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16/f
i'm gonna start off by saying i'm NOT a whore
me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 9 months and he's fingered me once and we makeout alot thats about it ;; i kinda would like some more "exitement" and i give him handjobs all the time and was even thinking of giving him head (even tho i have NOO IDEA WHAT TO DO!) and maybe even sex! i've given him alot of time and i dont wanna like push him but do you think i should say something to him.. if so what?
btw he's one year younger then me
do you think that has much of an affect on it? (link)
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First off, I want you to think really hard before having sex with this guy. I know, you probably don't want to hear it, but really, it's something to think about. Once you lose your virginity, it's long gone. So after you think about it, and if you decide to, please protect yourself.
I'm no expert on this stuff to be honest with you, but I want to help you as much as I can. I t sounds like to me that you're pleasing him, but he's not pleasing you. Which isn't fair, in my opinion. As far as his age goes, that could have something to do with it, but if he's already done the things you've said -- I don't think that's the problem.
I think it would be a good idea to talk to him, and tell him how you're feeling. For instance, "I feel like I'm always trying to please you, but it seems like you never want to do the same for me..." Or something like that, and see what he has to say. Hopefully, you two can work this out.
Again, I'm sorry if I wasn't much help with this. Please, let me know if I helped you any in my feedback. I wish you the best of luck, and please think about what you're doing before you do it and make sure it's really what you want, and you're ready for any and all consequences it may bring.
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I shower at night, sleep with my hair in a ponytail (or i use three ponytail holders on one ponytail, at the top, middle, and end) and then in the morning i style and dry it.
What are some products i can put on it in the morning to make it not be disgusting by the end of the day??? links! (link)
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I recommend first using John Frieda's Frizz Ease Extra-Strength Formula Hair Serum. And then, once you're finished styling your hair. Top it off with Pantene Leave-In Conditioner (I use the detangling one, but I'm sure you can buy it for normal hair).
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I love my boyfriend very much but when we disagree on something, he automatically becomes arrogant, angry, sarcastic, and mean. I dont know how to make him be nicer to me and just TALK to me. I wish he was a lot nicer sometimes. (link)
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I've been where you're at right now, and believe me, I know how bad it makes you feel when he becomes this way. I think that this relationship is only going to get worse if something doesn't change, and unfortunately, I'm not sure that it will change. Considering you can't make him be nicer to you, he should want to be nicer to you. He should treat you as you deserve, and believe me, you deserve much better than that. So my advice to you is to let him go, it'll hurt for awhile, but you'll heal and move on and be happy that you did.
If you do want to give him one more chance, then I say just give him one more chance and no more. Talk to him about it, and see how things work. If he goes back to his old ways, tell him to hit the road. You'll be better off.
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"Keep you eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwods." Does anyone know what Benjamin Franklin meant by this quote?? (link)
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Well, in my humorous ways I think it means keep your eyes wide open before you keep married, because one you do you'll only be looking through half-shut eyes once you finally do get married. You won't want to see anymore, very scary, haha! Sorry, had to have a little fun there, but really, the first answer sounds much more correct.
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Hey,
my boyfriend went to this club a couple of months ago and he said they were "grinding" I just found out what grinding meant.. not that long ago and I was just wondering : DO you think it's wrong for my bf to grind with him friends (that are girls!) like should I have been upset? (link)
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It really comes down to how you feel, but I personally, would not like it. That is if he was being totally serious and into it. If he was joking around and stuff, I wouldn't be so upset though.
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HEY i need a list of songs that can pump up a team before a game. preferably rap or hip hop! i don't care if it's new or old, just anything thanks! (link)
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Here you go...
*Fergalicious by Fergie
*Let's Get It Started by Black Eyed Peas
*Crack That by Soulja Boy
*Party Like A Rockstar by Shop Boyz
*Totally Dude by Shop Boyz
*Ayo Technology by 50 Cent/Justin T/Timberland
*Kiss Kiss by Chris Brown
*Run It by Chris Brown
*Goodies by Ciara
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does it matter if you write the address neatly? (link)
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I don't think it matters, I mean, as long as it's readable there should be no problem.
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on the login page, does anyone have numbers in place of their email address for the login part? (link)
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I'm not sure why or what it is, but it isn't good. I think it may be a "phished" site, which is site potraying to be the actual facebook. If you don't have a phishing fliter, try downloading the yahoo toolbar and it was always tell you if a website is true or not. But one way to find out is to contact facebook, and let them know what's going on. I'm sure they can help you in someway.
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honestly... Do you think age 15 and a half is too young to staart thinking about having sex when i'm like, 16? (link)
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In my personal opinion, I think it's too young. But it's really as one of the people below has said, it comes down to your morals and how you believe. Which is what I base mine on.
The best advice I can give you [in general] is to be safe, if you choose to have sex. And there's always that chance that you can get pregnant, so just keep these things in mind and be responsible. If you do all of these things, and you believe you're ready, then I think it'd be ok.
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This is something EVERYONE can answer.
Tell me all about the coolest party you've ever been to!
What was the theme? What did you do there?
Where was it? How was it decorated?
I want to have a party
but I have no idea where to start!
