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Hey,
I have fair skin and im looking for a bathing suite. Im wondering which color suit will look best and not make me look even more pale or make my skin stand out even more. Like black does that make my skin look even lighter? I will get alittle darker this summer but still pretty light. So i need to know which colors would b best. Thank you!
-marsbars
I'd go with light colors, like pastels. try pink, light blue and purple.
does birth control make you fat..? because they're is a possibility that my doctor may put my on it cause im having female problems.and i heard that it does
thanks for the help ill rate all 5's!!!
it depends which kind... my friend is on the depo-perva (sp) and she gains 5 pounds a month. I don't think the other ones have the same affects tho.. ask your doctor before they put you on it.
does anyone know where to get sterling silver jewelry really cheap? like earrings, because icings/claire's, one sterling silver earring is like $1
look in random outlet stores in your area. a lot of places have sales and you can get things for $5 if you look hard enough...it definatly varies tho!
i would like to know the approiate age to wear make.. can anyone tell me if so how much make up. and is it true that it ages your face and it will get ruined faster then an average person would age because of make up?
I started around 12 at a school where you weren't allowed to wear any haha. the only thing i promise will ruin your complexion is foundation/powder...the all over stuff. i used to break out a ton from that. now i don't wear it on a usual basis and my face is clear. i'd say play up your eyes and lips at 12-13 is a good idea.. no more than mascara, shadow and lipgloss and maybe eyeliner.
not to be mean but why do girls with fat stomachs wear shirts that make their big jellyroll hang out? do they think thier not fat or something?
wowwwww. i think it's because they want to look happy with themselves? like "yeah i'm fat but i'm not ashamed" kinda thing? sometimes they just can't find clothes that fit right? or feel pressured to wear clothes that only come in small sizes. some people just don't dress right no matter what they look like! that's a few ideas i guess.
I stayed home from school today and i'm really bored. Is there anything I can do? There is nothing good on the tv. I can't talk to any of my friends! WHAT SHOULD I DO!
nicole
bake cookies, cake
clean your room
paint your nails
give yourself a mani/pedi
organize yourself
At the end of ht year we have 8th grade graduation. anyyways,sowe ahve to where what ever were wearing to graducation all day to school, so . i am doing my hair. and i ham waring a rpetty deress and stuff but how should i do my hair? my hair spast my shoulders nad i can make it relay straight or super curly. so anyways giv eme some nice ideas that i can do at home.
thanks..
i rate 5's
byby
ps. donttell me to go get it done thxx
for mine, i bowdried and it was mostly straight but it kinda waved a tthe end to give it body.
What is the thematic relationship between the story told in "To Kill a Mockingbird" and the books title? Discuss at least 3 characters that might be discribed as "mockingbirds".
i have no clue what in the world im suposed to write about. can someone please give me an idea what exactly its asking?? 5's
thanks
I'm kinda confused on the question too but i would say Boo is one...he could hurt people for spying and everything but he doesn't.
my eyelashes are kinda short and straight.. so if i curl them, how can i make them look longer and thicker?? any good mascaras or tricks that work well?
definately curl them
victoria's secret mascara is awesome!
what type of jazz shoes are "black of austrailia"'s? i was asking my friend what type of shoes she had and she said those and i didnt want to sound stupid by asking what they look like...thankss ♥
I think it's a brand because I tried looking them up and there's no such thing...
My boyfriend is getting "confermation"(sorry about spelling guys!!) and i am invited to his party.. I was wonderin, hes realy religous, well not a freak about it but he truely beleives in god. anyways, would it be stupid to give him a congrads card with will 10-20 bucks in it? If so how much money???
Let me know asap!
Thanks bunches you guys!
~meg~
Ps. It doesnt matter how long we've been going out so dont ask. We've been going out for 2 1/2 months but we were best friends, and i mean best friends since 6th grade. and i mean best friends.
thanks.
yeah that would be good. that's pretty much what I got for mine.
What kind of job can a 14 year old girl get?
I am almost 14 and need a job badly. My parents barely have enough money to pay the bills. I want to help them out. Please no babysitting. [if this helps i live in PA]
you can be a ref for soccer or basketball. that's usually pretty good money.
you can work at a nursing home doing various odd jobs.
look around in the paper to see who is hiring.
