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My parents broke up about a week ago when i found out about this i was so sad. i had never expected it to happen they always played their role in front of me to be good and loving parent they seemed do happy and it was so unsesected when they broke up and i hate it my dads never home i don't get to see him much and my parents both started somoking and im scared 4 them and myself please someone help me tell mi parent how to tell them i m sad with out having to go thought the long sit the long talk and the long stare HELP!!!!
Sarah
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well my dad he started to smoke a lot but he wont addmit it but anyhoo they might be smoking as a way to let out stress..well you can ask your like your mom and dad about the way you feel and that your scared of what might happen they will probably understand
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i would be sad too.you can say I want you too be togther agin or your teching me a bad leasen.
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this happened to my parents i thought they were fine too.but dont worry you just need to let the dust settle a bit.and then in the next week get either parent on there own and just say how sad your feeling.or leave a note before you go to school to avoid confrontation.rember it will get better just give it a few months to get used to it.and when your parents are feeling better you ll prob see your dad more too.hope it gets better for you x
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I kinda know how you feel. my parents got divorced when i was very young, so i didnt understand until i got older. there are alot of good things about having your parents divorced. like, when your parents get married again (if they do) you get a bigger family which means more ppl who love you. you also get more presents on christmas and stuff like that. after awhile you'll get used to it.
Hope I helped!
-lilchicas432-
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my parents have been divorced since i was 4 years old..it has been nine years....since i was very young i wasnt old enough to understand but there are some good things about your parents being divorced...for example..when i get in a fight with my mom i can always go to my dads house...you have to talk to your parents and ask them why they decided to get a divorce...you have to talk to them about how you are feeling...GOOD LUCK...-BASKETBALL STAR
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My parents split up when I was 11 and it was very unexpected for me too, but I dont think there's anything you can do about it. You will get used to the idea of them being divorced after a while. Maybe you could suggest to ur parents that they go to marriage counseling.. thats something I wish I had done when I found out my parents were getting a divorce. Really push the idea into their heads and let them know you really dont want to see them like this because it hurts you. I'm sry about the divorce..good luck.
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hey hun, ok my 'rents have been divorced for over 9 years and it's hard. you love your parents so much and you want them to be happy, but sometimes they can't be happy when they are together, they will never stop loving you but loving each other is just something that they can't do. it still hurts to see my mom dating because i don't like the guys that she's with and i hate my dad because of how he treats me, so if there's one thing that you MUST do is keep in touch with both of your parents. it broke my heart when i stopped hearing from my dad. he just stopped calling and sending cards, you're parents may not ever get back together but so long as you know that your parents love you then you'll be ok, and it might be hard for you to tell them how you feel, but when you know that you're ready to tell them you'll know. if you need anything or just someone to talk to feel free to talk to my on AIM my sn is sexishanibabe08, hope that everything works out for you
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honestly its best to just tell them. maybe tell your mother first if your dads not home alot. a long talk may help you understand better but im sorry you wont be able to make them get back together. you might as well tell them how you feel instead of keeping your feelings all to yourself. once you get something out you feel so much better ;]
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Hey Hun* its okay you will be okay! my parents got divorced when i was like 3 and im fine with it! both my rents smoke to :( but i think its better for them to be apart because now they get along waaay better! if my dad needs a place to stay my mom lets him crash at her house :) but you will be okay!!! i hope everything works out ! p.s. TWICE THE XMAS GIFTS ;)
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it is tough to get through a divorce. you will eventually get over it though. your parents know that your gonna be sad, you probly dont HAVE to tell them. sorry about that!! --rachael
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