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Long story short...
Been dating a guy since September. Made it "official" the beginning of this month. After a few beers tonight, we were in his bed and he told me he loved me. I know it wasn't to get laid because that happened before we were even dating. So i'm thinking it was mostly because of the alcohol tonight. I did say it back, i think i messed up there because I do like him a lot but not on that level. I am about to sound dumb as hell for asking this but What could I say to apologize for not meaning it? (link)
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Do NOT Say you didn't mean it. That will hurt him more. Just keep it the way it is. because if you try to take it back. he will be very very hurt.
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I am pretty sure I am pregnant with my fathers or maybe (brothers) child.... not sure really. Should I get an abortion, or keep the child. I am 15, I am popular at school, and I am embarrassed, and to top it off I cant do cheer pregnant (totally sucks). What should I do? Please help me. (link)
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This is definitely not an easy question to answer. but I will do what i can to help you.
First off. Was the sex Mutual. Meaning. Did you okay for them to sleep with you. Because If it was not wanted. that is justified as rape. I believe the best person to talk to would be the help line.
http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/Kids/PhoneUs.aspx
They might have an answer better than me,.
I wish you the luck of many life times.
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I'm 14 and I am scared to commit suicide. My reason for these thoughts are:
1. I don't have any friends at school.
2. I never had a girlfriend in my life.
3. My parents like my sister more than me.
4. My parents always get mad at me.
5. The Biggest One: I locked my mom's computer and she has to pay $200 within 48 hours, and if she does, I won't have a christmas
I just I really don't believe in God, because nothing good in my life has happened. I really want to commit suicide, but I'm afraid.
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So we have all made mistakes that made us feel world ending.
1. I didn't either. For the longest time. all i had was myself. It does take time. Maybe try joining a club or a class where you could meet someone in an after school activity.
2. You are only 14 bro,. you have your whole life to date. and date you will :P
3. I had the same issue with the sister thing. it may seem like they do like your sister more than you, it's not that at all. they like you just as much it's just the girl syndrome so don't even think of it.
4. Parents get mad at you in a way to teach you the rights and wrongs of life. they are only looking at your best interest.
5. A simple mistake. Everyone makes them. I've done too many mistakes (age 21) So trust me when i say everyone makes mistakes it's a way of learning. it's also how we grow and discover
Don't commit suicide. you have a whole life ahead of you and have so much going for you
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i am a 21 year old boy . during my college days my classmate who is daily drinker is used to visit my room and making some quarrels.
i am actually shy type. one day he over drink and force me to see sex movies. he force me to pull down in the cot. and he tied me up with him . he kissed me. this happens daily.
i feel very shame. i always think that i did and doing wrong thing. i dont want to be live. but my family is poor. i have to serve and work for my family. what to do? (link)
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Advice man is correct. This is sexual harassment. Anything that is forced on you that makes you feel uncomfortable is unwanted there for harassment. I would talk to someone you trust including a higher power,. such as the police. it may be just kissing now. But it could, and may turn very very bad.
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I am a 13yr old female and never liked to kiss my dads lips. It's isn't a full out make out session but just a really long pucker up and get your face smushed thing. I turn my head so he gets the memo to kiss my check but then he gets really mad at me. I turn to leave and I'm yelled at until I come back. He then says "what the hell is wrong with you?!?" And is ticked off for the rest of the day. My mom and sister are then mad at me too because I can't suck it up. My dad doesn't kiss my sister on the mouth though! He will grab me by my arms and kiss me really hard and won't let me leave! Then sometimes he will kiss my neck and my shoulder and collarbone which makes me really uncomfy. Is this ok? (link)
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honestly. This is not an acceptable way between father and daughter. It is very inappropriate. If it makes you feel uncomfortable you must say so. This may be a mind set for him. but only your partner aka boyfriend/girlfriend should use this affection. Not a father or mother unto a child. If you are to scared to talk to your dad or mom I would suggest talking to the Child's help line. It is completely anonymous and they are trusted people who will be able to help you more.
http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/Teens/Home.aspx
There is a phone number on the top of this website,.
