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Hey guys its Taylor... aka T Fro! hah well i love giving people advice and im sure i know a thing or two about it so ask me anything and i will give you my best answer!!

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My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??

haha cousins are just like that. Try your hardest to get along and dont get frustrated. You should go, sometimes me and my cousins do that, but its normal! You will get into fights but it will work out. Maybe have a talk with her before you go saying that if yall will get mad at each other, you WILL work it out! hope you hav fun! xoxo BLONDE911

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i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do?

Ok well first of all it is mean to talk behind someones back and people are going to remember that and are going to hate you. Tell stephanie your sorry and tell her the truth about how you feel and all that. Seriously, thats the worst thing you can do is talk behind someones back. If you want to be that kind of person and be mean go ahead but it will ruin your repetation if you do. If you nice everyone will like you if your not then your screwed and its hard to make up to that.
Hope this cleared your mind! sorry im harsh, but its the truth! xoxo BLONDE911

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ok umm my friend is not eating. she says she eats infront of a big group of ppl but then when she is only around a few ppl she says she does not eat. she drinks energy drinks like crazy and i tell her to stop drinking sooo many b/c you can die if you drink too many, and she is not even doing a energy when she drinks them.and i have told her to start eating and stuff but she won't she wants to loose wait, and i said to just workout and not to starve yourself and yeah. i am really worried about her. she is always tired b/c she is not eating and she is not getting her calciam or however you spell that and it makes her tired so she drinks a Red Bull.i don't know how to help her. should i tell a parent if i tell her to stop and she doesn't?? please help me
concerned best friend

Yes tell an adult, this might sound weird but if you watch lizzie mcguire, there is an episode like this about maranda, she thinks shes fat and yada yada yada, well she ends up so weak she cant even walk. lol. So please tell an adult or else your friend might end up like this. If you do this, it will reflect on how much you care for your friend. I hope everything will be alright! xoxo BLONDE911

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i know this is a crazy question...should you curl your eye lashes before or after putting on mascara?

Thats what i do, I curl mine before then I apply mascar, THEN i curl them again. lol hope that wasnt confusing. xoxo BLONDE911

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I just started cheerleading this year and it was really hard for me to do anything, like tumbling or stunting, because I have like no upper body strength. This is mostly because of my wrists, they're weak and crack a lot. I did gymnastics about a year ago but it made my wrists worse. What I want to know is, is there anyway for me to build up some arm strength so I can start doing gymnastics again?

to get arm strength just do some pushups, chinups, and lift weights, have a routin like do this for 2 hours for 3 times a week.
For your wrists, When you tumble, use a wrist brace

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I was woundering if there was a way to get music into column.Im trying to make a neat looking column and i thought music could make it cooler and you could see what kind of music i like and stuff so if anyone can answer this for me thnx a bunch!!

~Marissa

I asked this same question, and no one answered me! If someone gives you the answer please respond! All i know is where to get the music i got my code from www.starlightmks.com, but i dont know where to put it! So if you get the answer please tell me! xoxo BLONDE911

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Hey I do track and My ankels and Knees hurt really bad. anyone know how to cure this? and i just got new shoes for the arches of my feet because that hurt.

This may sound funny but, does anyone know some tips to go faster?

we have our first meet on monday!!!

I do short distances, and i wanna do hurdles.

anyone have some tips on hurdles??


THANKS GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!

*-KeLs-*

:)

Well for your ankles and knees try ice or even wrapping them in sports tape or something like that.
To go faster you can try to build more muscle in your legs and when you start off, start off low and then work your way up. For your arms, dont swing them across your body, make them go straight out and up.< this helps me alot!!
I hav a track meet this thursday for pole vaulting. I hope you do good on your meet!
xoxo BLONDE911

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Well i'm 13 and i'm skinny. Its not like i'm afraid i'm too fat or anything. I'm quite happy with my weight except for the fact that i'm one of the smallest girls in my class. I eat. I dont work out or do any sports. Why am i so small? My height is very normal but not my weight. It hurts when my friends call me annerexic.(sp?) Is there anything i can do to gain more weight? My family or doctor dont say anything about me being to skinny.

I wish i was that skinny! Im not sure why you want to gain weight! Im really sorry but I dont kno why you want to but maybe you could start eating a little more junk food?. Once you gain weight, you might want to keep it under control, * you dont want to get 2 fat*
Maybe you can tell your friends to stop saying your annerexic and it sorta hurts your feelings, its not fun when someone takes a joke too far!
I hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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13/female

my grandma wont let me have a boyfriend and all of these guys like me and i like one of them but i cant have a boyfriend but the thing is i have gone behind her back and dated like 3 guys (not at the same time) and she didnt find out so should i just go out with him or not and how would i convince her to say yes bc my mom did alot of bad things with guys when she was my age and my grandma thinks i will turn in to her but i wont so can you help i rate 5's

Try to tell her that you afraid to do those things and you like your life right now and you dont want to mess it up like the things your mom did. Tell her she can trust you with this and it isnt a big deal to hav a boy friend and you are picky when it comes to guys. I hope you can talk to her and tell her how you really feel

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Im not sure if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. Lately things havent been going good for us. We been going out 3 months by the way. I just got back from a trip and he only texted me twice while I was gone & i just called him to see if he wanted to go somewhere and he didnt barely talk at all, he didnt ask how my trip went, or that he missed me or anything. Right after I asked him, he said no & said bye. I dunno how I should break up with him though, I cant do it in person cuz we have spring break and I cant see him all week for different reasons and I sure dont want to call him again... I dunno please help me.

