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Hi my name is Ivanna i'm just 15 but i've gone through alot and i most likely would understand what you go through.So give me a chance and ask wutever u need to because i will most likely get back to you in the next 24 hours.SO smile.
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Recently, i found my dad constantly going to chatrooms and talking to random ppl like he likes them better than my mom. every day he would be doing this but once my mom got home, he would close out of them. i dont know what to do. my brother knows about it too, but i dont know if i should tell my mom. please help....:( (link)
yes tell your mom she deserves to know.But he's just chatting so it isn't reallt a big deal but i still suggest to tell ur mom she deserve to know.I hope i helpled good luck with wuts going on...:/


me and my bestfriend liked eachother like 5 mouths ago and are friendship is amazing....i was wondering if i should go out with her to see if that is stronger boyfriend and girl friend?? (link)
umm well i think u should go with her cause if ur riends and yall no each other well eb\nough im sure it will sork out.GOOD LUCK!


i never see my bf at school. how do i change that? and when i see him outside of school he wont even give me a hug. plz help (link)
well that isn't rite when u do see him ask him wuts up or go up to him and give him a hug urself but if it doesnt seem like if yall act like gf and bf then brake up, i wish it works out 4 the best good luck!


i have a seriouse problem with keeping a boyfriend. I have never been dumped because i always dump them so quickly! its so hard because i always wnat new guys, im never happy with just one, and i never want to hurt anyone or cheat on anyone! i have a boyfriend right now and i like him sooo much, he is perfect for me, but for some reason i want to dump him, its so hard and confusing, what should i do! (link)
ur scared of commitment and thats normal but if u really like this boi think about the good things about him before breaking anything off.hoped i helped..


Hi well my boyfriends friends come up and pinch my ass , everytime I ask them to stop they ust kiss me like Im thier own and my boyfriend lets them what do I do? (link)
if it really bothers u tell him and if he still isnt paying much attention then ur bf is carzy cause that isnt rite or scare the hell out of his friends but ya thats all i can offer unless u cuss there ass out.yup thats all i can offer good luck!


Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not (link)
well go with him if u like him i mean its just a grade wuts the worst thing thant can happen anywayz when u get older ur gonna wish u went out with younger ones so go 4 it its just a grade.


i rely like this gurl but i dont know how to tell her that i like her (link)
okay well wut can i tell u 1st i need more info about this gurl cause it really depends on the type of gurl she is next umm how everyone tells u be urself and hope she accepts it cause if she doesnt then she doesnt really deserve u.good luck!


alrightt now i have this ex who just doesnt know when enough is ENOUGH !! i mean let alone does he call me naims, he does it almost 24/7! its like he assumes hes over me but all he can do is say "ugh shes so ugly!" and stupid stuff like that. better yet hes trying to get his friends (also mine) turned against me ! hell be like "say shes ugly or ill kick u in the balls" and its like .. umm no? THERE MY FRIENDS TOO JACKASS !!! but the thing is the 3 ppl who he hangs out with are like super close to me. and there all bigger than him and more mature so idk y they dont jus put him in his place. hes spoiled and it makes me mad to see him get his way and always talk about me. schools in like 5 days and i knowww wen he sees me hes gonna jus not shut up as always so what should i dooo :[ (link)
well the smart thing to do is ignore him but the thing that will make u feel better is to shut him up u ask how like this cuss his as out aand show him ur a better person if he says something just walk away and he will be standing there like an idiot.well i hope i helped..:)


i recently met this guy about 3 weeks ago and weve hung out and talked on the phone once about 4 times n im pretti sure he likes me but im not totalli sure hes 19 and im 16 and hes mentioned sumthing b4 about him being older but he still hangs out with me n talks to me n stuff we went to the movies the other night and he like flirted with me n everything n bought my ticket but he didnt hold my hand or anything and wen he dropped me off at my house he was just like well ill talk to u online or sumthing n then hes like well if ur on and im like yeah bye i was just wondering if u thin he likes me or not (link)
ya i think he likes u cause no guy is gonna spend money on movies and take u home maybe he thinks it bothers u so he doesnt mention it but i think he does like u.hope i helped good luck!


Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
go 4 it cause it seems like he's a good guy and u shouldnt really think about the looks even though i know its hard but u shouldnt like him 4 the looks but at least like him 4 him.