As well there are tons of articles and helpful items on the website as well.
Goodluck!
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I want to go natural. It's been 2 months since I had a relaxer and my hair is still straight. I don't know of any hairstyles. I've been washing, conditioning and moisturizing my hair. I don't use any heat. I'm afraid that my hair will fall out. What can I do to my hair? What kind of hairstyles can I wear since my hair is straight? (link)
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You could try doing a backcombing style,.
it's a poofing style. that adds volume
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Hi, I am male/23, 213 lbs.
I was 243 lbs 3 months back and lost around 30lbs in 3 months. I am a wide framed guy with fair amount of muscle but a thick layer of fat over it.i am eggetarian.
I do cardio in the morning and weights in the eve. Niw I am kind of stuck on 213lbs for almost 20 days so I was th8nking may be its time to start intermittent fastin. But thw problem is if I start my 8 hour window at 11 o'clock then I wont be able to pump my usual protein after weights in the eve that is boiled white eggs at 9 after gym. So can I skip breakfast and start my window at 1 meaning no meal after morning cardio or is there some way to do this better way.
Thanks...any other advice on the topic will be a great too...thanks a million guys. (link)
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I totally don't know how guy's muscle loss works. but this is what i know.
Breakfast is a very important part of your morning. It's like a car without gas. It can't run. Even if you don't want breakfast at lease have a little bit.
I've also been told by a gym trainer. that cardio works after the 30 minute mark. After the 30 minutes your body is warmed up enough and the fat will start burning after that.
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My family thinks that im.a pain in their ass, I love my dad but I always let him down, I dont wanna live a life which is just not me
I cant even run away coz it will eventually lead to problems with my family
I dont wanna give them pain
Plz tel me some suicide tips... Plz help me (link)
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I quote 'I dont wanna give them pain'.
This is exactly what you will be doing and worse if you go thru with suicide. Honestly life will get you down. it will hurt you kick you around and make pies out of your sadness.
But what you have to remember is that you are stronger than life. You can overcome any bridge that gets in your way.
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I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14. We have been dating for 8 months and I really like him(obviously). When I'm with him I forget what to say and he gets mad at for not talking to him. So how could I fix that? I have another question, my boyfriend invited me to him and his family thanksgiving dinner. How can I get his family to like me? (link)
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There is no way to 'GET' Them to like you. All you can do is be yourself. Try opening up to your boyfriend. Talk to him more about something that you are comfortable talking to him about. compliment him. But mostly explain to himm. that you are a very shy person and being in a relationship is going to take some time to get used to.
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ok so im 16, girl, and basically iv been friends with this guy for a few years now, we have been jammin a lot more in the last year and have liked each other on and off for the last two years, i decided to keep it as friends but with benefits ( any teenage boys dream right?)
well i proposed it to him and he said yh, but nothings happened since... im bored of playing the waiting game but has not expirence in that area where as i do but im not used to being the chasing so i dont know what to do, i just wanna know how to play it
so some help would be frickin sweet at this point
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Are you sure you want to be only fwb(Friends with benefits)??
If you both like each other on and off,. Maybe you should try going on a few dates. I only suggest this first,. because i've done this a few times and one person usually ends up developing stronger feelings.
If you do want fwb, try flirting with him, dressing up a bit for him,. or you could just try going in for a kiss
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where in canada do u live to work at mc d's ontario?
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Well I'm not entirely sure of what your question is asking?
There are mcdonald's all over canada. esp in Ontario
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I have no one to turn to. My life is so complicated and I want to get away. How can you kill yourself quick and easy? (link)
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No one in their right mind is going to tell you that,. why not tell us one issue in your life, and we may have some helpful solutions for you?
Life Can get pretty crazy, trust me on that one. But that is no reason to end it. We have all been in points in our lives when we feel we have no one to turn to. I have felt that way many many times.
