Okay im in 10th grade and I really like this senior. He told me 2 weeks before christmas that he has liked me since september and things were going really good until his parents split up. NOw he is depressed and is having a lot of problems at home. He acts fine around everyone else because nobody knows about his parents. He wasn't going to tell me but I bugged him about it because he just started ignoring me and everything. I talked to him the other night and he likes me but said that we can't "be together" until this is all over because his family is more important than me. I've waited for so long and I cry everytime i think about him (pathetic i know) because I like him so much. My question is how do i go about waiting for his family problems to go away? I mean until we can be together what should i do? (he is 18 and I am 15) I know its a pretty big difference but we really like each other. I know this all sounds really pathetic! Thank you so much! My AIM address is x rock my s0ckz (the o in sockz is a zero) IM if you want to talk or can help me.. i am pretty good with problems too so if you need anything then ask!
HellsBells answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 7:51 pm: He's going through a really tough time right now. The best thing you can do for him is offer support and be there for him. He'll appreciate it in the long run. Just give him time to come to terms with things and I'm sure thing will work out fine. Hang on in there :O) [ HellsBells's advice column | Ask HellsBells A Question ]
angieroonie answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 7:31 pm: hey you need to stand by him and help him through this tough period. my best friends parents divorced and she was shattered. she has told me since that my standing by her helped her get through it. so be a great friend and when he's ready for a relationship you guys will be closer than ever. good luck
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