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Do you think I'm clingy towards my boyfriend?
I text my boyfriend everyday, and call him at most once a day. Is that considered clingy? We hardly hang out. I have a job, I go to school & I friends. When I want to call him or hang out he doesn't want to. He acts like I get on his nerves sometimes.We have mutual friends and I hear that he tells them that I always want his attention. It hurts my feelings when he doesn't want to talk to me sometimes, I get paranoid. I don't think that I'm always up under him, but some days he wants to be with me and we're happy. Other days he treats me like I'm an annoying little sister sometimes. Am I being clingy?If I am I don't wanna lose him, so how do I work on staying "not-clingy"?
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well i think that your problem can be solved out in 2 ways..
1.talk to him,tell him what's going on between you 2 and why he's acting like that
or..
2.play the part you too.don't call him and wait him to call you,then hang up first saying that you have stuff to do now see if he misses you,play interesting and discover if he's going to change his attitude..have self confidence you can do it!you can solve this out :)
ps.you're not clingy at all!
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I don't really think you're clingy. If anything your boyfriend doesn't seem well invested in the relationship as much as your are. I think it's perfectly normal to call your significant other at least once a day. I mean, just the attempt in calling once a day seems to be fine. He could at least have the decency to pick up and tell you a little bit of something before he has to attend back to his business. Tell him you like to hear from him through phone a lot because of your busy schedule. You need to talk to him because it'll just get worse from this point. I mean, he shouldn't even be telling people that he thinks you want his attention too much. Hope everything works out for you.
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