Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 4:46 pm
ok, my exboyfriend was telling all his buddies that we were having sex and begging them for condoms. and then they all started thinking i was a whore or something. and somehow the rumor changed to me having sex with five other guys. and i haven't even had sex with one guy. how do i change my reputation back, or ruin his too?
" I never slept with you or anyone of your friends and I never will . I've never had sex with anyone and you're just some sick little freak who enjoys making people think that he's actually getting some . You are feces and you aren't worth, and never will be worth, giving anything up to . So you and your pals can get over yourselves . "
Oh and if you want to get deep in the core, you can say " akin' your friends for a condom . As if IT'S big enough for you to put on . Probably bigger than the whole thing . Grow some ." I know it's harsh but he was reckless . BUT THE QUESTION IS, DO THEIR (MEANING OTHER PEOPLE'S) PERCEPTION OF YOUR REPUTATION REALLY AND TRULY CONCERN YOU ? Think about it . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
DrAnqel answered Thursday December 23 2004, 7:03 pm: well one way to ruin his, would be to say that he's dirty, he doesn't use condoms when he has sex and he may be infected with who-knows-what. Or you could be nice about it and just get your rep back. That's the much harder route, but not impossible, just act totally innocent, deny all the rumors, and explain what a jerk the guy is for making them up. Cry if you have to. Hope I helped, good luck. Happy holidays -Angel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:40 pm: don't ruin his.. that's dumb! you probably won't get any one to believe you.. it's all a part of rumors. you could either tell your ex to let everyone know that you two didn't have sex and you are a virgin, or tell them yourself. but as i said, you probably wont be able to convince anyone you are telling the truth. [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
theultimate answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:26 pm: I think u shouldn't let it get to u and say o ya i did that. i had sex with them all and anyone else want to go lets meat at my house.(i'm new at this) [ theultimate's advice column | Ask theultimate A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:37 pm: You should just tell everyone that what he said was true. And tell him he's a nincompoop, lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
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