Member Since: August 6, 2005
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Last Update: August 6, 2005
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my boyfriend is 15 and i'm 13/f well i think that his friends are telling him that he is stupid for going out with me, i want to talk to him about it but i'm scared to. he is my neighbor and i want to call him but i'm to scared that he is going to break up with me. what should i do (link)
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Well maybe you just need to talk to one of his friends.. or call him, or talk to him online.. and if he breaks up with you.. its because he wants to please his friends.. and he isnt mature enough to make his own decisions
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Okay im in 10th grade and I really like this senior. He told me 2 weeks before christmas that he has liked me since september and things were going really good until his parents split up. NOw he is depressed and is having a lot of problems at home. He acts fine around everyone else because nobody knows about his parents. He wasn't going to tell me but I bugged him about it because he just started ignoring me and everything. I talked to him the other night and he likes me but said that we can't "be together" until this is all over because his family is more important than me. I've waited for so long and I cry everytime i think about him (pathetic i know) because I like him so much. My question is how do i go about waiting for his family problems to go away? I mean until we can be together what should i do? (he is 18 and I am 15) I know its a pretty big difference but we really like each other. I know this all sounds really pathetic! Thank you so much! My AIM address is x rock my s0ckz (the o in sockz is a zero) IM if you want to talk or can help me.. i am pretty good with problems too so if you need anything then ask! (link)
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im thinking he just doesnt want what happened to his parents happen to him .. he is second guessing cuz he sees how heart breaking things are
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together 4 a year and 4 months we've been through some problems like any good relationship has but i've never had a problem with him cheating. now he is at job corps which is somewhere u can get ur GED and pick up a trade he's been there 4 2 months and its 2 hrs. away from me now i've seen him about 4 times since he's been up there but its kinda hard because transportation is a problem 4 me and he has all these restrictions up there since he's under 18...now he has alot a bad influence on him up there and all his so called friends are trying to hook him up with other girls even though he made it clear he has a girl and the girls up there are hoes so they dont care so i been stressin alot because im scared of what he might do escpecially since he has all them people trying to influence him in the wrong ways. i trust him but theres distrust in my heart. i love him so much so i know if he was doing something it would break my heart so i would have to leave him cause i couldnt deal with knowin he did somethin with no other girl it just dont feel right and i couldnt stay with him knowin without a shadow of a doubt i could never trust him. its really hard escpecially simce im being faithful and im worried he not thats what really make me stressed but i just dont know what to do to stop myself from stressin over this and he has always had a problem with expressin his feelings so i have no comfort there cause im not sure how he feel sometime. if i really didnt love hime with all my heart i wouldnt be so worried but i do and i cant take anymore heartbreak.i've tried many times to tell him how i feel but i just dont know if he understand and i try to make him understand cause im never sure if he does which cause us to get in arguments sometime.i just wanna be stress free and i dont know how to do that... aight this is the deal...i usually dont ask for advice cause im a very independent person but i always give good advice to others... recently i've realized that i just cant help myself and give myself the same good advice i give to others so please any advice that anyone might give me make it realistic cause i know bullshit advice when i hear it..thanks (link)
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If he loves you that much he will not do anything, if he cheats on you, then don't worrry about it, you can find someone way better anyway. Stop stressing - trust him.. and see what happens..
remember :if he loves you he will do whats right
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