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there's no "spark"
The guy I'm dating is great & I love hanging out with him. The thing is, there's no "spark" with him. I don't feel that special chemistry between us, even though he does. I just want to know if it's that bad that I have some fun with him while I'm waiting for a guy to come along with that special spark? I told him honestly that I don't want to lead him on & I'm not interested in a relationship now. I don't want to hurt him, but for now he's the only guy I'm interested in. Do you even think that "spark" could develop between us? Or does it usually happen right away?
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well it's not bad if you told him how you feel and everything. but you could end up having feelings for him after a while. sometimes it does take time to develop the "spark" so just keep hanging out with him and just have fun for a while.
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it might just take a while, or he might just not be "the one". idk if he's your first or second or third boyfriend, but "the one" isnt always the first couple. it could be the first one, or you might find him till your 40! it all depends on fate. im not ssaying you should go dump him now, but just stay with him for a while and see how things go.
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It doesn't always happen right away, it could take a while. A lot of people in relationships started off as just friends, you gotta start somewhere. Maybe you need to get to know him better. Try going out with him, like on a special date. Give it some time, if you don't feel anything after a while, it might be a sign to find someone else. Then again this might be a sign that you aren't looking to be in a relationship, like you said. Listen to your heart and go from what it tells you. If you aren't happy with him, don't stay with him just to keep from hurting him. The longer you're with him the more it'll hurt in the long run. Good luck
♥ Evy
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