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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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For my englihsh class we have to make 10 comparisons of celebrities.

An example: Will Ferrel is as tall as Vince Vaghun.

That basically means I need 20 celebrities, in pairs of what they have alike.

So far I have,

1. Marilyn Monroe is as talented as James Dean.
2. Jessica Simpson is as blonde as Christina Aguilera.
3. Jeff Corwin likes crocodiles as much as Steve Irwin.
4. Jim Carrey is as funny as Robin Williams.

Can anyone help me think of more pairs of celebrities that have things in common?? THANK YOU! :] (link)
Nichole Richie is as skinny as Lindsay Lohan


I'm 16, and some of my friends from our school football team go out drinking after the games and stuff. What could happen to them if they get caught? (link)
If they get caught they will be charged with underage drinking and be taken to jail for their parents/legal guardian to pick them up. The football players will more than likely be kicked off the team or say if their on varsity they may get kicked down to jv or just off the team completely, that goes for every sport. They could also get a fine/jail time/community service. It all depends where your from. The best thing would to not do it at all. Hope i helped!


this guy was gonna kiss me but i backed away because i was afraid my breath would smell
or he wouldn't like my breath and embarrass myself how do i make my breath less smelly and how do i know if he likes it (link)
This may seem wierd/stupid but when it comes to kissing guys dont care about your breath, i mean they do they dont want it to smell nasty..but when their goin in for the kiss the last thing on their mind is what your breath smells like. hes just as nervous as you are. DONT chew gum before the kiss because i read somewhere that it just makes your breath even worst. Carry around those listerine pocket things or mints. Hope i helped!


I think there is a guy who likes me but I'm not sure. I know that these are BAD questions since you guys are the guy and you guys can't possibly know for certain if he likes me but:

Matt is a sophmore and I'm a freshmen. We go to the same school and in middle school (when he was in 8th grade and me in 7th grade) we would talk sometimes in the mornings...he and I both take German so that's one thing we talk about a lot. He is sooo cute and funny and fun to be with and I really like him. He always comes to sit at the table I'm sitting in at lunch, he likes to hang around me a lot and talk to me in clubs (school wise), and last lunch, I was going to the cafeteria and he said "Get in line with us" and so I asked why and he said "Because you're beautiful" (In a joking way..his friend was there too) and so I kind of gave him a weird look and say "riighhhtt" and went off with my friend. I know--not a nice thing to do--but my friend was alreayd looking at me and him weirdly and he's really jealous (although he's gay).

From what I've said above, do you think that Matt mgiht like me?? And if so, there's another problem. I have somewhat of a distant friend but I still talk to her. She's friends with my worst enemy and she also likes Matt. If I end up going out with Matt (since some people were saying he's gonna ask me out) she might get really pissed off at me and such--the whole girl likes guy. friend takes guy. school turns into drama scene--and one of my bestest friend absolutly hates Matt since Matt is annoying at times..

I'm so confused..what should I do?? (link)
Best thing to do is talk to matt and see how he feels thats the only way you know for sure. and as for your friends if she gets mad shes just jealous..if their truely your friend she'll understand . And if your distant friend says anything mean just brush it off dont even act like it gets to you.


My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg

I'll rate 5s for all answers. (link)
Who cares what other ppl think, if you like her thats all that matters. Im straight so im not gonna say shes hot but shes gorgeous


ok i am 13 years old and my breast are a 38C! they hurt and they hang too. one of my breasts is bigger than the other and it is kind of noticeable. my mom said that when i turn 18 i can get a reduction because by the looks of it now they are going to keep growing. i dont want really small breast i want then to be big but not heavy like they are now. and right now they are triagular shaped insted of round. i want then to be round but not really small. i dont want anything less than a BIG B cup. but no bigger than DD cup. so do you think i should get a reduction when im older or keep them big? (link)
I have that saaaaaaaame problem..i would have a reduction..but thats totally up to you..you cant plan it though you might change your mind just wait till you turn 18 and then make the decision


ok. i'm 15 years old, 5'4" and 97 pounds. i know this probably sounds like a lot but i really feel unconfortable and i would like to get my weight down to about 89 pounds (thats what i was last summer).. however if my mom notices me not eating then she'll flip so i have to be kind of discreet about it. i also don't want to have to starve myself or anything... i run about 25 miles per week and i don't think i can do much more exrecise though i`ll try if that will make a difference. i'd like to reach my goal my mid-july. thanks :) (link)
First off wow you definitaly dont need to lose weight. This may sound wierd but you actually need to gain some. And the 25 miles is wayy to much for someone your age,weight, and size. And NEVER NEVER NEVER starve yourself. Starving yourself only makes your metabolism slow down and then you want be able to lose weight it would be alot harder. Your perfectly fine how you are. I know you dont want to hear this but its the truth. If you want to lose weight then eat what you want just smaller portions of it and drinks lots of water. As for the exercising you got it but slow down some thats alot of miles in a week. Thats a 100 miles a month thats wayyy to much. Good luck


