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how do you delete your account here?
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Send DN an email explaining why you want your account deleted, and he'll most likely delete it for you. dangernerd@gmail.com
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hmmm, not sure what subject to put this under..
but if you're seventeen, dont have a drivers license,
how do you get in a movie that requires you to be seventeen? (link)
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There are a couple of things you can do.
1) Bring a valid ID with you. Meaning a state ID or you could use a student ID, if you have one.
2) You can have one of your parents walk in with you and tell them the situation, and they'll let you in.
By the way, you can go to your local DMV to get a state ID card. It's basically like a driver's license, except minus the driving part. =)
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My mom got me one of those big boxes of the cardboard applicator tampons and i'm having trouble putting them in because it hurts. I'm used to using the plastic kind. I don't want to go make her get plastic so any tips to using the cardboard kind? I want to know how to put both the plastic and the cardboard in.
Thanks :) (link)
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I recommend reading the instuction booklet that comes with it, it tells you more information that you can imagine, most of the time.
Sorry I'm not able to give you any more information, but I don't use tampons much, mostly just pads.
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I have a lot of guy friends, and they show signs that I see as affection. None but one has ever asked me out. I like these little signs of attention that others may not get, and I want it to go somewhere, at least in my mind. I imagine what it would be like date each of them, but in real life, I could never actually see myself actually hooking up with them. I love guys and love to hang out and chat with them (it's less drama than my girl friends), but I am nervous that my affection could be taken a way that I want it to be taken, but I know that I would never feel comfortable dating one of them. Does that make sense? I am super confused with myself. (link)
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You're making perfect sense, my friend has been in this situation once before. I agree with the person below, if you can't see yourself dating any of them, then I don't think it's the best idea. Unless something would change, as to where you could see yourself with one of them -- at that time, I would try something.
Do you think that maybe you just want that affection from a guy in general? And since you're super comfortable with these guys, you happen to imagine being with them? I really think that's what's going on, which is also perfectly normal, by the way.
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im depressed!!! not like suicidal but i need help!! but okay full story--i wrote guy i liked a note telling him i liked him--he thought it was weird so i wrote an apology note for telling him i liked him through a note---he wrote back said he was gay and gave me a number--i called it and it was my friend austin-- okay problem time!! i am so mad! i feel like crying right now! why did he lie to me--about gayness and number.. why didnt he just tell me the truth?? i can take it ima big girl!! i hate that he is jerky but i still cant get him out of my head! why am i having such a hard time letting go?? i mean if he were to ask me out i wouldnt be all like YES but i would be considering and i dont know why?! people are telling me things back and forth. im getting sick of debating and causing conflict in my mental and emotional states. so im going outside of the box.. i think ima gonna cry.. ugh! what is wrong wit me? nothing i no its him. i dont deserve a jerk like that but he is just so sweet and gorgeous--well except the lying to me but he is really friendly and considerate to me now.. o man o man o man.. (link)
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First off, lets stop debating. The only thing that matters is what you think here. I understand that you're having a hard time, but believe me, the more you try to figure out why this guy is a jerk; the more you're going to be depressed. Some guys are just like that, unfortunately.
Honestly, if he was really sweet, he wouldn't have done what he did to you. And say, for instance, you two get together -- what's going to stop him from doing something else and being a jerk? If you really want my blunt opinion, I think he's just toying with you. First, he's a jerk and made up a dumb excuse as to why he doesn't like you as more than a friend. Now, he's acting all nicey-nice to you. I'm afraid he's going to keep doing this over to you, and you don't deserve it.
I'd just be careful with this guy, and try to focus on your priorities and things that make you happy, rather than boys. Unless there's another guy you like, then go for that guy and maybe your mind will drift away from the other.
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ive heard a few things about castor oil and im here to see if they are true: does castor oil help eyelashes and hair grow and keep them healthy? any personal experiences? (link)
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Here you go =)
http://www.oohoi.com/natural%20remedy/everyday_food/benefits-of-castor-oil.htm
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I have thin hair, and I absoutely hate it. My hair always like splits itself and I don't have thick hair around my hairline so it looks weird. I just really want thicker hair. I got these intense braids in Florida in 4th grade, and they totally killed my hair, leaving it thin since then. I already eat healthy and exercise, but is there anything I can use like special shampoos to help my hair be thicker. I hate having thin hair, it really annoys and saddens me because it's so thin. I just want to have normal hair. :( Help please! (link)
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I recommend Aussie Volume Shampoo & Conditioner, they work very well at making my hair full and thick and volumizing, all at the same time.
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Ok so im a virgin 100% I dont use tamponds or you know stick my finger anywere. But I can make a farty noise from my vigina. Like air come in and out is that normal? (link)
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Yes, it's completely normal to "quiff."
