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I am so mad right now.


Question Posted Monday September 24 2012, 5:44 pm

What do you do when a guy you've liked for a long time rejects you when you tell him you love him, but when he gets a girlfriend (AND IS CHEATING ON HER WITH ANOTHER GIRL), he hits on you? (He hugs you after you tell him he's being stupid and says he loves you) What do you do? Do you react negatively or neutrally? I will NOT react positively, ever. Please don't judge me. If you want to know with more detail, please let me know at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com

Thanks to everyone for answering in advance :D


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Additional info, added Wednesday September 26 2012, 9:27 pm:
I was thinking, the next time I see him, I'll tell him this: "You're playing with my emotions. Its evil. You have a girlfriend, you're CHEATING on her, and then you come to me and tell me you 'love' me? And don't say 'oh i say that to everyone' because 1) it was the only time you said it to me and 2) we were alone. I will not be your 3rd girl, EVER. You should respect me more than that. How dare you? What do you want with me anyway?"

Is that a good idea? I will NOT let him think it didnt bother me. Any suggestions? And thanks again to the people who answered, i appreciate it :)
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nikz answered Thursday September 27 2012, 4:14 pm:
this guy is a wannabe playa, do yourself a favour and stay away he's only going to hurt you

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Jasmine23 answered Monday September 24 2012, 11:51 pm:
One of my close friends did a similar thing. Pretty much h this guy wants to have his cake and eat it to. I would straight up tell him it is very rudeforhim to play around with your feelings Ike that. Your heart is not a game and doesn't deserve that this guy leads all girls on. If he can't even stay faith full to his current gf that brings questions of lieing, cheating. No respect. And discust.

Be strong honey you deserve so much better!

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YataiGuy answered Monday September 24 2012, 10:35 pm:
I would cold shoulder him and would NOT drop the hammer on him with the other girls because when the hammer falls of his own accord, you will not be implicated. Your reward? Watching him get whats coming to him without you being the dastardly bitch who brought him down.

Remember, men are stupid; we will screw ourselves right kindly on our own, thank you very much. Just ignore, watch, and laugh.

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