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prude boyfrennn?
16/f
i'm gonna start off by saying i'm NOT a whore
me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 9 months and he's fingered me once and we makeout alot thats about it ;; i kinda would like some more "exitement" and i give him handjobs all the time and was even thinking of giving him head (even tho i have NOO IDEA WHAT TO DO!) and maybe even sex! i've given him alot of time and i dont wanna like push him but do you think i should say something to him.. if so what?
btw he's one year younger then me
do you think that has much of an affect on it?
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Depending on how ready he is to take everything to the next level, then I don't really think that the age has a big impact. Also, I wouldn't rush sex - you're 16 years old, and I know that you may think you're ready for it, but obviously you have to talk it over with your boyfriend first, and ask him how he feels about heating things up. If you're concerned about it being awkward, then you're won't feel comfortable doing whatever you will be doing with him. If things go over smoothly, and everything feels right and he agrees to it, then go for it. But remember - no glove, no love!!!
♥, lena
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Well it's good that you guys are taking it slow and stuff. if you wanna do something, give him a handjob... don't go straight to head or sex or anything, as tempting as it might be. you can say something or just after he fingers you... start goin down there... it's up to you. <3
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well, considering he's a teenage boy, he probably has the same thing on his mind that you do. there's two ways you can get at this.
the first thing you can do is just go for it. just give him a blow job or something a couple of times, and if you want, hand him a condom. that way, he know's what you want. to give a blow job, you basically just suck on his thing and rub your tounge on it.
it sounds kinda like you're unsure of yourself. like maybe, you don't want to do this ? or you still feel uncomfortable with the process ? well.
the second way you can try this is by trying to talk to him. let him know you want some more excitement, and figure out if he's ready or not. at the same time, you'll probably figure out whether or not YOU are ready. just ask if he wants to take the relationship up a level, and ask if he's ready to go all the way. if not, don't push it. who knows, the conversation might even make you rethink that you really want.
good luck.<3
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First off, I want you to think really hard before having sex with this guy. I know, you probably don't want to hear it, but really, it's something to think about. Once you lose your virginity, it's long gone. So after you think about it, and if you decide to, please protect yourself.
I'm no expert on this stuff to be honest with you, but I want to help you as much as I can. I t sounds like to me that you're pleasing him, but he's not pleasing you. Which isn't fair, in my opinion. As far as his age goes, that could have something to do with it, but if he's already done the things you've said -- I don't think that's the problem.
I think it would be a good idea to talk to him, and tell him how you're feeling. For instance, "I feel like I'm always trying to please you, but it seems like you never want to do the same for me..." Or something like that, and see what he has to say. Hopefully, you two can work this out.
Again, I'm sorry if I wasn't much help with this. Please, let me know if I helped you any in my feedback. I wish you the best of luck, and please think about what you're doing before you do it and make sure it's really what you want, and you're ready for any and all consequences it may bring.
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