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3 long years of a crush
ok, i've like this guy for a LONG time, 3 years. We've become better friends over the past 3 years since i liked him and i don't know if he likes me. We see each other at school but only in 3rd period but we talk most of the time since it's art. any ideas? i know i DON'T want to tell him how i feel, it would make everything so much harder and more awkward. If you think i should keep flirting, tell me some ideas. I'm 14, and he's 14. I'm a cheerleader and he's a football player but there isn't ne more games b/c the season is over. should i give up on this guy or stick to it?
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Keep flirting. That'd maybe give him the hint that you liked him. I understand where you are coming from about the awkwardness and stuff. I would maybe give up on it though if its been 3 years.. -trix
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tell a friend to ask him if he likes you its much easier that way so you dont put your feelings out on the line..drop him some hints that you like him start calling him more and flirting alot and try to get closer to him..that way if he responds to your flirting moves hes probably iterested..
*Love Ashley*
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Wow, ur story is just like mine. Ive liked my boyfriend since i saw him in 6th grade and im curently in 8th. i'm a cheerleader hes a football player, seasons over, and we only see each otha a lil bit in a day. But to your question, i really think that you should stick to it because i did and i told him once. Eventually, we flirted a lot and my friend could tell we liked each other a lot and she hooked us up. Weve been goin 2gether 4 about 2 and a half months and its goin great!! Stick with him and tell him how you feel, chances are if he flirts back, he likes you too and just doesnt want ne1 2 know!! If there are any after school activities like basketball games, maybe ask if hes going 2 1 and meet him there, or just hang out after school!! I hope i helpled and hope you get the guy!!
HaPpY hOlIdAyS aNd HaPpY nEw yEaR!!
~*Raven*~
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If you've liked this guy for 3 years, I don't think you should waste those 3 years and give up. Just keep flirting with him. You might get some of your friends to find out if he likes you. The way I got up the courage to tell the guy I liked was asking him who he liked when I talked to him on the internet. When I asked him who he liked, he would just give me clues. But finally when he asked me who I liked I said you. And I got my friends to find out if he liked me or not. And because I payed attention to him he had liked me the whole time. He was just to shy to show it. So what I'm saying is get up the courage to tell him you like him. If he's really a true friend, if when you tell him how you feel he doesn't feel the same way, he'll understand. Just keep flirting with him and throw hints at him when you can. And then hopefully you will be able to tell him how you feel. I promise you, it's all worth the wait in the end.
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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You've liked this guy for so long, wouldn't giving up now seem like you wasted those three years on that one guy? And obviously if you've liked him so long, you like him ALOT and he's really special and important to you. You should keep flirting with him, but you've gotta send him the signs that you like him. But, as all girls know, guys are pretty much oblivious to the subtle things we try to do. We call that OBS (Oblivious Boy Syndrome). Since you only see him in third period, ask him for help on your art projects or find him at lunch and talk to him about whatever then, or talking to him online, cause you then that's less tense. The only way you're gona be able to truly resolve this is to tell him your feelings straight out. Do it in person, and the worse thing that could happen is he could say no. And if he's been flirting back with you, chances are he likes you too. Putting your heart on the line is really hard, but it will be worth it in the end.
Love and Luck,
AJ
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Sweetie, don't give up on him! You have to tell him how you feel about him because if you don't you might regret later on in your life! 3 years is seriously a long time and you need to let your feelings out about this guy! Keep on flirting with him and one day, when you don't expect it, he might ask you out! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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If you've liked this guy for 3 years, I don't think you should waste those 3 years and give up. Just keep flirting with him. You might get some of your friends to find out if he likes you. The way I got up the courage to tell the guy I liked was asking him who he liked when I talked to him on the internet. When I asked him who he liked, he would just give me clues. But finally when he asked me who I liked I said you. And I got my friends to find out if he liked me or not. And because I payed attention to him he had liked me the whole time. He was just to shy to show it. So what I'm saying is get up the courage to tell him you like him. If he's really a true friend, if when you tell him how you feel he doesn't feel the same way, he'll understand. Just keep flirting with him and throw hints at him when you can. And then hopefully you will be able to tell him how you feel. I promise you, it's all worth the wait in the end.
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hon i was kinda still in the same situation there is this guy i like and i found out he likes me it took a long time to get him to like me. i was myself most of the time. if you ask your friends what am i like. then be what there response is. also i told my crush i liked him and hes bout to ask me out. so be yourself and let him no how you feel. also my crush im like best friends with him.
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Definatly stick to it. if u have liked him 4 that long then go for it! you said dont want to tell him how you feel, but you never know, he might like you to. Just have a trusted friend go ask him if he like you. If he says yes, then have them say that u like him to, and maybe you could hook up sometime. If he says no, its ok becasue he will never know that you like him. Hope i helped!
*~*danielle*~*
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hey,dont you dare give up on him im sure he likes you back .for all you know he might have liked you for 3years to!!!!!!!!!!! keep flirting and tell him that you like him it ell work out have faith!!!!!!!!!!!!-tish
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Keep flirting. Dont give up..you never know..he might ask you to the movies or a dance or something. Keep trying and if he doesnt say anthing..at least you'll be good friends. Its better to be friends than have no relationship at all!
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