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i am 32. I loved a girl and considered her the Goddess of my life, never looked at any other girl but later we(she and myself) discovered that i have erectile dysfuncion. She says i knew it and i did not tell her. She says i cheated her. So she left me. I am devastated. Want to end my life because
1. I don't know whether my ED is curable or not
2. Even if it is, my life is worthless because she doesn't love me anymore she hates me and loves somebody else. So without her, i cannot even think of life
I have no hopes left other than killing myself
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hey..killing yourself is not an option!do you think that this way you'll solve your problem?well no.we shouldn't run away we should face them and solve them :) i think that you should focus on your disease right now and do everything u can to cure it.why don't you try and talk to her?explain her the way you feel and all this situation.if she TRULY loves you she will come back..if she doesn't then she's not worth your pain..:/ look think it over once more..life is really precious and you have so much years ahead of u..why would you want to stop your life?i understand that you feel very sad and i can't blame you but life goes on...things always change and time heals everything,really.:) don't do it don't kill yourself get over this problem and start living again!you know everything happens for a reason :)
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you shouldnt end your life because of this one girl i think if she didnt want your love she shouldnt get it when she leaves your to good for her
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I agree with NinjaNeer about both the ED problem and the girl, your better off with out her. She did not love you if your ED problem was enough to send her into the arms of someone else. If she truly loved you she would have stayed and helped you with the ED problem.
There are a host of reasons why a man suffers from Erectile Dysfunction stemming from the organic to non organic. Most are easily corrected with medication or surgery. Only a doctor can tell you why you are suffering with this problem so you need to see a BOARD CERTIFIED UROLOGIST.
Suicide is not an answer it is the wrong solution to a correctable problem. The girl does not deserve you and you deserve better than her. Relationships are built on more than just sex. One day you wake up and you have to talk to each other. If all you have is sex you don't have a relationship you have a booty call. These relationships never last. In my view you are better off without her for she would have eventually broken your heart anyway.
There are two things I would like you to do the first is I would like you to call the following organization. They are the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. No matter what problems you are dealing with, they can help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you will be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7. They are far more qualified then I am to help you and they can help you.
The second is to see a Urologist about the ED problem. Make sure the doctor you chose is Board Certified in Urology as this means this doctor has been specifically trained, did a Fellowship and passed all the requirements to be certified in the practice of Urology. While any doctor can treat you a doctor who is Board Certified in a specialty is the best and most qualified to help you.
Please write back and let me know how you are doing. I'm sure once you see a doctor and know what can be done about the ED you feel feel better. I know this girl has hurt you deeply. She was wrong, very wrong and in my mind and others I'm sure she does not deserve you.
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Before you go making any decisions, go see a doctor. Even if ED can't be cured, the symptoms can be alleviated by use of medication, diet and exercise.
As for this girl, you are honestly better off without her. If you are looking to spend the rest of your life with someone, you should both be willing to stay through hard times. Being recently diagnosed with a medical condition is a perfect example of something that should draw you two together, not tear you apart. She obviously wasn't ready for a serious relationship if something that is possibly even manageable forced her away.
Save yourself for a woman who will love you and stay by your side through thick and thin. Don't think that because this girl ran, all of them will.
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