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Am I a slut???
Ok, so I am 13 years old and I liked this guy, so my friend asked what he thought of me and he said he might go out with me. It turns out he was lying. He did it for the fun of it. He then said that I would never have a chance with him. He also said I would never find love or a boyfriend ever. Then what shocked me. He said that I come of very slutty and am a slut. I have NEVER had sex or even had a boyfriend. I was raised by good parents and always wear clothes that don't show too much cleavage or shorts that are too short. I don't wear that much makeup either. Recently I was called a slut again by my friends sister. I am always really nice to people and I don't understand why they all seem to hate me.. Am I a slut?? I am starting to believe it since a lot of people are saying it.
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-Never had a boyfriend
-Raised by good parents
-Wears appropriate clothes
-Doesn't wear too much makeup
-Always nice
No. They are just being mean to you, and you friend's sister is just jealous.
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Of course your not a slut, what those kids are doing is bullying you there trying to make you feel bad about yourself, and you shouldn't listen to them. And that guy he's not the right person for you if he's treating you like that the next time someone says that to you either ignore it, tell them to stop (calmly) and if it continues then tell an adult that you trust.
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If what you say is true about how you dress and how you act then what those kids are doing to you is called bullying. And the fact that you're only 13, don't let immature words like "you'll never find love or a boyfriend" get to you. You have your whole life ahead of you and assumingly you're in middle school, you will not have to see a lot of these people in a while and then when you go to college, you'll see even less of them. And you will meet lots of nice guys who will love your nice personality more than anything else. If you've never had a boyfriend and you're called a slut then chances are, your friends are intimidated by you and possibly quite jealous of you. My advice is to continue being nice to everyone and people will realize that they are wasting their effort by focusing negative attention on you when they should be concerned about their own attitudes.
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NO; I hate that word there is no such thing as a slut it should be banned from the dictionary.
If this is happening at school you are being bullied and sexually harnessed. You need to report this to a teacher or a principal as this type of interaction between students is not allowed. Schools have a zero tolerance for this even if it is happening off school property.
You should also talk to you parents as bullying and sexual harassment, regardless of age is against the law. The kids that are saying this to you need to learn a lesson. The sooner they do the better off they will be.
Regardless of your age you are responsible for your actions and words. Now because of their age the penalty that the law may require is different than that of an adult. Still standing before a judge in juvenile court can be very sobering even for a 13 year old.
You have done nothing wrong. You are by no means a slut. Your so called friends are sexually harassing you and having fun at your expense. This is very, very wrong. They need to be taught a lesson as in what is acceptable and what is not acceptable even in jest or fun.
There is a right way and a wrong way to teach them they are wrong. In the society we live in we tell the proper authorities and allow them to do the teaching. The way to do this is to tell your parents and let them contact the school and or the police. You should not have to be harassed in this manner.
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No your not a slut dear, ignore what they say. they are obviously jealous of you. You must one beautiful young lady if they have to call you such a name like that to put you down. Unfortunately that's what some girls do when they're jealous of you; and that guy dont know what he's talking about guys that age are very immature and stupid lol. i would just brush it off and keep it moving girl. And i would leave that guy alone, if he really likes you he wouldn't call you a slut and he doesn't even know you.
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no, of course your not a slut. lots of people love to just throw around words like that thinking it wont affect anyone when really it hurts you so much. and by the sounds of it they have no reason to call you a slut because you have never given them a reason. i think the guy is just scared to date so he wants to look tough by calling you a slut. and the girl is definitely jeaous of you and to make herself feel better she calls you a slut. but you are NOT a slut, no matter what everyone tells you.
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