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Q: ahhh god i just downloaded DeadAim or whatever and i cant figure it out! I just dont know whats like suppose to happen. Sorry this is really dumb but I NEED HELP!

thanks a lot! ill rate!

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You should go to people then it says clone aim at the bottom

Q: does anyone who has msn instant messengar know how to change your NET. passport details? Like if your name was Jon Smith how could you change it so that it was Jonathon Smith?? can you do it?
Not after you already did it all unless you go into your profile and change it there on msn.com

Q: What does 512k amount to in bytes? I need to know for a website design.
that would be 512,000 bytes

Q: I just bought rugby 2004 by ea sports, every time i attempt to play it crashes on me, i get a malicious script error on my screen, and the game closes, this happens every single time i open the game... how do i get rid of this error?
reformat

Q: ok, i've like this guy for a LONG time, 3 years. We've become better friends over the past 3 years since i liked him and i don't know if he likes me. We see each other at school but only in 3rd period but we talk most of the time since it's art. any ideas? i know i DON'T want to tell him how i feel, it would make everything so much harder and more awkward. If you think i should keep flirting, tell me some ideas. I'm 14, and he's 14. I'm a cheerleader and he's a football player but there isn't ne more games b/c the season is over. should i give up on this guy or stick to it?
Keep flirting. That'd maybe give him the hint that you liked him. I understand where you are coming from about the awkwardness and stuff. I would maybe give up on it though if its been 3 years.. -trix

Q: my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??

-kristi
Well if she's in love with this guy named Tai then i wouldnt be to worried about it. I would worry if she wasn't in a relationship. At least you arent hiding it from her. Thats always a good thing. I would just talk to her about even if you already have just to really make sure that she wont be mad over this and that she wont let this come between your guys' friendship. 'd say if alyssa is truly okay with it, then don't worry about it, just don't constantly talk about bein with him and that stuff around alyssa.. and make sure she's truly okay with you being with him Happy holidays kristi- (please rate) trixx

Q: Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do....
I was in the sit. kinda.. not the sibs. part but like.. where i wanted help with my probs. So i went to my mom which was hard to do but it helped me alot and im now with Youth works and it really relieves alot of pressure off my shoulders. I think you should really try to get to your mom and talk to her about it. Because that could really help!! And how are your tears black.. but i'd say the first step is talkin to the parents, you need to talk to the people that are the source of the conflict to get over it, so talking to the parents would be the best thing to do, see where it goes from there, and then if things still aren't lookin very good, then seek professional help. (please rate) happy holidays ~trixxie

Q: Okay this may sound really dumb or something but it really needs to be answerd cause i really need the help.My friend had wanted to kill herself and then her mom had put her into a center to get the help that she needs(good for her!!).But the problem is that she is on drugs and she drinks a lot and she is only 12 or 13 years old.Well i tries to kill myself a few weeks ago and now i'm fine but my question is that should i be her friend still and hang out with her even though that she wanted to do something that i tried?Cause my fear is that she will want me to think of doing that again?Plzz help.
Thanks again
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Just tell her that you are done with that and you dont want to kill yourself. well i say stay friends with that person and try to HELP them, i mean if their your FRIEND you wouldn't desert them, so i say stay friends with them, try to help them, and don't let them get you involved with the stuff HaPpY hoLidAys ((Rate me plz)) TrIxxIE!!

Q: i play guitar and need to know what kinda of stack i should get for small venues.
marshall-trix

Q: Okay my friend and i (he's a guy) are not really talking! Because I have been ignoring him, and supposedly he isn't mad at me! I found out he is sick today and lives right up the street from me! I was wondering should i go up the street to give him some chickensoup or pasta? Or should I even go up there to see him?! Would it be too random?!
I would go up to see him that'd be very thoughtful!! -trix

Q: Hi my name is Bailey, i am 13 yrs. old and in the 7th grade. I would like to be either a dancer, singer,poem writter, or a film maker. I like doing all of theese things what should i do to figure out which path i should take to find my career
You could take tests or go to your school cousolar and have her or him help you! You do something with that in 8th grade though. and 9th

Q: I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal?
No.. thats not normal. Well i never think about that actually. Just try avoid sitting by your window. or maybe get help.. cuz i dont want you killing yourself :)Hang in there-trix

