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A Re-thinking decision


Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 4:23 pm

OK I like this guy, and today at an assembly he asked me out and since I liked him, I said yes. Now, I dunno what to do. I like him but I'm nervous and I really don't want to ruin our friend relationship. Basically what I am saying is, should I go out w/ him? I'm just nervous. Thanks!
PS: I kinda have this "sad" feeling when I think about it. Also, since it's near Christmas, I don't want to feel like that.


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lyDia_LoU answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:04 pm:
You're prolly just nervous because you guys haven't hung out like you'll start to. You might just be nervous because you like him a lot! And that's not sad it's cute lol don't feel sad! Be happy that you have a great guy that you care a lot about.

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tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 8:28 pm:
i think that you should take the chance you two might just be ment for each other .take a risk.-tish

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OoxashlynxoO answered Thursday December 23 2004, 8:00 pm:
u feel like that becuz ur prolly nervous! haha i think you should still go out with him! just tell him that your really nervios and if he asks why just explain why to him!
if u tell him about it maybe you wont be so nervous any more

*hope i helped

xox-ashlyn

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AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:47 pm:
aren't ya'll already going out? if ya'll are, don't break up with him because of that. sometimes you have to take chances, and if ya'll were really good friends then a relationship shouldn't effect anything!

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yumiiiee answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:47 pm:
This was me lol. For now just talk to him and get close to him you'll feel much better trust me and just dont think about it ! =D Good Luck!!

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Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:10 pm:
Try just going with the flow and see what happens. If you still feel like you'd rather be friends or something, just tell him, I'm sure he'll understand. Maybe talk to him over Christmas, so you don't feel sad. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~

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iwonderhowbrightstarsare answered Thursday December 23 2004, 4:46 pm:
try to go out w/ him! usually a guy wouldn't drop the friend relationship like THAT! i was SO nervous about telling the guy i liked him because i was afraid that it'd hurt our friendship but now we're going out and he still acts the same! so good luck, dude

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bex answered Thursday December 23 2004, 4:43 pm:
i fink th only way is to tell him how your feeling.because if you call it of now he wil be more annoyed then just being onest.he will be gratefull to know how your feeling.just go with the flow and see how it goes..urf rendship would br damaged if it ended up that you didnt like it but if u cal it of it wil be alredy damaged.u get me? hope i helped have a gud chrismes xxxxxxxx

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AdviceMistress answered Thursday December 23 2004, 4:42 pm:
maybe you fear commitment, a relationship is a lot of work! u fear that if you break up you will never be friends again right? but if you really feel that uncomfortable you should break up with him! happy holidays!

*BeSs*

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