about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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ok im home alone and i want to visit a pornographioc website for fun and out of curiosity on my laptop...if i delete the website i was at can my parents still catch me? like will those nasty advertisements be constantly popping up

well it doesnt only depend on the website your on. there can be a little like cheep that your parents put in your laptop that they can find out what website you went on and how long.. sorry if i am scaring you but it can happen and soem of the website might have a lot of pop ups. hop i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Other than crunches and running, do any of you have any tips or secrets that helped you lose a lot of weight around your waistline? Be specific - how long it took, how much you lost, etc. Thanks.

well i lost 15 pouds i a mouth by watching what i eat. it doesnt matter what you it is how much of it you eat. but i also ran danced and did activites that move my whole body. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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What should I do when my girlfriend gets HYPER?

i think you should just let her do what she wants until she isnt hyper anymore..
*~Stephanie~*

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How do you flirt?
i rate high

flirting is easy all you need to do is like mess aroumd with the other person. like poke him/her play with there hair, make jokes at him/her and so on. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay, i have this problem.. adimting i need help. and after what happened last night, i really need to ask for help. so i was at the mall with 2 of my friends, my mom, and my sister. well my mom called the the B word, and i go w/e and walked off. then she came up and hit me with a rather heavey bag, and i just turned around and pushed her. i had NO idea what was going on. like .. i didnt relize what i did. and i was supposed to go to a party that night with those 2 friends. my mom took them home, and me back to my house and grounded me for the day. she also took away my cell phone, and she had taken away my AIM last weekend.
i dont know what to do with my self, i dont know what has gotten into me.. it just feels everything is happening. and i cant controll anything, also i suck at asking for help.
can any one help me on here?
13/f

try talking to your mom and telling her that you dont know what you where doing last night and that you are really sry... try thinking before doing something. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I told this guy how i felt and he said that he likes me also but just a little bit how do i get him to like me more? I mean like i understand that it will take time but i need some help i mean i REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE this Guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Plzz write back,
Torn in 2
.P.S.I Rate High

try spending more time with him and gettin to know him more. since he likes you a lil bit mayb if you talk to him more often he will like you more. but be yourself. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a waxing kit I wanna use, but whenever I try, NOTHiNG comes off ! It's really annoying. Is there a right way to do it? Thnaks!

well when waxing the wax has to be worm for it to work.. if that doesnt work then you need to get a different kind of wax.i used to wax myself but noe i go and get it professonal done and what the do is the put the wax where you want the hair removed and then you put the cloth on it and push it down then pull it off. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay, I'm 15/Female if that matters and I've liked this guy for about a month. He liked me at the beginning of the school year for a long while but he never told me that because I had a boyfriend at the time. Now, I'm single and I'd like to go out with him but here's the problem .. he's been dating this girl for a month. I don't get why they're together though because everytime he wants to hug her she just pushes him off, she never wants to hold his hand, kiss him, or anything and I don't know why because they're going out .. but my question is, should I wait until him and his girlfriend break up so I can ask him out or should I go ahead and try and like some other guy or do something else?

i think you should wait... he waited for you and now you should wait for him.. try talkign toh ima nd tell him how you feel and see if he might break up wit this girlfriend for you. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie

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is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship

no there isnt anything wrong. if it is love then you will be fine. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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well ive known this boy for a while and ive never really looked at him as boyfriend status....cuz he my guy. Well lately we've had alot of late night convos goin to 6 in tha morning, and tha more i talk to him.. tha more i like him.. I also found out that he likes me..but im not sure if i want to make that step...but i really do like him tho. Im jus kinda confused and been battling in my mind whether we should date....but he is a great guy.. jus need an opinion for a boost... so if u can, let me kno wat u think....Thanks

well if you guys really like each other the go 4 it. if you guys really both liek each other then you guys would be a good couple. speak up now or have it in you 4ever. you should make a move know before you miss you chance. i hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

when you get your first period for the next couple of years your period will be irregulatr. it is normal so dont worry about it. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.



*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl )

well i think this "friend" is using you for sex. i have learned that SEX is when you STRONGLY love someone and i personal wouldnt do a guy that is my friend. a friend is a friend nothin else. there re a lot of people loosing there virginty at a young age. i dont think it is right. if you lose it you dont know what will happen. what if the condum break? and no matter how much protection you use there is still a chance of you getting pregent.but anyways back to answer your question. i think it would be kinda of sluty because you guys are ONLY friends not lovers. but that is just me. i hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together 4 a year and 4 months we've been through some problems like any good relationship has but i've never had a problem with him cheating. now he is at job corps which is somewhere u can get ur GED and pick up a trade he's been there 4 2 months and its 2 hrs. away from me now i've seen him about 4 times since he's been up there but its kinda hard because transportation is a problem 4 me and he has all these restrictions up there since he's under 18...now he has alot a bad influence on him up there and all his so called friends are trying to hook him up with other girls even though he made it clear he has a girl and the girls up there are hoes so they dont care so i been stressin alot because im scared of what he might do escpecially since he has all them people trying to influence him in the wrong ways. i trust him but theres distrust in my heart. i love him so much so i know if he was doing something it would break my heart so i would have to leave him cause i couldnt deal with knowin he did somethin with no other girl it just dont feel right and i couldnt stay with him knowin without a shadow of a doubt i could never trust him. its really hard escpecially simce im being faithful and im worried he not thats what really make me stressed but i just dont know what to do to stop myself from stressin over this and he has always had a problem with expressin his feelings so i have no comfort there cause im not sure how he feel sometime. if i really didnt love hime with all my heart i wouldnt be so worried but i do and i cant take anymore heartbreak.i've tried many times to tell him how i feel but i just dont know if he understand and i try to make him understand cause im never sure if he does which cause us to get in arguments sometime.i just wanna be stress free and i dont know how to do that... aight this is the deal...i usually dont ask for advice cause im a very independent person but i always give good advice to others... recently i've realized that i just cant help myself and give myself the same good advice i give to others so please any advice that anyone might give me make it realistic cause i know bullshit advice when i hear it..thanks

ok well first off you need to calm down and stop stressing out so much.everything will be ok.. no one is perfect and everyone makes a mistake. i understand that u love ur boyfriend and you trust him but you need to stop stressing about it. if its meant o be it will happen. if you guys belong together and he truely loves you he wont listen to what his supposeable guy friends tell him to do..*no guy is worth your tears and the ones that are WONT make you cry* what you can do if you are scared is to break up with him and stay close until he comes back. and when he comes back he should come back to you IF HE TRUELY LOVES YOU. otherwise he isnt worth your time. they are plenty of other guys out there 4 you. hey but dont stres out about it because stressing out is bad for you and it can hurt you physicaly and mentaly. relax everything is going to be ok. go do something to take your mind off of things. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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