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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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What are some GOOD MUSIC CODE SITES? please help! i rate high! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

www.xanga.com/music_beats!

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this rele isnt rele bout sex but thats the closest its going to get. What exactly is a girls cherry? and how can it get broken? also my friend has a bf whos 14 yrs old but shes only 11 and they want to have sex do u think thats safe? thanks

gosh.. what's up with all the cherry questions? ok, a girls cherry is a soft tissue partly closing the vagina. it gets popped by doing many things, like riding horses, tumbling, stretching, etc. you don't have to have sex to pop it. ok i think 11 is really young to have sex! it isn't safe.. but age doesn't matter. sex wont be safe even if your 30. if she has sex, that's her decision, but honestly i think 11 is too young.

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im going to canada tomorrow and i wont have time to get my boyfriend tony anything. i would of gotten it sooner but, he had to be like everyone else and say i dont want anything and i dont knwo what i want. my ? is what should i get him and when should i give it to him??

well since you are leaving tomorrow, you can give him his present after christmas when you get back. ask his friends what he likes.. or ask other guys what they would like! most guys are into the same thing, so getting help from a guy is a good idea! if your boyfriend likes a certain football team, you can get him a jersey of his football team. ya get what im saying?

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What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five!

make them breakfast/lunch/dinner! do things for them and write them a poem! when i didn't have money for presents, i would write my parents poems. they loved getting poems so they made me write poems for them every year, even when i did have money. lol write a poem that comes straight from the heart, and shows you really love them and are thankful for everything they have done for you. if you aren't too good at writing poems, then write them letters!

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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?

what do you mean you like them all? if you are a true christian you wouldn't worry about being atheist because you believe in god.. and so on. i hope you aren't choosing relgions based on what other people are, or other peoples opinions. as you grow up, you will naturally choose which religion best fits you. right now you are young and you have alot of thinking to do!

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OK I like this guy, and today at an assembly he asked me out and since I liked him, I said yes. Now, I dunno what to do. I like him but I'm nervous and I really don't want to ruin our friend relationship. Basically what I am saying is, should I go out w/ him? I'm just nervous. Thanks!
PS: I kinda have this "sad" feeling when I think about it. Also, since it's near Christmas, I don't want to feel like that.

aren't ya'll already going out? if ya'll are, don't break up with him because of that. sometimes you have to take chances, and if ya'll were really good friends then a relationship shouldn't effect anything!

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ok, my exboyfriend was telling all his buddies that we were having sex and begging them for condoms. and then they all started thinking i was a whore or something. and somehow the rumor changed to me having sex with five other guys. and i haven't even had sex with one guy. how do i change my reputation back, or ruin his too?

don't ruin his.. that's dumb! you probably won't get any one to believe you.. it's all a part of rumors. you could either tell your ex to let everyone know that you two didn't have sex and you are a virgin, or tell them yourself. but as i said, you probably wont be able to convince anyone you are telling the truth.

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my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i?

you shouldn't kiss the other guy if you want your ex back, but i don't see anything wrong with it since you both are taking a break. breaks are for couples to be able to see other people.. but it may effect the way he thinks of you.

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hey adina .. i have a problem .. me and this guy were the best of friends and than we got into a big fight and now nothing is the same.. i mean i wanna be friends with him but it seems he deosnt wanna be friends with me.. and ive already talked to bout it.. what do i do?

fights can do that to friends and it sucks. just try and give it time.. your friend will eventually get over it! or ya'll both will probably just move on.. i don't think ya'll two will probably be the same because he doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, but fights should never mess anything up between friends! fights happen and it's usually no big deal.. well, depending on why the fight was started.

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Hey there is this guy i met over the summer and i really liked him then and kept talkin and then slowly stopped talking and then resently i have seen him online and talked 2 him here and there and he called me last night and we talked like we use to and i think i am liking him again is there anyway that he likes me again? but how can i bring up that i wanna go out with him and everything and he got this new job at a bowling alley and he said it is free for friends and i guess he was kinda hinting at me coming but i am not sure, should i just keep talkin to him and hope things go well and what are some things that i can do 2 make him really like me this time and i not lose him again? thanks for any help

you should go to the bowling alley and talk to him! be around him more often and let him know you like him! that will convince him that you are a great girl and eventually ask you out if he does like you.

