipod minis anymore and it'd be hard to find one, and if you did theyre really expensive ($60 or so);
OR
there might be something else wrong with it. http://www.apple.com/support/ipod/
thats a good website to look at and it shows little icons that can pop up if its crapping out. if that doesnt work you might need to download the latest version.
i hope that works!
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How do you wash mascara off of your eyes? I dont know how to do it and it is really annoying becuase then I get eye problems. Thanks ♥ (link)
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you just use soap and warm water, and if its waterproof mascara than you have to buy make up remover in the form of a little wipe, or a liquid. almay is one i'd suggest.
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