Hey hun.. i noticed that you just answered a quesiton about fingering.. and the mods won't accept my question, so i was wondering if you could help me. You kno how you said that the first time you do it, it will hurt to sit down and walk and stuff because youre sore? Well, do you kno of any ways i could make it looser down there so it won't result in this? Like.. something i could stick up there.. as if fingering like when i'm in the shower or anything? I'm sorry its kinda visual.. but i really need this help kuz my boyfriend wants to do it to me and i've never had it done.. and i dont wanna be totally tight down there so he can't even do anything and i won't enjoy it, you know? Thanks a lot! your help would be greatly appreciated!! and any other advice! 15/f
*natalie:) muah
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 5:23 pm: Well even if you are a bit tight down there, it can still be pleasureable. Guys actually prefer for girls to be tighter when it comes to having sex. You could try masturbating with a foreign object ie: Opposite end of a hair brush. Normally hair brushes will losen you up if they are fat at the other end. You'd need to lube it first because it is going to hurt more if it's dry. Put lotion on it and then... get to work so to speak. Lol. Anyway, you could try doing that or if you're not comfortable in doing that then you could just finger yourself. Start out with one finger and see if it fits and then try to fit another finger in. I'd suggest the hair brush though. Just make sure it's not too thick or you could seriously hurt yourself. If you need anything else just drop one in my box! Hope this helped.
EDIT: The brush shouldn't be too thick at the end... around a radius of an inch an a half meaning the middle of the circle all the way across should be at least an inch and a half or an inch at the least. Putting lotion on it won't hurt you on the inside. You can also use baby oil. It won't hurt you unless of course you are allergic to something in the lotion. Hope that helped! [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
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