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When I was still with my boyfriend, I never really and truly loved him. I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him, if you know what I mean. He broke up with me, saying we had nothing in common and I thought I was okay. My friends came round to cheer me up and I thought I was over him. Then, yesterday I couldn't stop crying and I realised that I loved my ex. I need him back, I can't live without him. Everyone's telling me that I'm still young and that my heart will be broken a thousand times until I find the right guy, but I don't care. I'm scared that if I don't get my baby back then I'm going to hate christmas forever. What should I do?

there isn't much you can do, because HE broke up with YOU. he probably isn't interested in you anymore, and that's part of life. :( you will get your heart broken! don't try and get him back if that's not what he wants! just try to hang out with your friends some more and enjoy christmas without the thought of him!

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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having some trouble lately and we haven't been talking that much. Well the other day this boy pranked my friend and he got her number off our friend and they called me on 3 way and I started talkin to this boy. I talk to him like every day now and I am falling for him! He's so great. But i dont even know what he looks like but i don't think it would matter to me because he's just the greatest person in the world to talk to. But theres just one thing I HAVE A BOY FRIEND. I don't know what to do I like both of them so much! What should I do??

HELP

you are going to have to choose one. i say you break up with your boyfriend and go for the new boy. he seems like a great guy! and plus you said you and your boyfriend haven't been talking much! ya'll are probably just spreading apart..

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I want to die my hair like lindsay lohans in freaky friday. But i dont actually kno what color it is..so if anyone know and can tell me that'd be awsome ..thanks...

her hair is red mixed with orange.. and she has blonde high lights!

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Okay so my boyfriend was fingering me and like he saw that there was blood on his finger [not much just kinda around the bed of his nail] I thought maybe I had started my period but just a few minutes I went to the bathroom and I didn't. But it kinda burned and there was like brown stuff [like discharge]. What is wrong? -->is it possible for him to have popped my cherry even though we didnt have sex? also it itches [it kinda has for a while].

haha yeah! it is possible for him to pop your cherry by just fingering you, you don't have to have sex to pop it. you can pop it by riding horses, tumbling, etc!

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Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m

aw! that's how me and my boyfriend were at first for like a couple of weeks and then we finally met in person! i think it's really nice how you like her for her personality because that's the number one thing me and my boyfriend liked about each other! and that's the number one thing that matters most! you can definately make it work! don't give up.. maybe you can meet her in person? you really shouldn't give up on her if you know she's worth it and there's just something about her!

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I'm 14. A day or two before my period, I tend to get this dark stain on my panties...the front of my panties, not where I would get a normal period stain. It's dark and kind of brown, and sort of thick. Do I have a disease or something?

Also, every single time in my period, I have a normal flow for maybe three days, then it stops for one or two days, then it starts again for only about half a day. Is this abnormal?

it depends.. if you have just started your period not too long ago, it's normal for your period to be like that. your first year of starting your period is always weird.. but after a year it goes into a normal cycle!

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how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?

keep in touch with her! call her.. hang out with her during the weekend.. etc! ya'll can make it work! i know a bunch of long distance relationships that have lasted a longg time!

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theres this girl at my school who really likes me and this other guy. both us guys like her and where like best friends. if 1 of us ask her out she says she dosnt want to hurt the others feeling. so i want 2 know if i should wait or move on. i really like her.

ill rate good
thanks.

uh move on! don't let a girl get in the way of your friendship! atleast your friend will ALWAYS be there for you! girls just come and go.. and plus she already told you she wasn't going to go out with neither of you because of that.. so stop trying!

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I tend to get paranoid very easily. For example, I will think my boyfriend doesnt like me, or thatI have no friends or that people are always talking about me. Everyone says I'mbeing stupid but I really believe it. Any advice?

there isn't anything wrong with that, you just have a hard time trusting people. you should try and give them a chance and back off a little. try not to think so negative!! because i can promise you, most of the time they are probably telling the truth! now here's my question.. if your boyfriend really didn't like you, why would he still be going out with you? if he didn't like you, he would have broken up with you by now! people may talk about you, but not all the time! it's only normal for people to gossip!

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ok theres this guy josh and he follows me everywhere, its so annoying, he loves me and wont leave my side for even a second in seems like, but i dont like him at all. it seems like he stalks me, he carrys my book and kisses me on the cheek all the time. he's nice but i dont like him. Help!

haha i had some guys do that before! just talk to him and let him know that you don't have any feelings for him, and that he really doesn't have a chance with you because you aren't interested. don't try to sound too rude either, but be upfront with him. don't hurt his feelings though! tell him you think he's sweet, but you would like to be independent.

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