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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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Hey hun.. i noticed that you just answered a quesiton about fingering.. and the mods won't accept my question, so i was wondering if you could help me. You kno how you said that the first time you do it, it will hurt to sit down and walk and stuff because youre sore? Well, do you kno of any ways i could make it looser down there so it won't result in this? Like.. something i could stick up there.. as if fingering like when i'm in the shower or anything? I'm sorry its kinda visual.. but i really need this help kuz my boyfriend wants to do it to me and i've never had it done.. and i dont wanna be totally tight down there so he can't even do anything and i won't enjoy it, you know? Thanks a lot! your help would be greatly appreciated!! and any other advice! 15/f
*natalie:) muah
Well even if you are a bit tight down there, it can still be pleasureable. Guys actually prefer for girls to be tighter when it comes to having sex. You could try masturbating with a foreign object ie: Opposite end of a hair brush. Normally hair brushes will losen you up if they are fat at the other end. You'd need to lube it first because it is going to hurt more if it's dry. Put lotion on it and then... get to work so to speak. Lol. Anyway, you could try doing that or if you're not comfortable in doing that then you could just finger yourself. Start out with one finger and see if it fits and then try to fit another finger in. I'd suggest the hair brush though. Just make sure it's not too thick or you could seriously hurt yourself. If you need anything else just drop one in my box! Hope this helped.
EDIT: The brush shouldn't be too thick at the end... around a radius of an inch an a half meaning the middle of the circle all the way across should be at least an inch and a half or an inch at the least. Putting lotion on it won't hurt you on the inside. You can also use baby oil. It won't hurt you unless of course you are allergic to something in the lotion. Hope that helped!
What are the chances of getting pregnant if you had sex without a condom.. but he took it out before he busted?
*please don't delete this time mods, i really need some answers. i'm scared to death for my friend.
The chances aren't as high but there is a posibility of being pregnant. You can get pregnant off of pre cum. Girls in my school whom are 15 and younger have been pregnant off of pre cum. Precum contains sperm and sperm can swim as soon as it touches vaginal fluids. So I'd say about 1:50 or less chance of getting pregnant. She is more likely to be infected with an STD. Tell her to use protection from now on if she is going to be sexually active. No glove, no love. Hope this helped. Good luck with your friend.
EDIT: 1:50 is once possible chance in 50 or one out of 50 people. The chances could be less though. Hope that helped!
i just got a filling and i had the novacain thing. and now its all numb. i was woundering how long does it take to make it back to normal. cause im drinking soda now and i cant taste it on the side of my mouth. so aproximately how long would it take ? thanks.
You'll be able to feel your mouth again in the morning. Avoid from biting your lip and saying to people LOOK IT DOESN'T HURT SEE *bites lip really hard* My friend did that and she had a fat lip the next day. It will be fine by tomorrow. It might even go away by tonight! Hope this helped.
hey, well. i have this thing on the very side of my mouth, it used to be a cold sore and i popped it, and now its a scab, it looks really gross/ and when i put concealer on it makes it look worse!! but i hate it being there, does anybody have any solutions that'll make it go away faster?? thanks for any help!! =]
Neosporin or calimin lotion (the stuff you put on mosquito bites) Do not put cover up on it because like you said, it looks even worse. Leave it alone and at night wash your face really good and put the neosporin or the calimine lotion on it. It shouldn't have a scab within a couple of days. DO NOT PICK AT THE SCAB! It will scar and look even grosser. Hope this helped.
Hey! I'm tired of my old hair style! I usually just wear it down.. or in a ponytail or half up. It gets boring.. does anybody have any cute ideas that i would be able to do myself before school? I have a little longer than shoulder length hair. Thanks a lot! :)
You could wear it straight and in pig tails. Also, you could wear it scrunched. Wash your hair in the morning, put a leave in conditioner, mousse, gel, scrunch it then put a little hair spray. You could put a cute little clip with a flower in it. The side pony tail seems to be coming back so you could try that... It's not choice in hair style but everyone seems to like it. Also, if you're mom knows how to french braid you could do french braid pig tails. They always look good. Hope that helped.
Hi everyone! I probably sound a little dumb, but I never knew what's going on with politics and stuff.... I just wanted to know, since elections are today, when do we get to know who the winner is? Do we get to know tonight or tomorrow? Can someone please tell me because I want to know who wins the presidential elections! Thanks so much!
You'll definately know within the next day or two. It will be all over the news, everyone will be talking about it in school, riots will be starting in certain areas because the person they wanted to win didn't... It's going to be a mess. But you'll find out.
wut are some really good hard core metal bands?
