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Boy problems: should I just give up or try to get him to like me but date other people?
There's this guy tht goes to my church and I liked but I don't want to date him. But I still liked him but then my friend from church told me tht he liked her and then I stopped liking him. But then a week later he didn't look like he liked her tht much so I started liking him again. But then today at lunch this girl tht is kinda my friend said she was dating him and now I'm kinda mad. I think i kno y he doesn't like me tho. I think its because he thinks I'm to girly but Idk Wat to do bout tht. I don't kno Wat to do and I don't kno y I want him to like me anyway cause if I do I can't date him cause my older church friend said never date a church boy and I agreed to myself tht I wasn't gonna date this year. I don't kno Wat to do should I just give up or try to get him to like me but date other people. I don't kno please help!!!!
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honey you're sooo confused.i know exactly how you feel i've been there too :/ i understand that you like him very much and you get jealous about him :/ and if you keep on like this you're going to be hurt :/ but i don't think you're ready to date him.. you should figure out what you truly want first,solve things with your self and then try to make a move...the most important thing is that you should be YOU and accept yourself the way you are,every girl is precious and unique in her own way and so are you :) you should never change the way you are for anyone! do what makes you feel good :) if it doesn't feel right than don't make a move..
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You sound very young, I know that because you are so worried about what this friend thinks and that friend said and also because you are considering that he might not like you because you are too girly. You need to be able to think for yourself.... what do YOU think about him? What do YOU feel about dating guys from your church? How do YOU feel about being a girly girl? Why aren't you dating anyone this year? If it's because you need the time to find yourself and get inside your own psyche and figure out what YOU want out of life then perhaps it's a good idea. Never depend on anyone else to define you!! If you don't know who you are and know your own self worth, be prepared to spend your whole life following this friends advise and then that friends advise and never really being able to settle problems within. To become a strong, confident, intellegent, independent, beautiful, lady you need to know that God created you to be able to think for yourself and you have worth and you never ever have to change who you are (who God made you to be) in order to be good enough for anyone.
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Honestly I wouldn't try to be with him. Crushes pass eventually and plus thinking your too girly is not right. A guy needs to like you for who you are and not who you fake being. I know it stinks to wait but it's a worthwhile persuit. And plus he might be trying to make you upset. You should want him to be happy if you are good friends.
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