Please help me! thanks! (link)
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The coolest party I've ever been to is a sweet sixteen. The theme was rockstar, and we danced, sang, and watched a concert (she had a concert, at her sweet sixteen). It was at this nightclub that her dad owned, so she got to have her party there. It was decorated with cd's, album covers everywhere, lights everywhere (like you would see in a nightclub). It was awesome. =)
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I think im falling for my friend. but i dont know if he feels the same. The only class we have together is lunch and whenever i go to our table he always sits by me, and then the other day he gave me his belt to wear. he also once said that he doesnt want to go to homecoming anymore because i already have a date...but...he jokes a lot also..so I DONT KNOW IF HE'S SERIOUS!!! sometimes he's serious and sometimes hes joking..
what should i do..and how else can i def. tell if he likes me???
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Well, this is on eof those situations where it could honestly go either way. One side: He could really like you as more than a friend, and is trying to show it by joking around, etc. On the flip side: He could also just be friendly with you, and joking at the same time. I can't tell you which one it is, but here are somethings you can look out for...
*If he finds any excuse to touch you
*When talking to you, he tilts his head a lot
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So there's this guy I used to like, alot- and I took him to my homcoming because he goes to a opposite school,& after all that I realized I really didn't like him to much, but I kissed him and the next day he asked me out, so I said yes,& now we've been dating for 3 days& i've already lost intrest in him! /: should I break up with him and if so how should I do it. (link)
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I think you should break up with him because the more you days you continue dating him, the more you're leading him on. So I think you should tell him the truth and be honest with him, let him know that you really like him as a friend, but would like to stay just friends.
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what are some places to hangout at besides movie fair mall bowling car park etc
thanks a bunch ;) (link)
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Well, here are some places me and my friends hang out.
*Skating Rink
*Beach
*Skateboard (wherever)
*Golf course
*Stadium
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Okay. So, in the beginning of the school year, my friends and I have formed a clique. It was really fun and it was great. Until one of my friends was really annoyed at me and everybody else agreed and they all told me one on one. And now, I don't have a clique. I tried hanging out with other people, it worked at first. But I just really didn't belong or they couldn't accept me. It's not like I want to go back to my old friends. But I just wanna stop feeling so lonely. Everyday I spend my lunchbreak all ALONE. With no one. Nil. Nada. ZIP.
Please, please help me.:)
♥Blair
Thirteen/Female (link)
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Most people go through this, I've been there. The only thing I can do is give you advice on what I did. I decided to talk to new people everyday, even if it was just one person. Then, I became more popular that way and eventually, I was friends with everybody. So I could sit anywhere I wanted and have a good time.
By the way, if your old friends are going to throw you out if their "clique" just because of one thing..they aren't your real friends anyway. You might be better off without them.
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People say if you say befor u eat squeeze lemon in hot water and leave it for half and hour and then eat and then drink it
Or is it you drink it first and then wait half an hour to eat ? (link)
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I believe this is what you're looking for, and may help you. =)
http://www.quantumbalancing.com/news/lemon%20water.htm
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i have really oily skin on my face and it bothers me because my forehead gets shiny throughout the day. is there anything i can put on my face in the morning to make it not oily and shiny in the day? (please dont request oil blotting pads cause you have to do that throughout the day and i dont have time) thanks so muchh! (link)
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I know the perfect thing! I have the exact same thing, and it's finally going away since I started using Clean & Clear Morning Burst Shine Control Cleanser. There's also a scrub and oil-blotting sheets, too. They all work great, plus, they definitely wake you up in the morning! =)
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This year I'm so forgetful, I'm onyl 14 and i feel liek an old person who forgets things! i know everyone forgets things but this is goign way beyond.
I won't know what i said right after i said it and right after i write a sentence, if it's a typo, I just forget right away what i meant.
I even forget what commercial i was watching right when its over!
Is there something i could do to ...like wake up my brain? i'm scared I'll be studying for a test all ngiht and rmemeber nothing! (link)
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There isn't anything wrong with you, I'm a year older and do the same thing. I call it my "blonde" mode, we all have them. Just some more than others.
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they deffinitely need a cell phone category.
any ways...my phone was working fine, then it like just stopped...like its blue. i open it up, its blue, i close it, and the external screen is blue...whats going on? i have verizon, but idk how that helps. (link)
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That sounds odd. Try calling Verizon, I'm sure customer service can help you out.
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I just made a facebook adn want to friend my whole class, is there a was to friend all of them instead of doing it one person at a time (link)
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Not exactly, but what you can do is find your high school on Facebook. It will show all the members there, and then you find all of your friends right there. It makes it much easier, in my opinion.
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Okay so generally when, in your opinion, does it look okay to dating a senior? When i dated one back when i was a freshman, everyone called me a whore and called him a pedophile. Can only juniors date seniors or something? In high school, what is considered too young and too old? I just don't understand the age differences when people think it's acceptable.
THANKS :] (link)
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Unfortunately, when in comes to high school it is all about the drama. People will do whatever they can to get under your skin, and get you upset -- they want that reaction. Best thing to do is not give them a reaction, and do what you want to do no matter what they think. Whenever you want to date a senior, go ahead and do it. Don't worry about what they think.
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