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heyy. so im in highschool 10th grade
having sex.. blah blah blah..
well i dont know how experienced you are or what ever. but i dont know what to do when i am on top.. like i need advisse.. some help please. if you know anything about this subject, i would really appreciate it if you could help me! thank you so much! your awesome (link)
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I'm sorry, I'm not too experienced in this area. However, since I like to try to help people even when I don't know too much about it, I've found something that may help you. Sorry if it doesn't have the topic you need, I couldn't find anything really specific.
http://www.teenwire.com/topics/sex.php
http://www.gurl.com/topics/sex/0,,,00.html
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Every time I see a diagram that has small inner vaginal lips.. mine are smaller in the back but they are big in the front and they can be annoying and get in the way when I have sex. What's wrong with me? Is it genetic? (link)
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There isn't anything wrong with you, it's normal for it to be different sizes. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do about it is to have surgery, which I do not recommend, but that's just my opinion.
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So I have this terrible case of jewfro, and I want a change. What can I do with my curlies? (link)
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You can go to a salon and get it straightened or relaxed.
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ok well here's the thing: i like reading, but only when i'm really interested in the book (big surprise, right?), but when i DO get interested in a book, i can't get enough. i need more (i tend to obssess about things). anyway, my latest obssession has been the "Mordern Faerie Tale" series by Holly Black (Tithe, Valiant, Ironside), but i'm almost done, so i'm wondering if anyone knows any books similar to those, or basically any really good, gripping, rather-turn-the-page-than-breathe fantasy novels. if it helps, i'm also way into harry potter (yea, i know, i sound like an 11-year-old nerd, but whatev), so if you could suggest any books for my taste, i'd really appreciate it, since i really do like reading (not to mention i HAVe to do a lot of it), but most books bore me. thanks in advance=] (link)
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Since you like certain things, I thought giving this site would help you. That way, you can find exactly what you want. =)
http://teenreads.com/
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I have this huge pimple on the side of my nose, but its like not a normal pimple its like unfer my skin and doesent have like a "head" or anything. It's been there for a REALLY long time and just isn't gonig away! It's SOO embarresing, how can i get rid of it!? Thanks. (link)
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Here you go =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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i want a REALLY chunky haircut. i go to a really nice salon and everything, but i never know like how to exactly say i want it. so she kinda makes it her way. but i really want it to be a haircut where its like, when i put it in a ponytail, all the like top pieces of hair fall out. and i have like actual bangs right now. and im willing to make them side bangs. my hair is thick. so i can pull it off. i want the layers to stand out. i just kinda want it bold. i want it to be like the way california haircuts are. i just want it trendy and cute. and i'd probably prefer to straighten it. does anyone have any pictures of a choppy haircut? (link)
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Here are some =)
http://www.hairfinder.com/hairstylesdesign/style18.htm
http://www.fashionshowroom.com/beauty/2002/hair/choppy.htm
http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/trends/choppy.html
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Alright,my problem is very simple.
My boyfriend is currently deploy in Iraq and I got a letter from him yesterday.Everything's fine with him.I want to write back a letter for him but right now I live in different state,different place.My question is should I have to go to the post office if i want to send him a letter or can i use my regular mail-box?And what kind of stamp i have to use?I really want to know cuz i can't wait to write a letter to him cuz I sure he will be waiting for my letter.And i'm not a native speaker so if you find something weird grammer in my question...please forgive me and answer my question.Thanks...so much! (link)
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I'm almost positive that you go to the post office, though I'm not sure what stamp to use, but you can ask the person at the post office. They'll know exactly what you can do.
P.S. I wish your boyfriend and you nothing, but the best =)
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There is a song that plays near the end of the movie where the robots are all driving and it kind of sounds like the "rocky theme song" but it's not. It has no lyrics, and its when they are going to fight the bad robot. DO you know what the song is? Please please help me (link)
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Unfortunately, I do not know the name of the song. However, I'm assuming it's on the soundtrack. You can take a listen to these, and find out which one it is.
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5913410
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what are some funny, random things to say? hah. thanks (link)
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Here are some good, funny quotes.
http://www.amusingquotes.com/
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do you think this guy actually has a chance of winning? and will you vote for him? lol just curious.. i mean cause there are so many other good people running this year.. i wish Al Gore ran again.. but theres also Hillary Clinton and that Obama guy who are good IMO. but the colbert guy is pretty funny so i also want him to win. whats your opinion? btw i cant vote now.. im not american and im just 13, ahha. (link)
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I think he has a good chance, however, that's not who I want to win. I personally, want Hilary Clinton to win. I think she'd make a great president.
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Does anyone know where i can get a dress that looks like the one that jessica alba arrives to the wedding in, in the movie Good Luck Chuck.. the pink one with the belt.. ? Any ideas!
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I'm not quite sure where you can find the exact dress, but I know they sell dresses like that at H & M and Wet Seal.
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I've always wanted to go to Princeton and be a lawyer but now I found out Princeton doesn't offer law! I'm so angry!! What other IVY league colleges over law? Oh and if I'm wrong about the Princeton thing, correct me. :] (link)
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Unfortunately, Princeton doesn't have a law school. But some other Ivy league Colleges that do offer law...Harvard, Columbia, Yale, Cornell and Stanford.
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