Q: whenever i sleep, i wake up the next morning and my hair is really greasy. Is there anyway to prevent this without taking a shower that morning because i dont have enough time. any adivce would be greatly appreciated.
Well maybe you should wake up a bit earlier. And go to sleep a bit earlier. 15 min. wont hurt you much so just get up a bit earlier. Maybe you should use pantene shampoo n conditioner. thats good and smells good to! Please rate me happy holidays to!! trix

Q: Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot!
No theres isnt something wrong with you. by 16 or 17 you should get it but i dont think there is something wrong with you. And your bra size has nothing to do with it. HappY hOLIDAYs TrixY rATe me pLEASe

Q: I just have some questions about weed i would like you guys to answer please. How long does your first high last for? I hear its kinda long..how much does dime bag cost? Is it easy rolling the weed with the rolling paper? is it ok to try it like 3 times in 3 years? Is it really addicitive?
thank u so much for everyone who answers..and please..only answer if ur experienced or know for sure.
Your first high last for.. depends on what kinda weed you smoke. It usually should last from 1-2 hours. A dime bag cost $15-$20. I've never done it before about the rolling thing so i couldnt tell ya. I think it should be. Looks pretty easy. I know they have flavors! uhh ya.. just not something you should do. No its not addictive its mind addicting. I asked my friend and shes a stoner :) trust me!! Happy Holidays stoner ;) jk! ((rate me))

Q: Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it and says mean stuff about me to his gf. what is going on here? i still like him...does he still like me?
Yeah it was the right thing to do. Exspeacially if he was being mean to you. Or talking behind your back. Doesnt sound like a real true nice boyfriend if you ask me. well you are asking me honestly.. but whatever. He might still like you but be really mad at the fact that you rejected him. And your x best friend might be a back up for him anyways. Kinda mean. but truth. HaPpY hOliDays! (rate me)

Q: Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up...well, about a month or two ago. But lately, I can't get him out of my mind (I haven't been able to since the break-up), and I asked my friends if they thought he still liked me, they said yes that he talks about me a lot and what we did when we were together. The only reason we broke up is because we were bored with each other, but I think now we realized what a great relationship it was. He looks at me a lot and I look at him (right in the eyes), we talk a lot and we're pretty good friends still, I want to ask him out so badly but I'm scared to. So my two questions are: Should I ask him out again, and: How should I do it? (Through a friend, note, IM, etc.) Thank you!!
Dont worri bout length! haha.. anyways.. Yeah i would defintly ask him out again!! I would ask him out to his face.. that is if i had the guts.. I dont even half the guts to do it. But you could do it on the phone. Thats my next option!! I hope everything works out great!! HaPpY hOliDays! (rate me)

Q: my bf broke up with me about a week and a half ago, but then we got back together a couple days ago. i was never able to figure out why he broke up with me in the first place, he just said he was confused. when he asked me out again, he said he was being stupid and he was really sorry for doing that to me. i want to find out why he broke up with me. i also need 2 ask him if things we talked about doing, are still things he wants 2 do....but i dont no how to bring up the question....please help...
I'd ask him when we are both in a sweet-talking mood. If you know what im saying. thats when i would do it. HaPpY hOliDays! (rate me)

Q: I have had my navel pierced since last july and right now it is so infected that it hurts to touch any where near it. any advice?
I just got mine pierced.. dec. 16th. i use seasalt from the meditereanen sea.. i got it at hornbachers.. go there and get it.. its a big bottle and works good.. put the seasalt in warm water and put it on your button (belly button) for 3 min. each night. and wash it 2 other times during the day with Dial non-scented soap!! HaPpY hOliDays! (rate me)

Q: Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend was on the computer in the next room over, well he kinda saw us hold hands and then he whispered to me that he wants to dump his g/f and go out with Taylor so I was like wow as soon as im getting somewhere he wants to go out with her so I told him to go ahead cuz he was kinda going for her 1st and then he went upstairs while we were makin out then he came abck down and told me to help hmi think up of a reason to break up with his g/f..he knows I like her but he told me he wants her over his g/f so he is gunna go for her..any advice?
I would tell her and make her make the decision. Plus a true friend wouldnt do that to you but you guys shouldnt really let a girl get between you i mean the girl may think its sweet and everything but still dont let anything get between you guys. HaPpY hOliDays! (rate me)

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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