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what should i do...
ok me and my boyfriend have been together 4 a year and 4 months we've been through some problems like any good relationship has but i've never had a problem with him cheating. now he is at job corps which is somewhere u can get ur GED and pick up a trade he's been there 4 2 months and its 2 hrs. away from me now i've seen him about 4 times since he's been up there but its kinda hard because transportation is a problem 4 me and he has all these restrictions up there since he's under 18...now he has alot a bad influence on him up there and all his so called friends are trying to hook him up with other girls even though he made it clear he has a girl and the girls up there are hoes so they dont care so i been stressin alot because im scared of what he might do escpecially since he has all them people trying to influence him in the wrong ways. i trust him but theres distrust in my heart. i love him so much so i know if he was doing something it would break my heart so i would have to leave him cause i couldnt deal with knowin he did somethin with no other girl it just dont feel right and i couldnt stay with him knowin without a shadow of a doubt i could never trust him. its really hard escpecially simce im being faithful and im worried he not thats what really make me stressed but i just dont know what to do to stop myself from stressin over this and he has always had a problem with expressin his feelings so i have no comfort there cause im not sure how he feel sometime. if i really didnt love hime with all my heart i wouldnt be so worried but i do and i cant take anymore heartbreak.i've tried many times to tell him how i feel but i just dont know if he understand and i try to make him understand cause im never sure if he does which cause us to get in arguments sometime.i just wanna be stress free and i dont know how to do that... aight this is the deal...i usually dont ask for advice cause im a very independent person but i always give good advice to others... recently i've realized that i just cant help myself and give myself the same good advice i give to others so please any advice that anyone might give me make it realistic cause i know bullshit advice when i hear it..thanks
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If he loves you that much he will not do anything, if he cheats on you, then don't worrry about it, you can find someone way better anyway. Stop stressing - trust him.. and see what happens..
remember :if he loves you he will do whats right
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Ok hears the situation your b/f is abt 2 hours away from you and he has his so called friends tryin 2 git him hooked up with another girl eventho he told them playnly he already had someone. well i should be able 2 help you b/c i have been in the same situation but hears what you should do, you should stop stressin out and let destyney take you where it wants. If he is up there and he cheats on you he is not worth yuor time you can find someone alot better than him but if he truly loves you every thing will be ok but if you truly love him you should trust him and see what happens. But dont stress if he loves you every thing will be ok hope i helped...
*$*KASEY*$*
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ok well first off you need to calm down and stop stressing out so much.everything will be ok.. no one is perfect and everyone makes a mistake. i understand that u love ur boyfriend and you trust him but you need to stop stressing about it. if its meant o be it will happen. if you guys belong together and he truely loves you he wont listen to what his supposeable guy friends tell him to do..*no guy is worth your tears and the ones that are WONT make you cry* what you can do if you are scared is to break up with him and stay close until he comes back. and when he comes back he should come back to you IF HE TRUELY LOVES YOU. otherwise he isnt worth your time. they are plenty of other guys out there 4 you. hey but dont stres out about it because stressing out is bad for you and it can hurt you physicaly and mentaly. relax everything is going to be ok. go do something to take your mind off of things. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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