Maybe you can get a friend to do it. But the best way is it to be on the fone, all you need to say is i dont think this is going to work out and i JUST want to be friends. Say you still like him and you want to be friends *even if it is a lie* Be sympathetic, no one likes to be dumped. Hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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When I'm on my piriod, my friends ask me to do something, and I always say no, becuase well, I'm embarrassed that my blood is going to leek through. So my friends get all mad at me becuase, well I don't tell them why, but I really don't want to tell them that I am on my period.. what do I do so that they won't be mad at me when I say I can't??

You cant be embarrased, all girls go through this so you shouldnt be embarrased. If you have a tampon your ok. So if you wear one then go out and have fun and dont worry. Keep some spares in your purse incase if you need them. If you need any questions on it just go to www.beinggirl.com it gives you alot of info you probably need. So if you dont wear a tampon i would advise you to wear one. So tell your friends and if your not ready just tell them and they will understand! good luck! xoxo BLONDE911

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hey, for ela we have to bring in a poem or song lyrics that we like and read them to the class...anyone have any suggestions? (they have to be appropriate for school obviously) thanks!

O i had to do that and i did prince of bel air. It was so cool and everyone likes that song.
So i reccomend that its by will smith if ya didnt kno lol.
xoxo BLONDE911

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okay to start off i know i am not FAT. but i am 4 foot 11 inches and weight about 105. and i dont care what the scale says i care about the way i look. being so short for my age and having a regular appetite for my age doesnt help. i play 2-3 sports but i know i dont eat very healthy. i just dont like the way my stomach looks...my friends all say i am fine but really they are my friends what are they going to say?....

please tell me if you think i am just exaggerating or i should eat healthier/exercise more but PLEASE do it nicely...(i.e: dont swear and call me an idiot)

Ok i know this might sound mean but its not, If you want to get good excersizes go to .. www.am-i-fat.com. Its a good website and you can see really good excersizes. All you need to do is eat healthy and excersize

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Hey BLONDE911, i was wondering how you can see the people who rated you .. where do you go . Also how did you get that sweet picture on your page its AWESOME.
Thanks
~**LuCy

Thanx umm you can go to your column under "Welcome *your sn*, then you go to veiw feedback on your column. If it gets confusing you can IM me on renfrosayS
The picture- Go to google or some website you like and highlight a picture of something you want on your webpage, right click and say save as picture. Save the picture to sample pictures.
Then go to your profile settings under edit answers and click browse beside Upload a picture of you. After that click done and it should work. Once again if you get lost, IM me on renfroSays. Hope it works out!
much luv, BLONDE911

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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.

Just stay away from those kind of parties. Maybe if one of your friend isnt going or friends, get them together and go to a movie or hav dinner or something together. Just do something fun on the party nights. That way you had an excuse if someone asked you where you went! I wouldnt mess with those kind of people because sometimes they can get to you and make you do drugs somehow. I hope you have fun! and good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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... uh.. ya.. i just screamed at my parents at the dinner table since i got pissed off.. and guests were there.. i need help on blowing up like that.. people will think that i don't have any manners which is partly true.. anyway.. i hope that you have good advice on how to iunno.. calm down when i get mad and not scream at ppl. thx

I gues i have this sort of temper too except i dont take it out on my parents, i just go for a walk and just start crying for no reason. I have a lot of stuff going on, maybe its because im stressed. Try thinking of something else then go to your room and take it out on a pillow or something. Maybe you need to see a counselor to ask for perfesional advice. I hoped i helped and dont worry this is common but you need to try to fix it soon.
xoxo BLONDE911

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help i get so depressed some times im starting to drink and i dont want to go any depper into alchohol. can you help me please i hate my new school im so unhappy

Alcohol is bad, and i know you know all this crap but its true. If you want to feel happy, make new friends. Its the only solution, once you make them, go to somewhere where you can have fun and wont even think twice about being depressed, such as movies or main even or gameworks. You cant be depressed there, unless its a sad movie. But get off of alcohol, get a girl/boy friend, make friends, have fun. hoped i helped
xoxo BLONDE911

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Hi,
I like this guy that one of my friends are going out with and she really likes him. I don't know what to do .should I be selfless and let her be happy or should I put my self first and take a chance on braking them up and losing a friend?

Omg dont do this! They probably wont last long anyways. It depends, If you really like your friend then dont do it. If you have alot of freinds dont do it. And if you want to be known as a nice girl dont do it! My friend had this problem and it turned out ok, but she didnt like the guy anymore and her friend betrayed her so they arent very close anymore. So if you want to turn out like this go ahead!
hoped i helped make your decision
xoxo BLONDE911

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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically

Well it depends, you start it off very fast or start it off slowly. If if feels comfterble then go along with the flow. If it feels too fast just start the date with talking and have fun. I hope you have alot of fun and i hoped i helped!
xoxo BLONDE911

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i wanna get a lip ring but i think ppl will think weird of me because im the type to wear abrecrombie everyday. can sum1 tell me the pros n cons about liprings ?

Maybe instead of a lip ring you can get a nose ring or your belly button peirced. If you decide to get a nose right get a little tiny one

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