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My three best friends: ME, MYSELF & I. :|
Okay. So, in the beginning of the school year, my friends and I have formed a clique. It was really fun and it was great. Until one of my friends was really annoyed at me and everybody else agreed and they all told me one on one. And now, I don't have a clique. I tried hanging out with other people, it worked at first. But I just really didn't belong or they couldn't accept me. It's not like I want to go back to my old friends. But I just wanna stop feeling so lonely. Everyday I spend my lunchbreak all ALONE. With no one. Nil. Nada. ZIP.
Please, please help me.:)
♥Blair
Thirteen/Female
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Most people go through this, I've been there. The only thing I can do is give you advice on what I did. I decided to talk to new people everyday, even if it was just one person. Then, I became more popular that way and eventually, I was friends with everybody. So I could sit anywhere I wanted and have a good time.
By the way, if your old friends are going to throw you out if their "clique" just because of one thing..they aren't your real friends anyway. You might be better off without them.
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okay hun, listen dont worry. everyone at some point feels lonely, me included. i know it sucks, but it makes you appreciate the people who love/loved you. try going back to your old friends and apologizing if anything. or start chilling with other people, im sure you belong somewhere. try meeting new people any chance you get. try not to be shy, and just be yourself, people will love you no matter what. whenever i felt lonely i always thought theres someone out there that thinks about me atleast once a day. =) msg me in my inbox if you wanna talk.
take care okay? =)
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I completely understand what you're going through. (I'm like that, too) I don't have any friends.
I would advise you to talk to your school's counselor- you'd probably be surprised at how much better you feel after talking to someone who knows what they're doing.
I'm in therapy and counseling for my feelings of lonliness (and i also have a social anxiety disorder)
After talking to the counselor you might discover that you have some kind of anxiety problem too.
-Catherine 15/f
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