Korn, Slip Knot, Twisted Method, The suicide machines, thrice,poison the well,avenged seven fold, death by stereo. Those are a couple that I know of. Hope that helped.
Aright well last Friday, before Halloween me and my friends had an idea of gettin ppl to dress in black and I made flyers and handed them out. And sum how one of the teachers found out about it cuz sumone said my name infront of the teacher and said that I made the flyers (wich I did) anyway she told the assistant principal that I did it and he came up to me and told me to give him the rest of the flyers. So I did and he starts given me all of this bullshit on how it's gang related when he has organized for us to wear red shirts, and there is sumthin else to. Aright there is this one gurl that she came into school and she was wearing a short short skirt that when ever she bends over her ass literally is showin, and the assistant principal saw her but he didn't say anything at all and she came in with a short black skirt and long knee hight boots lookin like a hooker and the assistant principal didn't say anything. So the part that really pisses me off is that we wore black lipstick and he said that it was not aloud when last year we wore black lipstick and he didn't say anything. So it pisses me off that we can't wear black lipstick and sum hoe can some in and look like a prostetute and come in with her ass showin. And they say that guys can't wear anypink wich is wrong, I mean guys should be able to wear anything they want. Please help cuz all of this is just wrong and they kno it!!
If you notice... they also don't say anything to the chunky chicks about wearing shirts that show their stomach. Only the skinny chicks get in trouble. Go to school dressed like that one girl did and see what they say. If they pull you aside and say something about it ask "Why is it that I get in trouble for it and then so and so doesn't when she's wearing the exact same thing but 3 times worse?" If they give you some stupid bullshit answer like "We didn't see her wearing it blah blah blah" Talk to your parents. Parents are always on your side. That's stupid how he said it was gang related. People in my school purposely dress alike with the red shirts or whatever and the bandanas and don't get in trouble for it. That's bull. You're school is just gay. Try what I said and if not, go talk to your parents. They'll be on your side. Hope this helped.
I really like the song Jaded by Mest, but i don't wanna buy a cd for one song- does anyone have the cd? is it worth getting?
Yeah. Mest is a pretty rad band! They are very good and the CD is great. Then again, asking people this really won't affect you. You won't know if our taste in music is like yours. In my opinion, it's a great CD. You can go to FYE's site and preview the songs on the CD.http://shop.fye.com/product.aspx?sku=60602769&loc=50295 Hope that helps.
the guy broke up with his gf...N he told me they did rite away...so idk wut to do...Ive been playin hard to get but when I do he seems like he doesnt care but if I act like him he seems interested
Well... this guy seems pretty weird to me. Try talking to him and flirt a little with him. Start flirting around other guys and make sure he's around. If you see him starting to act jealous, he probably likes you. Try to smile at him alot. If after a week or two he doesn't make a move, just be straight forward. Ask him, Do you like me or not? I'm tired of waiting on you... I want to know if you really want me or not because I don't want to waste my time. If he doesn't ask you out or anything, just move on. Hope this helped!
okay...this is kinda long N it mite be a lil confusing but I need advice...
well I like this one guy...we started talkin like a month ago but we got really close...we even almost went out...N like I knew he still liked me...but his best friend was goin out with this girl N they broke up (Im not sure y) N the guy I like went out with her...he acted like he really liked her N all but he would always IM me N he would stare at me constantly...one day he even asked if I missed him bc hes with her N not me...when I would act like I liked him he would act like he really liked his gf but if I acted like I didnt like him he would ask me y not N stuff...anyway...the other nite him N his gf broke up N he told me like rite away...he said that he still likes her but idk...all my friends keep tellin me that he likes me N hes just tryin to cover it up with the other girl...Should I make a move N see if I have a chance or just let him come to me if he really does like me?...
If ya got confused I understand but just any advice ya have would really help!!!...I rate
Try playing hard to get. If he was acting like he liked you or whatever and now he's with some other girl whatever you do please avoid making a move on him. No matter what it's always the wrong thing to do making a move on a guy that has a girlfriend. Wait it out and see what happens, if he breaks up with her and comes crawling back to you you'll know it was a cover up. If not and it turns out he really does like this girl, just move on. Go on out there and flirt and see if he gets jealous. If he's jealous then you'll know he really doesn't like the girl he's with now. Hope this helped!
My lips are pretty average size but I want to get them looking more pouty... any advice? Thanks!
