Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 3:21 am
Hey there is this guy i met over the summer and i really liked him then and kept talkin and then slowly stopped talking and then resently i have seen him online and talked 2 him here and there and he called me last night and we talked like we use to and i think i am liking him again is there anyway that he likes me again? but how can i bring up that i wanna go out with him and everything and he got this new job at a bowling alley and he said it is free for friends and i guess he was kinda hinting at me coming but i am not sure, should i just keep talkin to him and hope things go well and what are some things that i can do 2 make him really like me this time and i not lose him again? thanks for any help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TiCkLeD_pInK540 answered Friday December 24 2004, 1:51 am: there's no way in telling whether a guy likes you. but you'll definitally know it if he shows it. don't be really straight foreward on going out, it'll take a guy aback and suprise him and he won't be able to think straight. If you wanna bring it up, don't do it face to face. maybe a letter in his locker or talking online. i do definitally think you should go to the bowling alley to see him and bowl. (bowling would be your second priority,lol)one thing i do that gets guys attention, i call the "leg move." if you happen to be sitting next to him, lean over like you're picking something up or tying your shoe, then casually place your other hand on his leg like to keep yourself up. it'll definitally get your attention. another move you could try (this only works if he's not wearing a hat) if your happen to be walking by him, raise your arm up and run your fingers through his hair as you pass, i'll get his attention, let him know you're here, and drop a hint that you like him. a lot of people say small hints, well these people don't know guys. guys arn't smart enough to figure our small hints. try medium or even large hints if you're up to it. running your fingers through his hair as u walk by and the "leg move" would be medium hints. don't try large hints yet, you don't want to seem too clingy. but yes, keep talking to him like everything's natural. just be free with him and not seem unsteady or on your toes, guys like to feel comfortable around girls so make it easy for him to feel that way around you. I hope i've been as helpful as possible! Good luck!
Always,
Carly [ TiCkLeD_pInK540's advice column | Ask TiCkLeD_pInK540 A Question ]
tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 2:35 pm: well,i think he defantily likes you and he was hinting for you to go to the bowling alley and as for things you could do to get him to like you i dont think you need to do anything because sounds ta me that he likes you for who you are and wants you back.-tish [ tish's advice column | Ask tish A Question ]
pinayprincess74 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 2:28 pm: Awee, you have a crush! Anyways, when you two are talking on the phone, just bring up the subject, "So...do you like anyone" or something like them. I bet he'll probably answer openly and honestly. And go to the bowling alley and just *happen* to see him there. If you want him to be yours then be open and honest with him, just dont go overboard.
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AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:31 pm: you should go to the bowling alley and talk to him! be around him more often and let him know you like him! that will convince him that you are a great girl and eventually ask you out if he does like you. [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:57 am: keep talkin to him and see what happens, but definitally go to his work ;D, dont bring up talking about going out, he might just think you are a lil pushy at things, but other than that def go to his work and once you have a guy that he likes you and you like him back, its pretty hard to loose him, i think. well good luck hun! x0 [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
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