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there is this guy that i don't see much but i think he is kinda cute i mean if i told someone i liked him and they told him nothing would matter.
but there is a valentines dance on 2/11 and i don't no what to act like.
4 this 1 i will rate really high!

At the dance go up to him and start a conversation. After a while ask him to dance. Believe me it will work. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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is it phisically possible to lick your elbow?
please answer, me and my friend are mad at each other because she says it is possible but doesn't care to prove it.



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No, it is not humanly possible. I know people who have tried for hours. Some for days. But it is a proven known fact. ♥ good luck with your friend. EDIT wait is your friend double jointed? Then she probably can...

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what's emo? i just read a question and im confussed tehehe =o)

Emo is a type or music and label. It is also short for emotional.

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where can i get love icons im not talking exactly v-days or antyhing but a good icon site for aim

http://badassbuddy.com http://dollbuddieicons.com http://iconator.com or I could make one for you and give you the exact link to where I posted it.

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My school is doing Aresnic and Old Lace, and I am playing Elaine. We will be doing some "stage-kissing" and I don't know what they mean by that. Could someone explain this technique?

This is a common technique. It usually is turning your head slightly to the side, standing at a weird ange, or putting your heads extremely close. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I think I like this guy, and he called me hot and everything but hes in the grade bollow me. Should I go for it or just forget about him?

If you like him go for him. Age is just a number. It's not illegal at your age. I think if you really like him go for him. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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okay i have a question about how to people get music in there pro and those pop up things that go HEY wElCoMe tO mY pRo. or then when you leave it gose ThAnKs 4 vEiWiNg or something and then there is like a star or something when you leave. understand? i donno really how to explain it if it is confusing sorry but please help!!!! thanks

First off if you want music you can't have the tags in it. A good place to get it tag free is starlightmks.com . I'm not sure how to get the pop ups though. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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okay so v-day is coming up and i don't kno wut to get my b/f..im 13 & i don't wanaa go w/ the candy thing or w/ but have any ideas?

Give him poetry. I know sounds corny but it can be really sweet. Or a stuffed animal. However, the thing that I think is the most sweet is giving a real rose and a fake rose and saying I'll love you until the last one dies. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i have swimming every-other day first hour at my school. basically, we have to swim for 50 minutes, and then we get 10 minutes to shower - change- and get ready, and then itsoff to our next class. i`m very much a girly-girl, hardly ever seen without my makeup on and spend over an hour getting ready for things. I NEED HELP how am i suposed to get ready in 10 minutes?! and how can i do my hair really cute when it`s wet?? i don`t really care about not having time to put on my make up, because i don't really want to be known as the barbie. BUT i dont want to have gross nasty hair either! HELPPPP

Try just putting your hair up in a bun. Hair looks cute wet when it's in a bun. It's simple to do it should only take at most 10 seconds. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I don't know what to do!! i have till thursday to decide whether or not to play cello in 9th grade. Cuz registration is on thursday. My stand partner wants me to stay in so she wont be the only girl...but i hate practicing.. So i don't know what to do. Help me!

Well it's usually easier to take your name off a list then to sign up late. I think you should sign up and if later you change your mind then quit. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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16/f/California. When I'm at the beach, or when I'm out in the sun for long periods of time, I never wear sunblock (if anything, I use like, a tanning lotion or something)...and I tan easily (I have mostly Dominican in me, and we're able to tan easily), I rarely burn. But lately the whole "skin cancer" thing is freaking me out. I like being tan, and the fact that I tan easily. If I wore sunblock, can I still get a tan? I heard that you can, it just blocks the bad sun rays...is this true? Or does sunblock completely block the sun??

No, sunblock does not block out all the rays. There are mixtures of sunblock and tanning lotion out there. You can even make your own. If you only want a little sun screen use SPF 15 or even SPF 8. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?

It's not wrong at all. If your dog is that close to you it's fine to cry. It's fine to cry if anything dies. Don't let what your friends say hurt you. It isn't silly at all. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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my friends just wrote something in my advice colomn and its about me and this is wut it said...

okay well me and my friends have this REALLY weird friend! and omg she is s0o0o0o annoying! she wears the gayest cloths ever and the gayest shoes and like no one likes her. she used to be our good friend but now she is just sooooo weird and its so annoying. plus none of the guys like her and neither do the girls. i mean she is just soo weird its like ahhhh! and she copys EVERYONE on EVERYTHING! and we are just like tired of it cuz shes so gay and so annoying! should we tell her or just keep pretending to like her?


i dont know wut to do...im so flippin hurt and im so frustrated...plz..i need advice...i rate high (i dont wear the gayest clothes or the gayest shoes ever either)

~thanks in advance..~

You said they're your friends? First make sure it was them. And that they are they are talking about you. Ask them if it was a joke. If it wasn't get new friends. What's your username? I want to make sure they were talking about you. Talk to them about this. If they say everything they said is true then first tell them how rude that is then ditch them. That's so rude if they didn't want to be your friend they should of told you. Anyway good luck ♥

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i love to cook but i cant because i have a game to go to and i want to go to a cooking compittion of my friends but my other friend has a cheer game that she wants me to go to they both asked me to go at the same time so i dont know what to do there both fighting over whos im going to go to plz help fom bree

Go to half of each. That way it's fair. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help.

If you really like him you should stay with him. Try for just a little longer if you really feel for him. It's hard but if you really like him you should try. If you sorta like him but not that much you can dump him. But I really think if you really like him stick with it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I m doing a report on wicca for school, see i know a little about it but i m looking for the history, spells, you know stuff like that. if you know anything or some sites i can go to id really appriciate it.
~sara~

Searching google would work. I think there is a website like www.wicca.org but I could be wrong. I think there is also a place like religions.com or somethind. Try these. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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can lot of you can send me some good journals sties.. thanks

myspace.com livejournal.com

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I'm asking this question for my friend who is twelve. Here's what she told me to say. "My friend doesn't go to church and doesn't understand how important religion is. I really want her to come to my church but she always has some excuse why she can't. What should I do?"

Have your friend sit down and talk to her friend. They need to find a solution. Have your friend talk about how she feels religion is important. Have them come up with a set date they can go together. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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yeah...uh i dont like to go in my room. its not fun. i dont know what to do w/ it. i cant repaint the walls or get a new bedspread....my walls are white, light blue, and yellow. i have a VERY high ceiling too.....im 13/f. any ideas???

If you have one near you go to dry ice. There are loads of stuff there for your room. Teen Pottery (sp?) Barn has a lot of stuuf too. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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okay well, how do you delete a person that was added to your advice colum,as a friend? because my friend got banned from her site and i have her on my advice colum as one of the people that you can click on their names and it goes to their sight. Okay, well thanks!

Go to the favorite columnist links. Then it lists the people you have as your favorites and the word delete next to the names. Click the delete button. I hope I helped!

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