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Age: 17
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There's this guy tht goes to my church and I liked but I don't want to date him. But I still liked him but then my friend from church told me tht he liked her and then I stopped liking him. But then a week later he didn't look like he liked her tht much so I started liking him again. But then today at lunch this girl tht is kinda my friend said she was dating him and now I'm kinda mad. I think i kno y he doesn't like me tho. I think its because he thinks I'm to girly but Idk Wat to do bout tht. I don't kno Wat to do and I don't kno y I want him to like me anyway cause if I do I can't date him cause my older church friend said never date a church boy and I agreed to myself tht I wasn't gonna date this year. I don't kno Wat to do should I just give up or try to get him to like me but date other people. I don't kno please help!!!! (link)
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honey you're sooo confused.i know exactly how you feel i've been there too :/ i understand that you like him very much and you get jealous about him :/ and if you keep on like this you're going to be hurt :/ but i don't think you're ready to date him.. you should figure out what you truly want first,solve things with your self and then try to make a move...the most important thing is that you should be YOU and accept yourself the way you are,every girl is precious and unique in her own way and so are you :) you should never change the way you are for anyone! do what makes you feel good :) if it doesn't feel right than don't make a move..
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I text my boyfriend everyday, and call him at most once a day. Is that considered clingy? We hardly hang out. I have a job, I go to school & I friends. When I want to call him or hang out he doesn't want to. He acts like I get on his nerves sometimes.We have mutual friends and I hear that he tells them that I always want his attention. It hurts my feelings when he doesn't want to talk to me sometimes, I get paranoid. I don't think that I'm always up under him, but some days he wants to be with me and we're happy. Other days he treats me like I'm an annoying little sister sometimes. Am I being clingy?If I am I don't wanna lose him, so how do I work on staying "not-clingy"?
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well i think that your problem can be solved out in 2 ways..
1.talk to him,tell him what's going on between you 2 and why he's acting like that
or..
2.play the part you too.don't call him and wait him to call you,then hang up first saying that you have stuff to do now see if he misses you,play interesting and discover if he's going to change his attitude..have self confidence you can do it!you can solve this out :)
ps.you're not clingy at all!
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18/f. Guys, I'm in a real pickle. In the beginning of my first year of college, I was acquainted with a cute boy who has a nose ring and had walked by me and smiled and said hello. I know it isn't much but from then on, there was just something about him and I wanted to talk to him and get to know him more. It is now a month into university. I went to a party and met a cute boy and he asked what dorm I was in, I was telling him my dorm and that i really like it, he was telling me that he makes music on his computer. Then he said how there's a guy in his building who found out how to break into people's rooms using a credit card so his computer was stolen and his music hobby is put on hold until that gets sorted out. I had told him that I'm sorry to hear that and we were talking about how shitty some people can be. After that, I had left him to go talk with my friends on the couch. A few minutes later, he asked me to play pong with him. I told him that I wasn't too good but he insisted I play anyway so I did, we lost by one cup but he hugged me and said we need to be partners again because we worked so well together. A little after that I had realized that the building this cute boy from the beginning of the year lives in is run by I.D. cards so I asked the boy from the party if that's the building he lives in, he said yes and I asked if he knew the boy and he said "oh, yea, he's one of my really good friends. He's actually probably waiting up for me right now, I should head out soon to see him." So, I asked if I could have his number to talk to him and get to know him (that's very forward for me. mind you, though, we were both a little intoxicated.) He had replied "well, I'm not sure if I should give his number to you, he's a little weird with that. But I can take your number and I will give it to him!" So, I gave him my number and told him he better not forget to give it to him tomorrow and he said he wouldn't. He left a few minutes after he gathered his crew together. The next day, I was talking to my friend about mr nose ring from the beginning of the year and she said "oh my gosh, I know who you're talking about! I see him around campus.." she seemed a little on edge telling me this so I asked what was up and she hesitated before telling me that she doesn't think anything should happen between me and nose ring. I had told her that we were friends and for her to think this way, I knew she was onto something. She had later explained that he sells pot. Don't get me wrong, I still think that nose ring is very cute but that is a total turn off for me, I think that is super sketchy. I just don't know if I want to get involved in that, I trust that he'd be good with it and not involve me in deals or anything and I'm sure he won't carry, like, mass quantities on him when we are together and such but I can't be totally sure. It all made sense to why his friend from the party didn't want me to have his number, because nose ring doesn't want to get busted or anything.
What would you guys do? I know pot is a small drug compared to the selling of cocaine or something but that's beside the point. What should I do?
P.S. Boy from the party does not like me as he has a girlfriend that goes to another college.
P.P.S Thanks for reading and answering despite the length and jumbled thoughts!! (link)
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yeah it's a little complicated indeed..do you really like him?if you do why don't you give him a chance and see how things will go-you never know :) but if that pot thing is a real problem for you then just get him out of your mind..but nowadays so much people get involved in this things and you actually don't know the reasons why he's involved too :/ maybe i'm a dreamer but if i was you i'll try it and try to get him out of the business too...