Lip liner, lip gloss or lipstick. Put the lip liner a little bit on the outside of your natural lip line. After you have the lip liner put on the lip gloss. Normally in a shimmery red that's visible or a dark pink it will make them look fuller. Also, Jessica Simpson's new beauty line called Desserts has a lip gloss called Juicy and it works great. It's expensive (22 dollars for a small tube). Hope this helped!
Hey, my friend Emily is 14 and she just recently started to look up porn on the internet. I was thinking, this girl is 14! But, do you think it's normal for a girl in her young teens to look up adult images on the net? I need to know so I can tell her! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much! - Serena
At our age (I'm 14 as well and ironically my name is Emily) But anyway, at our age, we are experimenting with things and our hormones are racing and we want to see what those things are really like. I know girls and guys my age that watch porn on a daily basis. It's perfectly normal at our age. There isn't really anything wrong with her. She might get in trouble for it if her parents find out, but there isn't anything wrong with her. Hope this helped!
where are some good places to get sexxy undies- like thongs and g*strings?
Victoria's Secrtet, Fredricks of Hollywood, La Senza or even Gap Body! Hope this helped.
i am 13. but i look like im 15. i want to get my belly botton peirced, and my mom will let me. but i still think im too young to get it dun. im almost dun growing...so im not sure about getting it done or not and if it will hurt. please help.. i rate
My friend was 13 when she got hers done. It looks really cute. It's really not a big deal as to what age you are when you get it peirced. I know an 11 year old that got hers done. It does hurt... make sure you have advil handy and an ice pack. I was with my friend when she got it done and she squeezed my hand pretty damn hard. So yeah, it does hurt but after a week you'll be fine. You have to make sure you follow the directions that they give you as to how to clean it or else it might get infected!! Hope this helped! Good luck
my question is that i asked my bf if he looks @ porn he said yeah and he was being porn but like a couple of Months ago he said he only looked at it when he was single but before i was like wow he looks @ that and he said he loves me and shit?? what should i do?
You have to realize that ALL men look at porn... gay or straight they all look at porn. My boyfriend looks at porn and I really don't care. It's not like he's cheating on you in any way. You don't have to worry about it. Watch it with him! I know it sounds crazy but guys like it when their girlfriends are comfortable enough with them that they will watch porn with them. My boyfriend loves me and I love him, he looks at porn. It's not a big deal. You can't freak out about it. As long as he's not cheating on you, you don't need to worry! Calm down, you'll be fine. Hope this helped.
hey cool column i just thought id ask u if u wanted music on ur site if u do go to www.starlightmks.com also can u add me to ur fav columnists.
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Charmed-Cherry21
Sure I'll add you as my favs. And I really don't want music on my column. But thank you anyway!
-Pinky
Hey everyone! Im an advicenator, and I love answering boy ?s and all that stuff. But lately thats the only ?s posted and they wanna know if they like them or how to get them to like them!
Ask diff ?s please!!
About stuff other than BOYS and GIRL lovelife ?S
Love
Ya
--fellow advicenator--
Yeah I know... it's annoying. Most of those people that ask those questions are new to the site and don't realize that they get rated down and eventually get deleted if given a bad enough rating by the Mods.
hi
i m 26 female
dr i have a seriouse problem which is concerned with my marriage
r u can say with my life.
a year ago when i watch a sex movie.i aroused and i start masturbation.
i insert my midlle finger into my vagina.it was 4rth day of my periods.
when i saw my finger there was blood on it.now i want to know,
1......was my hymen damage at that moment or the blood of my periods?
2.....can a hymen tear by inserting just one finger?
3......is the hymen outside the vagina or inside?some people says that
it is
deep inside the vagina.how much it is deep?can 3 inch of a finger
damge it?
dr actullay i cant go to gynecologist coz i cant share it with my
mother.
plz replay me coz on ur responce i will deside to marry.
in our society if the girl with torn hymen get married.she get divorced
next day. so plz help me.
a needy girl....... sara...... from pakistan
Well your Hymen could have been damaged. Some women have a thin hymen and can break easily. So, it could have been from your period or you could have torn your hymen. Yes a hymen can tear by using just one finger, it's happened to many girls. The hymen is outside the vagina, it's not that far in it could be from 3-5 inches I believe. Don't worry about it. Odds are it was just blood from your period. Calm down. Hope this helped.
You know the Cereal Bars, that have the Cerial and dried milk? Well me and my friend are bored and want to try to do it. But I was wondering how did they get the milk to be dry? lol I know its stupid but oh well.
Well, it's not milk, lol. It's frosting really. You need to get vanilla frosting or any flavor frosting. Hope this helped.