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I went through a divorce, lost my home, lost my job, and declared bankruptcy in the last year. I am 57 and feel totally hopeless. I am on medication but I don't think it is helping. I am suicidal but haven't act ed on it. Deep down I know I don't want to die; I just want the pain to stop.!! Any suggestions please? (link)
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My mum - is 40.
is going through exactly the same - suicidal but still not wanting to die deep down, because she has us (kids).
We are broke.
From my perspective - We live off out friends and happiness. we are supported and just need to keep your head up and keep in there.
Things are going to get better. If you have over come suicidal thoughts, you are strong enough to go through anything - My mum told me that.
If you can't go through the problem, go around it.
The Outcome will be the same, the journey will be different.
Stay strong.
Keep your head up x
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I'm 14 years of age and a girl. I myself and others view me as responsible, up until recently to be honest. I spent the weekend with my best friend and one of the other girls we hang out with, my friends mum was out along with her older brother while her two younger siblings slept, we got bored and decided to go for a walk, after a while we invited these two guys (that only my best friend knew) to the park up the road. after a while my best friend went off to 'do things' and the other went walking. the remaining guy asked me to give him a blow job, i protested for over half an hour till i finally gave in. After 20 seconds of giving him a blow job (on and off, so more like 8 seconds :L) i felt extremely stupid and reviled... i ran off telling him i couldn't go through with it... later on in the night, i gave my "sort of" friend a hand job... i felt like a complete skank for the rest of the night and this entire week. I just need an anonymous opinion to help me figure out whether what i did was all that horrible.. Help!! (link)
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I, think its all about growing up and the fact that you felt immoral for doing what you did, makes you kind of understand yourself a little bit more... (if you understand) ...
Maybe you should have been a bit more stubborn... But maybe it was for the greater good because you feel guilty for doing it, it doesnt make you a skank at all..
Growing up makes you see yourself for who you really are :)
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hey jasmine
i'm 15 years old and I've been fingered by 2 guys
but strangely i somehow don't get any kind of pleasure in fingering
is there something wrong ?
like i mean i read on a lot of websites about the reason being the guy not handling the clitoris but even that didn't help
please help !
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Maybe it is just not for you.
It is not for me either... It does not mean to say there is anything wrong with you
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Okay im 15 going on 16 i am 6 weeks pregnant , i understand that i am very young but it was a mistake I'm against abortions some how my guardian has found out and i am being forced to get a abortion i understand being a mother is very huge responsibility but i will just have to deal with it i rufuse to kill my child i feel as though its wrong that some one else can't have a chance at life . My grand mother said if i don't get the abortion she's gonna put me in foster care , what do i do
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Woah :/
In school, we were talking about this, and really it should be YOUR choice. If you dont believe that something is right, don't do it, you will regret it, mistakes happen, people have to learn and deal with the consequences one way or another..
You need to sit down and have a proper talk with your family, they should support you no matter what.
Do what you thinks right hun
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Hi, I'm 14 years old and insecure. My friend is gorgeous, she 5'9 and 115 pounds she gets all the boys and whenever i'm with her i feel horrible about myself. recently i have been making myself throw up i just want to be pretty and have people like me like they do her, i know i cant be her but i see her and then look at myself and i feel like shit. i wish i was like her and i need to know what i need to do to make self be more confident and prettier, i have semi long dark brown hair large green a few acne problems im 5ft7 and weigh 175 pounds, i have thin lips. I play softball and volleyball. I really want to be confident but i dont know how to get myself their please help me with this it means a lot!!! (link)
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Ouch, doesn't sound at all very nice for you...
Making yourself throw up wont make you her. Nothing will. you need to be yourself and confident with yourself (easier said than done)
(im 14) and i understand about the guys going for her because she is pretty. guys at 14 are full with testostorone.
prove yourself by being you... i play volleyball :)
sport is a great way of doing so...
there will be days when she wishes she was someone else... we all do. were all full of envy..
noones perfect. stay strong xox
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is there a name for it when you drink and get horny
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I don't know..
But when i drink .. I get horny too.. and it is bad because when i am sober i am not half as affectionate..
I think its normal..
Like being drunk and violent (which i once was aswell)
I am pretty sure its normal because of what the drink does to your brain.
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I like this guy in my class, and I think he likes me too. All the signs are there; he talks to me a lot, he comes over to me first when he has a question about something, he sits next to me whenever he can, etc.
So, my question is - what should I do to show him that I like him too? Note - I've had problems in the past with being TOO obvious, & not just to the guy, the whole class. This time (after practicing with a "crush" on some jerk in my class, just to see if I could be less obvious --- an incredible success by the way) I'm doing a pretty good job at making it very subtle, yet visible, & I don't want to break my streak.
So I want to know if anyone out there has a strategy or something that would help me with this. My goal is to show him that I like him, maybe even flirt a bit, & not to get him to be freaked out and run away, like the other guys I scared away...
Thanks to everyone who answers in advance! & I hope you have an amazing day! :) (link)
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Ahaha you sound so amazing..
Ok you need to be completely sure that he likes you before you pull any moves alriight?