i'm a guy in hi school and need advice on what may seem to be an easy but hard question. i want to know how i can be a lovin person again. yeah i said again cause i used to be, with my friends family n everyone. but i dont think i am anymore, and people are tellin me that ive been changing. my parents good friends and gf have been telling me things too. i dont know what it was but what are some attitudes or ways of thinkin that i culd set up to help me cause just doing a few things here n there wont help too much for the long run. any ideas why i stopped im not a mean person or anything, and i do try. does this happen to alot of ppl and am i just over reacting? (link)
Ok, well im not exactly how old you are but ill try. Everyone changes in high school, its good that you change unless its because of drugs or something. Your more than likely going through puberty. Its nothing to be worried about and nothing that you can stop. Is there something bothering you that may be causing this? if not then its probably puberty. Your not gonna be the same again though needless to say everyone changes throughout their life at one point. Give it time it should blow over it might be a phase. Hope i helped!


Hey! I currently have Verizon cell phone service. If I was to buy a Cingular phone that Verizon doesnt carry, but its an unlocked phone, would I be able to have my Verizon plan on the Cingular phone? (link)
Yes that is if you have a sim card and i dont think verizon wireless does the whole sim card thing. unlocked phones are made for the purpose of getting a cool phone that your wireless carrier doesnt have nd you can put your sim card in. So im not exactly sure. you can call verizon and ask they may be able to put everything on the phone without you needing a sim card. Good luck


My Boyfriend tells me I'm not coming onto him strong enough and says that I need to put my hand on him when he's "hard on." I hardly know what that means...and i dont know what to do when my hand is there. What do i do when he gets like that and I put my hand on him? (link)
everyone who answered is right. from the sounds of it your not nearly old enough or ready for this kind of thing. i would take everyones advice into consideration and get out of the relationship while you can before you get hurt.


I have an important question. I get cramps so bad that I sometimes stay home from school, as i am right now. is that a serious problem? (link)
That is not a serious problem i am exactly like you so i know waht your going through. My pains got so bad one day that my mom had to take me to the hospital they did a bunch of exams and it turns out i have a cist on my ovaries which causes alot of pain before,during, and after your period. So you may have a cist but you may not. If your really worried then you can get a appt at the gynocologist(sp?) and they will do an exam and most of the time they will give you pain medicine, which really helps. But for your question its not a serious problem but going to the doctor will help solve any questions or worries you have. Hope i helped!!

((sorry its so long))


my hair is a medium brown color. i have been trying to dye it medium blonde with very blonde highlights, but it either turns out a brassy dark red or stays the same. how on earth do i get my hair the blonde i want without using bleach which will dry out my hair wayyy toooo mucchchhh? should i get it professionally done? (link)
Your best bet would be to get it professionaly done. But be careful if you do it to much then your hair will start to fall out or worse. And since youve tried it and its not working get it done because they know exactly wut their doing you may be doing something wrong


im really afraid that my boyfriend will act weird if he knows im on my period. but he told me to tell him just so he will no incase i have PMS or im in a bad mood, or dont want to do anything sexual.. but im really afraid that he is like, not gunna want to get near me.. do you think that will happen?

please help! ill rate high! (link)
i doubt it. Guys these days understand a little about pms..they just dont want to be around to get yelled at or you to get mad at them for no apparent reason(since that usually happens) Just tell him..but if your uncomfortable then dont. Its your choice but you will eventually have to tell your bfs in the near future.


Hey,
I am going to Florida for spring break, which is in two weeks.

So, I went to the mall today to go shopping for my vacation. I went to go and buy a bikini,and I knew it would be hard to find one because I have a very large chest.

Well, I went to four different stores, and could not find a single one that fit me...

Does anyone know any stores that would have stuff for girls with a big chest...?

And I would like a bikini, not a one piece...

Thank you...
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i have the same exact problem. What you need to do is go to a place where they measure you for a bathing suit and theyll find it for you that way you know exactly what you need. i go to water water everywhere its a great place and they have tops for larger breasted women but i dont know if theres one around you its usually in the mall.


so there is a guy that i like and im afraid to ask him to hang out because i don't wnat to make him feel weird and ignore me. should i just be friends or go for it? (link)
If i were you id go for it. Dont let the fear of what might happen get in the way. I mean who knows he might say yes and im sure he wouldnt act all wierd and stuff around you after you asked. Personally id go for it.


