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Member Since: November 20, 2004
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Last Update: December 23, 2004
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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
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why do you Have to chose?cant you just get the bits that you like from each one,.???theres nothing wrong with you


OK I like this guy, and today at an assembly he asked me out and since I liked him, I said yes. Now, I dunno what to do. I like him but I'm nervous and I really don't want to ruin our friend relationship. Basically what I am saying is, should I go out w/ him? I'm just nervous. Thanks!
PS: I kinda have this "sad" feeling when I think about it. Also, since it's near Christmas, I don't want to feel like that. (link)
i fink th only way is to tell him how your feeling.because if you call it of now he wil be more annoyed then just being onest.he will be gratefull to know how your feeling.just go with the flow and see how it goes..urf rendship would br damaged if it ended up that you didnt like it but if u cal it of it wil be alredy damaged.u get me? hope i helped have a gud chrismes xxxxxxxx


has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do? (link)
i knw this is a long time since you posted the question and i just hopped you kept it i was 15 when i found out i was so scared but now my baby girl is just over one month old.i was so scared and was so close to geting rid of it but i didnt..i wrote it in a lettre before i went to school so i didnt actally tell them.they were abgry at first but they just had to go with the flow..i hope that ive helped and gud luck wiv everthing my email is bexhugs@hotmail.com email me with what u did


I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.

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dont worry its impossible if you just swallow coz the sperm wnt servive that long...but if he cums and it gets in to ur vagina then u cud...hope i helped


One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?


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im in the same situation one of my frends are relly deppressed.what i did that cheared her up is to sit her down and go throgh her good points and good things that ar egood in her life and tell her who would miss her.if that doesnt werk i, afraid youll hav 2 tell someone who will know what to do.like school nurse or teacher hope i helped x


i usually do pretty well in school, but i am a really bad test taker. even if know the stuff, the second a test is put in front of me, my mind blanks. i don't know what to do because my test grades are bringing down my averages...especially bio. do any of u have any tricks for taking tests? if u do please please tell me...thank you so much (link)
whats happening is your getting stressed out and your mind cant think.i do it sometimes.just dont stress out before the test just think of it as a practice test.or tell the teacher.also when reviseing make notes in diffrent fonts and color it will make you rember it bettter.good luck


My parents broke up about a week ago when i found out about this i was so sad. i had never expected it to happen they always played their role in front of me to be good and loving parent they seemed do happy and it was so unsesected when they broke up and i hate it my dads never home i don't get to see him much and my parents both started somoking and im scared 4 them and myself please someone help me tell mi parent how to tell them i m sad with out having to go thought the long sit the long talk and the long stare HELP!!!!
Sarah (link)
this happened to my parents i thought they were fine too.but dont worry you just need to let the dust settle a bit.and then in the next week get either parent on there own and just say how sad your feeling.or leave a note before you go to school to avoid confrontation.rember it will get better just give it a few months to get used to it.and when your parents are feeling better you ll prob see your dad more too.hope it gets better for you x




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