I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is? (link)
leaVE IT AS IT IS DONT EVEN BRING IT UP.


im 13, and my best guy friend asked me how far ive been with a guy. ive never been kissed and i told him i have but now im scared he'll be like WHO idk why i lied but i felt bad so what should i do? (link)
if he is ur best friend dont u think he will kinda think its funny that u lied and i think thats not sucha big dealcause i am in ur place i havent kissed a guyand im about to turn 14 and i still haven't kissed a guy but the lieing part i havent done that but still i think ur best guy friend wont really care much.


okay there's this guy at school...his names chris and i've liked him for a year now and last year we had 4 classes together and this year we have 4 classes together again! and we've been talking alot and he's sooo hot! and last friday night at the football game he sat down by me on the hill and i pulled out a pack of gum and he said "you know you wanna give me a piece of that right" and so i pulled out a piece and tried to hand it to him but he wouldn't take it...so i was like "uhhh" lol and he said "my arms are too tired i need you to unwrap it and put on my tongue" and omg he stuck out his tongue!!! i laughed and blushed and did it and then we just talked the rest of the night! does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? HELP PLEASE!!
~*lashes*~ (link)
I think he does like you maybe u should tell him hhow u feeland by the way ur describe him i think he will give u a good responce but i think he likes u.GOOD LUCK!!!


I just got kicked out of my moms house and i am starting off fresh at my dads. He doesnt trust me and neither does my grandma. I can t talk on the phone without them listening or i cant get on the computer with out them reading my stuff. I cant go anywhere without them spying on me. They dont let me go any where to begin with. I have to sneak on the phoen and the com at night. I ask if they can just ftrust me and they are like no. They dont even know me. My grandma thinks buying me things is going to keep me out of trouble and my dad thinks keeping me from the world is going to keep me out of trouble as well. I need some advice . (link)
Everything u just wrote u should tell them that and if they still don't understand maybe it's cause you did something really bad to get them mad but give them time and show then ur responsible before they while they gain ur trust again.but if i was in ur situation i wouldn't cause not one problem and i would suck up as much as possible.i hope it works out for u good luck!


hey ya*ll i really like this guy and he really likes me 2 ...but there is a bad thing.. he dosent want any1 to kno and i cant help thinkin its cause im not that pretty...please help me and tell me what to do...SiGnEd~DaNgErOusLy In LoVe~ (link)
Dont u think thats kinda mest up that he doesn't people to know because if he likes u he likes u for u not for wut other people think of u.And i bet u r pritty everyong is.What u can do it talk to him about it because that isn't rite in ur part.GOOD LUCK I HOPE I HELPED..:)


hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her? (link)
when ur with ur mom u can just put on the type of music u like and then she will get an idea u dont like prep because music tells ALOT about ur personality.you can also go shopping with her and pick out ur clothes or tell her wut u like and stuff.ya she will get the point of wut u lyke.GOOD LUCK!!


Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!

I'm just so uncomfortable .. (link)
Tell him to back off or throw mean looks at him u can tell ur dad to scare him off but really wut u should do is actualy talk to someone about it or tell him its bothering u or u will do something to really make him stop.


i dont have a boyfriend for my prom and i dont have any friends that are guys (or girls) to go with either ... I know its early but Im not gonna get a b/f cause i dont really want one but i want ot go to prom but nor alone!! help (link)
make FRIENDS!!!!!meet another boi that wants to goto the prom with u but with no strings attached.GOOD LUCK!


im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do? (link)
if the age really matter to u then dont let that be an issue because soon u will be out of school and wutever grade level u r in it wont matter at all.if he seems a bit imature then y don't u just try to be friends with him and wait till he hits maturity or something and by the time he does then u might be ready 4 a relationship.


Well there's this boi, and he goes to my school and all that yatta yatta. But I like him, and I jux found out what his name was, we've never really talked or anything like that before....but a while ago, he was @ my neighbors house, and he was checkin me out, and he was about to go somewhere and he was like I'll be right, you gonna be back out here, and I was like yeah I will, and he was like okay. But yeah, I noticed that he rides my bus and I jux realized how cute he is, and yatta yatta. My patna asked if he was single and lookin and he said yeah, and she described me to him, and she says for me to talk to him but what do I say?????? (link)
BE URSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!I KNOW HE will like u 4 sure and be confident and m@ke convers@tion @bout ur cheerle@ding or something like that I know he will come @round specialy to get with @ CHeerle@der but Anywayz keep y@ he@d up @nd Impress him..GOOD LUCK!!!!!




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