Subtle is good - but don't always be subtle.. step it up a knotch be fun ;D
1: get him to laugh
2: Get him to teach you how to do something
3: spend a day doing stuff he really likes
4: Go through some heartbreak that will make him feel sorry for you... (Don't get tooo traumatic though)
5: thank him for helping you getting over your traumatic event ;D
ahahah i hope this helps
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Okay, I have a pretty messed up life and I've been abused mentally and physically by my parents and other kids, in that order. I'm 12 years old and have depression and PTSD. I am required to see a councilor by my school. Take into consideration that these are very little details of what actually goes in my life. Whenever I get sad, I cut, write in my diary, and then I listen to really sad music and write poems for hours. Is this an abnormal way of responding? (link)
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Listen ...
I have been both physically and mentally abused too.. What you have got to realise is you are not the only person in the world that feels like this. People understand kid.. and poetry.. I love poetry.. infact i write poems all the time and when i am sad i listen to sad music aswell.. that is normal but kid, don't cut... you're not a piece of meat, you are so much more than that. Your so young to have all of this on your shoulders, get a councillor - take the chance to live a different life.. someone you can tell everything to and they don't judge you. I promise. A diary as well BRILLIANT.. i have never been able to keep a diary - express yourself in art, poetry, writing and sport... Sport is the best way to release stress and shit like that
Don't cut. express yourself in different ways
Good luck sweets, chin up
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Long story short, my son and daughter in law left the country some time ago and left their children with me. I became their legal guardian shortly afterwards knowing that it would be a permanent arrangement as their parents don't plan to be back until after their on their own. My grandson is hard to upset and acts fine with everything, but my granddaughter has all of these mother- daughter things to go to and since I'm the one who'll always go with her to those, as well as the person who takes care of her and is legally responsible for her, she wants to know if she is my kid now. I've explained to her that her mom and dad will always be just that and she will always be their daughter, but she wants to know if she is my kid too. Is she? Legally she is, and I have always considered most of my grandchildren to be mine, as I've done a lot to help raise them and take care of them, but am I thinking that she's mine in the same way she is? What do I tell her? (link)
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You have to think -
Just because you are not their actual mum doesn't make you any less of a "real" mum - because you have brought these kids up... you are LEGAL responsible for them. if your son and daughter in law don't have regular contact - what makes them their "real" parents..
On the other hand you have to tell them that their mum and dad are not around but you are like their second mummy ?
Its hard - depending on their age don't be brutal... be suttle and just be honest...
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Hey Everyone! My best friend was dating this guy...
He ended up cheating on her and she told me "I'm going to commit suicide. I'm done."
When she said that, I just wanted to beat that boy with a hammer.
Anyways, he really hurt her and i'm scared she'll commit suicide. I really don't know what to do. She hasn't smiled at all today after this happened (I wasn't there when this happened because I had to talk with my math teacher). What do I do?! If she goes down, I go down with her. (link)
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How the hell hasn't anyone answered this before me?!
Right just take her out and do stuff... Get her back into a routine and do stuff that wont make her think about it... NEVER bring up the subject ... It will trigger her... she will get better in time... Like i said get her used to a routine and do stuff that makes her happy, stuff that will take her mind off it.. she will say "no i don't want to go" but belive me ... if you take her to do something SHE LOVES she will be happy at that point because she ont think about it... need to ask me or amswer this question... email me? oocorbyoo@gmail.com
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I wash myself "down there" twice a day, the same times I wash my face and brush my teeth in the morning and at night. I make sure that I've dried myself completely, and everything. I don't understand how I could have this smell even though I clean myself twice a day. It makes me very self - conscious and I get nervous that others can smell it. There are certain stretches and things in gym at school that I can't do because of it. Someone please help me.
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Jeez... Sounds difficult..
Do you sweat alot? because that can sometimes cause it... try use a different wash?
Not the best idea but i don't know lots about it :/
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I am a 16 year old year old girl and I love to masturbate. But the same old ways are getting boring. Does anyone have some tips or tricks? (link)
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Right...
Have you tried just using random objects like i dunno a candle stick? ahahah
Odd stuff... Watch porn and do it.. Just think to yourself THIS IS AMAZING...
get a sex toy?
Explore different ways ... YOLO
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i'm currently in high school and I've promised my self that this year i will study and will not leave my assignment till the due date and so far i have kept to me promise but when i get my projects and tests back my mark does not seem to improve. Also i have this friend that studies at the last minute and copies of my home work and notes and she gets better marks then me. what am i doing wrong? help please (link)
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Hey!
I have to be honest.. I was exactly like you.. Always having to promise myself to be more organised. And i had a friend that copied EVERYTHING..
I know it sounds cheesey but do the homework that night ... It does help and it gets easier.. Yeah that means less social life? But do a bit after and before dinner. Tell the friend you haven't done the homework then she wont be able to copy you..
It sound like your friend and you are in the same boat (Not being able to catch up) And i could never tell my friend "Stop copying me" but then what i did was just say " i can't find it" or " i haven't got it" or just be straight up with her YOLO... ahaha
Study hard and keep in mind all of these assignments (yeah they are a pain) but you need to do them for your later life !
Good luck sweets
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