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i am not a cheater.
My boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him. I love him and I would NEVER cheat on him. I just can't believe that he would even think that!! I am so stunned. I don't know what to do.
How can I tell him that I am not???
<3thanks so much.
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i was in this exact same situation and this is what i did i sat him down held both of his hands and said "its really bothering me that you would think i'd cheat on you.. i'm telling you right now that your the ONLY guy i want to be with right now .. i love YOU" then i gave him a soft kiss on the lips staring straight into his eyes the whole time;; maybe it will work for you too!
good luck! hope i helped
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take him to a room, all alone, nobody else. Ask him why he would think such a thing. Say, i thought you liked me... But... He'll feel guilty then you kiss him and he'll feel better then apogize. It worked for me, :), it should for you. Onlky, don't let him push you up against the wall and take advantage of you, lolz. Had to point that out... :)
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Ask him why he thinks you're cheating. Then you can explain your actions and show him what your intentions truly are.
If he refuses to believe you no matter what, it's not a good sign, and it probably isn't a relationship you should be in.
But definitely try and talk with him, not at him. Don't try and guess what he's thinking. Ask specifically why he thinks you're cheating. Ask if there are any instances that stand out in his mind. Ask if there's something else bothering him about your relationship.
Just don't go too far to keep him. If he wants you to dump your friends, don't. If he wants to be able to talk to you 24/7 whenever he decides, don't let him. It's a fine balance, and make sure his paranoia doesn't make you miserable.
Best of luck.
-Daimeera, 20/f
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He's being paranoid. It happens in relationships sometimes. You just have to talk to him about it. Tell him that he is your only one, and there is no way that you would hurt him. To reassure my boyfriend, sometimes i'll add a sarcastic, silly remark at the end, so he knows i'm not lying.
I know it hurts when someone you love thinks you are being unfaithful. It really blows, because you have no way to prove to them that they are wrong. Just tell him he's going to have to get over these stressful feelings, and he's going to have to trust you. If he can't do that, you guys are in trouble. Trust is key in a relationship, and if you guys are having a hard time, then this relationship is going nowhere fast. Make sure he knows that.
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Find out a way to show that you really like him. What's helped me in the past before is just talking to him [[in person!]] and maybe shed a few tears. SHOW him you care. He'll get the point. if that doesn't work pull the old "I thought you trusted me! *tear tear*
hope i helped
jaelyn
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tell him how could he ever think that the person who accuses the other one of cheating is usually the one who is cheating
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