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hiiiiii im lily,
my favorite colors are purple, black and green
I LOVE TO READ
I LOVE ANIMALS
I LOVE MUSIC
i can get very hyper sometimes and be a little annoying
i very friendly and open!
i love horror movies
thats it!:D
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Location: England
Age: 15
Member Since: October 2, 2012
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Last Update: October 3, 2012
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I was raped last year by a man who i didn't know.. i saw him around like twice but i had always told my best friend and this childs protection woman i didn't know the man..
I am Fourteen...
It is so hard i have lack of confidence.. i get stressed way too easily and i just am not worthy of anything.. i hate my body and i feel ugly on the inside and outside. I feel dead on the inside infact ... I am pretty sure i suffer with depression (like my mum) but i haven't spoken to the doctors .. for about a month i would eat and make myself sick.. I got a throat infection from doing it too much..
And i refuse a councellor because im ashamed... How do i recover? (link)
okk omgg u have to tell someone, he has to pay for what he's done if he isn't locked up then he might hurt some other girls to you should report him to the police or an adult that will help you. And there is no way for you to heal in a certain time, you body and mind will take its own time healing and even thought you don't want to see a counseller you really should because it they will help you to recover
Lilyrain


Ok, so I am 13 years old and I liked this guy, so my friend asked what he thought of me and he said he might go out with me. It turns out he was lying. He did it for the fun of it. He then said that I would never have a chance with him. He also said I would never find love or a boyfriend ever. Then what shocked me. He said that I come of very slutty and am a slut. I have NEVER had sex or even had a boyfriend. I was raised by good parents and always wear clothes that don't show too much cleavage or shorts that are too short. I don't wear that much makeup either. Recently I was called a slut again by my friends sister. I am always really nice to people and I don't understand why they all seem to hate me.. Am I a slut?? I am starting to believe it since a lot of people are saying it. (link)
Of course your not a slut, what those kids are doing is bullying you there trying to make you feel bad about yourself, and you shouldn't listen to them. And that guy he's not the right person for you if he's treating you like that the next time someone says that to you either ignore it, tell them to stop (calmly) and if it continues then tell an adult that you trust.
lily-rain:D


hi dear!!am 20 years old female(India). one boy loves me sincerely.even i do..he is so much possessive.. he will not let me to talk with any other boys because of his possessiveness..but sometimes i hate him because of this attitude because i will not be able to talk to any other boys even though i think they are my good friend.... he always cares for my proper dressings..always he warns me to dress up neatly..i assure you i always dress up neatly..sometimes without my knowledge my shawl can move aside.. but he never forgive me for that.. always he scolds me in public that i wanted to adjust my shawl..even he has bet me once in our bus-stop before all because of this shawl matter.. i was so much hurt when i asked for the reason crying he said i bet you because your shawl was not proper and so happy that i have full rites to beat you since you are my wife like that he said...also if i put mobile in silent mode then if he is not able to contact me he will get more tension and scolds me like a hell... all these silly matters hurts me a lot.. but still he loves me he cares for me like heaven..he is in true love with me... whenever he scolds me i feel like hating him and i feel like i lost my life totally..Even though i think to leave him my heart is not allowing me..am suffering to see him lonely..because he has no friends in college...what should i do???is this kind of love important??always it ends up with a fight whenever i think to be happy with him... i cant lead a good life..he is the person who can do anything for me.he is my family friend too..am the girl always wanted to be happy..always i should feel free..i hate anyone who comple me to do something..but in this love am happening to sacrifice many things..if i change my character and sacrifice all the things for my guy,wil i be able to be happy?? if i decide to leave him,there will be no one for me who cares for me but at the same time i wanted to be happy..what should i do??please help and advice me.... (link)
he might love you be he had no right to treat you the way he does, he does no own you, you are your own person and can make your own decisions. If you really love him and don't want to break it off you should both sit down and you should tell him how you feel when he treats you like this, give him a warning (not to harsh) but let him know that he can't control you just because you are together. You should never ever change for anyone else be yourself and if he doesn't like that then he's obviously not in love with, don't change yourself because you will be unhappy.
Good luck hope you work it out
lily-rain


My stomach has hurt all day and I got home from school and went to the bathroom when I wiped there was blood on the toilet paper am I starting my period? (link)
you probably did get your period, you should talk to your mom or a female guardian more about it nothing to worry about thought
lilyrain:)




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