But i just remember that it always gets better.
It did for me and it will for you.
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My boyfriend is very rude to me. He always calls me a weirdo and judging everything I do. He doesn't like to cuddle or be affectionate. He hurts my feelings. He says he loves me but it doesn't seem like it & doesn't feel like it. Part of me is telling me to leave but the other part is telling me to stay. Which direction should I go? (link)
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Before you do something rash, maybe talk to him about how your feeling. Tell him that he hurts your feelings. and it is not acceptable for him to be calling you names or judging you like that. it's either accept you for who you are or hit the road.
Now You should know you deserve to be loved and called beautiful. and treated like a princess. There are many guys out there too that will do that incase this guy doesn't.
No one deserves to be treated or felt like they are not good enough.
Xo.Jasmine~
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Hi I'm M/22 and I'm from the Philippines. I came out when i was in 1st year college, but not to everyone, but my family knows about my sexual orientation. I have this dilemma in life that i always fall in love with straight guys, but im cool with that, but im not cool with the fact that he doesnt know that I'm gay... i've been with the circle of friends for almost a year now and 2 of my friends know that im gay... what to do with my feelings for this guy? I think I really fell in love with him already... :(
Thanks in advance. (link)
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Because he is a straight man you have to respe t his personal choices, but you also have to be honest with your self. If he flirts back with you or there are signs he might be interested then I would tell him gently. But if he gets wierded out or acts strange wheyou flirt a bit then he isn't bi
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18/f. Guys, I'm in a real pickle. In the beginning of my first year of college, I was acquainted with a cute boy who has a nose ring and had walked by me and smiled and said hello. I know it isn't much but from then on, there was just something about him and I wanted to talk to him and get to know him more. It is now a month into university. I went to a party and met a cute boy and he asked what dorm I was in, I was telling him my dorm and that i really like it, he was telling me that he makes music on his computer. Then he said how there's a guy in his building who found out how to break into people's rooms using a credit card so his computer was stolen and his music hobby is put on hold until that gets sorted out. I had told him that I'm sorry to hear that and we were talking about how shitty some people can be. After that, I had left him to go talk with my friends on the couch. A few minutes later, he asked me to play pong with him. I told him that I wasn't too good but he insisted I play anyway so I did, we lost by one cup but he hugged me and said we need to be partners again because we worked so well together. A little after that I had realized that the building this cute boy from the beginning of the year lives in is run by I.D. cards so I asked the boy from the party if that's the building he lives in, he said yes and I asked if he knew the boy and he said "oh, yea, he's one of my really good friends. He's actually probably waiting up for me right now, I should head out soon to see him." So, I asked if I could have his number to talk to him and get to know him (that's very forward for me. mind you, though, we were both a little intoxicated.) He had replied "well, I'm not sure if I should give his number to you, he's a little weird with that. But I can take your number and I will give it to him!" So, I gave him my number and told him he better not forget to give it to him tomorrow and he said he wouldn't. He left a few minutes after he gathered his crew together. The next day, I was talking to my friend about mr nose ring from the beginning of the year and she said "oh my gosh, I know who you're talking about! I see him around campus.." she seemed a little on edge telling me this so I asked what was up and she hesitated before telling me that she doesn't think anything should happen between me and nose ring. I had told her that we were friends and for her to think this way, I knew she was onto something. She had later explained that he sells pot. Don't get me wrong, I still think that nose ring is very cute but that is a total turn off for me, I think that is super sketchy. I just don't know if I want to get involved in that, I trust that he'd be good with it and not involve me in deals or anything and I'm sure he won't carry, like, mass quantities on him when we are together and such but I can't be totally sure. It all made sense to why his friend from the party didn't want me to have his number, because nose ring doesn't want to get busted or anything.
What would you guys do? I know pot is a small drug compared to the selling of cocaine or something but that's beside the point. What should I do?