I've been on a diet for about 3 weeks now, and I've lost weight everywhere except for in my boobs. I so hate my boobs because I feel that they're too big, and I wanna find a way for them to get smaller naturally. I was thinking about getting reduction surgery in the future, but I wanna aviod that because it's so expensive, so does anybody know any ways for me to lose weight in my boobs? Thanks sooo much in return. (link)
hey..wow another person who actually says they would want a boob reduction. every1 thinks im crazy when i say that but yeahh...heres some exercises..

Flat Bench Press

1. Lie flat on a bench, feet firmly on the floor. Make sure that your butt, back, shoulders, and head are firmly positioned on the bench.
2. Roll your shoulders back and down so the shoulder blades are firmly pressed against the bench and the chest is sticking up.
3. With a slightly wider than shoulder width grip and your palms facing forward, lift the bar off the rack and hold it above you with your arms straight up and extended.
4. Lower the bar down to your chest until it either touches your chest or comes within an inch or so away. Do NOT bounce the bar off your chest.
5. Press the bar straight up until arms are extended.

- This exercise can also be performed using dumbbells. Both methods are effective.
- While the bench press is primarily a chest exercise, it also recruits the use of the triceps and shoulders secondarily.

thats a good one and of course crossovers and stuff like that. Just google and see what you can find out!! Hope i helped. GL!


ok so im f/17 ive never had sex before but ive become ill.weak,cough,flem ect and im scared because my friend keeps talking about aids and im scared.Ive been to the hospital as i felt ill can they tell if i have it from checking me over?or from an x-ray?also my vagina feels weird i can't explain.The doctor asked me if i have discharge my mum was sitting there and i was scared to say yes.I get white stuff is it normal?Im really scared someone help me please and an ocassional liquid.They asked when my last period was i said 2 weeks ago but i think it was last month!!!!!hurry with answers please also im waiting for the blood test results and urine. (link)
Ok first off calm down.. If anything is wrong they will be able to tell through your blood and urine test whether you actually told them the truth or not. I just went through the same stuff and they were able to tell what was wrong even tho i lied about some stuff bcuz of my mom sitting there. So just calm down and wait. If its really bothering talk to your mom and tell her the truth. GOOD LUCK!!


Hey guys! Need your help. I have to keep rebooting my computer cuz it keeps hanging. I'm so tired of doing it every time it hangs! Is there anything else I can do?
tnx!:) (link)
im not an expert or anything but my computer used to do tht all time so my mom called a company and they told her to erase any files that you dont need. You just have to many files on your computer slowing down and making it hang. Hope i helped


Well, 7th grade, yeah yeah drama drama. Lol, but question right, well, i went out with this guy named Corey. ((He's just my friend now)) He's really cute and nice and stuff but he's kind of stupid sometimes. But sometimes we have PE together. Well today we did and he's on the baseball team right and when he was goin back to the locker room, him and his friend Ryan ((My friend as well,)) had gatorades. Well, me and my friend Summer went over to them and she was like "Ryan can I have some" and he gave her some and i was like ok.. anyway, i was thirsty and ryan wouldn't give me any. Corey was already in the locker room. I chased Ryan to the locker room and they were just standin there then they were like, "COACH STUCKEY! WE GOT SOME GIRLS IN HERE!" But then we ran off. Ryan went to go play basketball and me and Summer went back and I was like, "Corey can I have some of your gatorade please?!" Corey:"No" Me: "Please" and I smiled at him and then he said, "Ok." And I was like, "Thank you!!!" and gave him a hug, and he looked like he didn't know what he was doing, but he also looked like he liked it i suppose. afterward he looked at me some. i mean like he was like lookin at me constantly he was playin basketball but..after that i thought about it and i think i kind of like him again. problem is, yesterday i asked him who he liked and he said no one he didn't really have time for a girlfriend. So, what do i do? (link)
Some guys will tell you they dont like anyone or they dont have time for a gf due to the fact that they may like you and dont wanna tell you because they dunno if you have the same feelings. Hint to him that you like him and see what happens, or just tell him thats the only way to know if he likes you or not. From the sounds of it he may like you! Hope i helped

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Hey its rachel... the one that gets jealous... i mean i dont even know what to tell him... that it .. i mean he doesnt know i get jealous i keep it inside myself... But like i dont know hes friends with a lot of girls im just afraid hes gonna hurt me and leave me for someone else (link)
I understand where your coming from, ive had this problem before. The worse thing to do is keep your jealousy inside you it will only make things worse then it already is in the end. Next time you see him just let him know whats up. Be like we need to talk im kind of jealous of the fact that youve always got girls hanging around you. I really like you and all and i dont want you to end up hurting me and leaving me for someone else. I still want you to have girl friends but i just dont want you to do something thats going to hurt me. *something like that it doesnt have to be exactly like that, it was just an example* And just ask him where you guys stand i.e does he still like you and want to be with you. Things like that. That way you know what he feels and he knows how you feel. Its important in a relationship for the couple to be able to talk about these things and have a good understanding. Hope i helped!!




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