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Should I pursue it or not?
18/f. Guys, I'm in a real pickle. In the beginning of my first year of college, I was acquainted with a cute boy who has a nose ring and had walked by me and smiled and said hello. I know it isn't much but from then on, there was just something about him and I wanted to talk to him and get to know him more. It is now a month into university. I went to a party and met a cute boy and he asked what dorm I was in, I was telling him my dorm and that i really like it, he was telling me that he makes music on his computer. Then he said how there's a guy in his building who found out how to break into people's rooms using a credit card so his computer was stolen and his music hobby is put on hold until that gets sorted out. I had told him that I'm sorry to hear that and we were talking about how shitty some people can be. After that, I had left him to go talk with my friends on the couch. A few minutes later, he asked me to play pong with him. I told him that I wasn't too good but he insisted I play anyway so I did, we lost by one cup but he hugged me and said we need to be partners again because we worked so well together. A little after that I had realized that the building this cute boy from the beginning of the year lives in is run by I.D. cards so I asked the boy from the party if that's the building he lives in, he said yes and I asked if he knew the boy and he said "oh, yea, he's one of my really good friends. He's actually probably waiting up for me right now, I should head out soon to see him." So, I asked if I could have his number to talk to him and get to know him (that's very forward for me. mind you, though, we were both a little intoxicated.) He had replied "well, I'm not sure if I should give his number to you, he's a little weird with that. But I can take your number and I will give it to him!" So, I gave him my number and told him he better not forget to give it to him tomorrow and he said he wouldn't. He left a few minutes after he gathered his crew together. The next day, I was talking to my friend about mr nose ring from the beginning of the year and she said "oh my gosh, I know who you're talking about! I see him around campus.." she seemed a little on edge telling me this so I asked what was up and she hesitated before telling me that she doesn't think anything should happen between me and nose ring. I had told her that we were friends and for her to think this way, I knew she was onto something. She had later explained that he sells pot. Don't get me wrong, I still think that nose ring is very cute but that is a total turn off for me, I think that is super sketchy. I just don't know if I want to get involved in that, I trust that he'd be good with it and not involve me in deals or anything and I'm sure he won't carry, like, mass quantities on him when we are together and such but I can't be totally sure. It all made sense to why his friend from the party didn't want me to have his number, because nose ring doesn't want to get busted or anything.
What would you guys do? I know pot is a small drug compared to the selling of cocaine or something but that's beside the point. What should I do?
P.S. Boy from the party does not like me as he has a girlfriend that goes to another college.
P.P.S Thanks for reading and answering despite the length and jumbled thoughts!!
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yeah it's a little complicated indeed..do you really like him?if you do why don't you give him a chance and see how things will go-you never know :) but if that pot thing is a real problem for you then just get him out of your mind..but nowadays so much people get involved in this things and you actually don't know the reasons why he's involved too :/ maybe i'm a dreamer but if i was you i'll try it and try to get him out of the business too...
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Party guy was def into you! He may also have been acting akward because you were asking about his friend. Now is pot dealers is a major turn off follow your gut. And see what happens.
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IF pot is illegal in your state, stay away. There's plenty of other guys out there. Sounds to me like the pong guy was into you...
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