P.S. Boy from the party does not like me as he has a girlfriend that goes to another college.
P.P.S Thanks for reading and answering despite the length and jumbled thoughts!! (link)
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Party guy was def into you! He may also have been acting akward because you were asking about his friend. Now is pot dealers is a major turn off follow your gut. And see what happens.
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What do you do when a guy you've liked for a long time rejects you when you tell him you love him, but when he gets a girlfriend (AND IS CHEATING ON HER WITH ANOTHER GIRL), he hits on you? (He hugs you after you tell him he's being stupid and says he loves you) What do you do? Do you react negatively or neutrally? I will NOT react positively, ever. Please don't judge me. If you want to know with more detail, please let me know at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com
Thanks to everyone for answering in advance :D (link)
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One of my close friends did a similar thing. Pretty much h this guy wants to have his cake and eat it to. I would straight up tell him it is very rudeforhim to play around with your feelings Ike that. Your heart is not a game and doesn't deserve that this guy leads all girls on. If he can't even stay faith full to his current gf that brings questions of lieing, cheating. No respect. And discust.
Be strong honey you deserve so much better!
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so last night me and my sister got into a little argument about her moving back to IL wit my mom myself and little brother. so i kept begging her to come up here because once i grauate h.s she wants me to move wit her and i was telln her that i cant just up and leave my family. i became very mad and told her like all she do is want to be distant from her fsmily she left us once when she 13 now that my dad died she came back just for the funeral which i think is wrong like if your family is going through tough times why would you leave again i feel like she just run to avoid stuff so i told her that and now shes mad i havent spoke to her since yesterday i dnt feel like wat i said was wrong but im hurtn idk what to do should i apologize or not (link)
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I think the previous comment or is right but I would like to add that you don't necessarily know the reasons as to why she left or why she made the desicions that she did. So before judging her maybe try talking to her.
I don't think she necessarily wants to take you away from your family I think that she wants to be closer to you as a sister. So remember she is your sister and its better late than never.
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I'm a sophomore in high school. I like this guy. Yesterday his best friend told me that he likes me. I find that hard to believe though. This is because two days ago his ex(which happens to be my best friend) started dating a new guy. As soon as he saw them together his whole mood completely changed. He was sad for the rest of the day. I think that if he would've been over her then seeing her with someone wouldn't have affected him. His best friend though swears that he is over her and in fact dislikes her because she cheated on him. I think that he wants to get over her but can't. I saw the pain in his eyes. Also I confessed to his best friend that I liked my crush. He then texted him and told him that I said I liked him so he should ask me out. A while later my crush saw me and simply walked by ignoring me and he hasn't contacted me. There's a party tonight and him,his best friend,his ex,his exes new boyfriend and me are suppose to go. I feel like not going to not deal with all of this. I'm so scared to be rejected and have to be heartbroken. What do I do? (link)
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You want to make sure that he is really truly over her. You don't want to be a rebound at all. It takes a strong woman to be strong even when the truth of liking someone is out there and known. I would just go the the party with your friends and people and just enjoy your time. Be strong. If something happens it happens if not it doesnt
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OK a new girl came to my school I had bad feeling about her she keeps flirting with my boyfriend and once my bf told his best friend that he like her I was crying he never knew I was crying but Anyway he came back for me but she is still flirting with him and I think she is falling for her again and I need revenge I know god will punish he but I can't help it she is killing me everyone keep saying I am a big softy and that I should slap her in the face but I want revenge that is telling the truth about what she has done that my boyfriend will hate her for I am 10 years old thank you for your help. (link)
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First of all,. Revenge will not do anything but push him more towards her. What u need to do is talk to you boyfriend. Be open and tell hi that it bothers you when the flirt. Also you need to ask this girl to stop it is not acceptable for her to be doing what she is doing
Good luck!
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how to sign out e-mail ID, then not show sign out option
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Depends which E-mail service are you using.. Gmail, Hotmail, yahoo??
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