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I have a boyfriend i have been with for a year and he has always been controlling. I am at the point were i cant take him telling me what i can and cannot do. I have told people about him and all of them have said get out now he is going to become abusive. I believe them because there have been times where he gets so angry that he is about to punch me but ends up not doing it. I am so sick of all the pointless pain. I am trying to get out now but he keeps saying i will change i cant live without you. I can't get out someone help. Please :( (link)
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maybe he loves you but even if he does that doesn't mean he's going to change...somethings aren't up to us unfortunately :/the controlling part is a part of his personality and he just can't change the way he is..this kind of relationships usually don't end up good.i think that if you don't want to be really hurt you should get out as fast as you can...tell him how you feel,if you are scared text him or something :/ and tell him that you can't go on like this anymore.just do the thing that seems more right to you and don't be afraid :) everything will be ok in the end-always :) stay positive and you will make it,no one deserves your tears :)
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I am crushing super hard on my SI organic chemistry student tutor. Let's call me *Kane*. He's really smart, but not arrogant, so cute, funny, and laid back. I want to talk to him, but I just don't when. I only seem on three occasion : 1) when he's sits in on my lecture 2) when i go the SI tutor 3) when I go see my private tutor. I just can't talk to him alone, and its driving me crazy, because I really think we hit it off. I just don't how start with, because he's not the typical guy I fall for, and its freaking me out. I just don't wanna come off as stupid or creepy grrr I don't know what to do, I just really like him a lot! Help! (link)
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you say he's not arrogant right?so hopefully if you talk to him he'll definitely talk to you :) see love is risky..:/ you win or you lose but if you really like him so much try girl!if you want something go and get it :) if nothing happens he will be the one that misses out :/ hey if you don't try you will never know what might have happened and you'll regret it :/ why don't you ask him for help with chemistry?and if you are a better student then him just volunteer to help him ;)
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So me and this guy were friends for 3 years. And I never like liked him. Until lats friday. I rally like him. So he asked me out* he gave me hugs like 10 times a day. I just want to know if I should like kiss him on the cheek or something??* thX!!! 14/F (link)
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well first of all..are you really sure that you do like him?because maybe you're confused.if you do like him and you are 100 % positive that you want to have a thing with this guy then yes you should give him a sign that you like him too :)
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Hey Everyone! My best friend was dating this guy...
He ended up cheating on her and she told me "I'm going to commit suicide. I'm done."
When she said that, I just wanted to beat that boy with a hammer.
Anyways, he really hurt her and i'm scared she'll commit suicide. I really don't know what to do. She hasn't smiled at all today after this happened (I wasn't there when this happened because I had to talk with my math teacher). What do I do?! If she goes down, I go down with her. (link)
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i know how it feels..my best friend always ends up with the wrong guy and one day she cut herself :( she's okay now but she was so depressed and i know that you feel bad too because you don't want to see her cry..you should not let her alone any moment!talk to her 24/7.you girls should go out together do stuff you love so that she feels better.and the most important thing is to raise her self confidence right now...:/ talk to her and tell her that everything happens for a reason..some things fall apart so better things can fall together :) maybe she will find her perfect guy soon,you never know :)
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If my boyfriend asked me out I say yes but then 3 days later it is like I don't even exist He aint talking to me any more and he is chatting with the boys what should I do ? (link)
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figure out what happened...this thing happened to me too once and i discovered that somebody had tell him something bad about me.:/ i really think you should ask him directly what happened between you 2 and why he doesn't talk to you.the sooner the better :) hope you figure this out :)
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i am 32. I loved a girl and considered her the Goddess of my life, never looked at any other girl but later we(she and myself) discovered that i have erectile dysfuncion. She says i knew it and i did not tell her. She says i cheated her. So she left me. I am devastated. Want to end my life because
1. I don't know whether my ED is curable or not
2. Even if it is, my life is worthless because she doesn't love me anymore she hates me and loves somebody else. So without her, i cannot even think of life
I have no hopes left other than killing myself
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hey..killing yourself is not an option!do you think that this way you'll solve your problem?well no.we shouldn't run away we should face them and solve them :) i think that you should focus on your disease right now and do everything u can to cure it.why don't you try and talk to her?explain her the way you feel and all this situation.if she TRULY loves you she will come back..if she doesn't then she's not worth your pain..:/ look think it over once more..life is really precious and you have so much years ahead of u..why would you want to stop your life?i understand that you feel very sad and i can't blame you but life goes on...things always change and time heals everything,really.:) don't do it don't kill yourself get over this problem and start living again!you know everything happens for a reason :)
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hi dear!!am 20 years old female(India). one boy loves me sincerely.even i do..he is so much possessive.. he will not let me to talk with any other boys because of his possessiveness..but sometimes i hate him because of this attitude because i will not be able to talk to any other boys even though i think they are my good friend.... he always cares for my proper dressings..always he warns me to dress up neatly..i assure you i always dress up neatly..sometimes without my knowledge my shawl can move aside.. but he never forgive me for that.. always he scolds me in public that i wanted to adjust my shawl..even he has bet me once in our bus-stop before all because of this shawl matter.. i was so much hurt when i asked for the reason crying he said i bet you because your shawl was not proper and so happy that i have full rites to beat you since you are my wife like that he said...also if i put mobile in silent mode then if he is not able to contact me he will get more tension and scolds me like a hell... all these silly matters hurts me a lot.. but still he loves me he cares for me like heaven..he is in true love with me... whenever he scolds me i feel like hating him and i feel like i lost my life totally..Even though i think to leave him my heart is not allowing me..am suffering to see him lonely..because he has no friends in college...what should i do???is this kind of love important??always it ends up with a fight whenever i think to be happy with him... i cant lead a good life..he is the person who can do anything for me.he is my family friend too..am the girl always wanted to be happy..always i should feel free..i hate anyone who comple me to do something..but in this love am happening to sacrifice many things..if i change my character and sacrifice all the things for my guy,wil i be able to be happy?? if i decide to leave him,there will be no one for me who cares for me but at the same time i wanted to be happy..what should i do??please help and advice me.... (link)
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look...i totally understand the way you feel..:( but if you change your character i don't really think that you would be happy..love is so much complicated i know...but if he doesn't accept you the way you are and makes you sad then i think you should let go...you're just 20.you are going to love again i assure you.my advice is:better a painful end than an endless pain...life goes on and things always change..better things will come to your life and i tell u that by personal experience.hope that u will solve this and be happy again.:)
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