Ok, this is a random question, but; is there a way to buy movies that havn't been released in American but in other countries for an extremely low price?
You mean in English? yes, it's possible. I know people in mexico that get dvds long before they come out. you just have to know where to buy then and who to buy from. I'm pretty sure china does that too.. I wouldn't recommend it tho since what they do is illegal.
I have had a really bad guilty feeling since 2 weeks ago. I went to a dance(at my school), and me and my boyfriend snuck out of the dance. We went up behind the school, and we...uhh...had sex. I have been with him for 2 years, and i dont regret doing him. But i have had a horrible guilty feeling about it. And i dont know why. Can someone please tell me why i feel guilty, and something that i can do to make the feeling go away. Please and thank you. By the way, I'm a 14/f.
-EmoChick
I think you just feel guilty because although it seemed ok...it might have been weird since you were behind the school. that would get me feeling pretty guilty but don't worry about it... at least you didn't get caught. next time, plan things out a little better so it's a little more guilt-free.
can you wear tampons in the ocean? im just wondering because you know how people say that sharks are attracted to ? please help ill rate you high.
yeah you can wear them. i've heard sharks are attracted to blood in general so if you're on your period, you have a higher chance of getting attacked by a shark. It most likely won't happen anyway but yeah, you can use a tampon.
My friends (girls) and I are going to sadie hawkins in a big group of 6 or 7, and we always make matching shirts. I need ideas for sayings to put on them. We like things that are a little risky, or have a double meaning, like once, my friends said "is your muffin buttered?" and mine- "Do you want me to butter your muffin?", But we dont want anything too dirty or too obvious. A cute or funny line from a movie or song would be good too, but again, not too obvious (like we dont want something that says "Ill be your dirty little secret" or anything like that) Oh and Please, no napoleon dynomite. I will rate 5's for everyone who at least tries to answer my question. As many sayings as possible, please. Thanks!
*"you make me wanna lala"
*some quote from "my humps"
* "dame mas gasolina"
hi I am 12 years old and i really like this boy out of my class we used 2 go out and now we would laugh at eachothers jokes and muck about he would stick up 4 me all the time should i ask him
ask him what? ask him out?
if you want to, go for it.
Im back again. In the four months we went out I would give her flowers every Friday. Everyweek I took her out to fancy diners. I have written alot of poetry for her to. But I want to do something she wont resist. I can send her emails flowers poems etc but she wont respond. I need something that will weaken her knees and despite what her mother says she'll ache for me. Maybe Im insane. Who knows. I just dazed and confused
If you can, show up unexpectedly...somewhere she can't just run away or not respond. make her a little scrapbook and leave it on her desk. if you make it on a computer, at least if she tears it up, you wont lose pictures. include ticket stubs, take out menus...
maybe you should get her flowers on friday with a note saying "i'm sorry..." & " do you want to meet up for dinner at.... like old times?" or something sweet. see if that works.. goodluck!
I have recieved your response to my previous question and I really appreciate it. I have one more question. What can I do that will melt her heart. I know where she works. But I mean in the 4 mths we've been together I have done everything so Im out of ideas. Thanks again
you are such a sweetie!
these are somethings she would probably like:
*decorate her office space
*leave her cute little notes in random spots
*write her a love letter and include pictures of the two of you
*show up at work with flowers
*write her poetry
*make her dinner
it's the little things that really mean a lot.
anyting else, leave it in my inbox.
Im 25 and went out with a girl(22) for four months. She was every thing to me. I did everything for her. She found a porn site onmy computer and left me. Two weeks have passed. Finally she chatted online with me for a few minutes and that was it. I love this girl. I would do anything to win her back. Can you help me. I've tried so much.
she left you for one porn site? oh gosh!
tell her she means everything to you and that you don't want sex like the kind depicted on the site because you love her and aren't just in it for pleasure or fun. stay away from your computer as much as possible... quit watching/looking at porn to show her that you are really making an effort to make her happy because she makes you happy and you want her back. i think you guys should go out somewhere together and have fun. apologize but don't annoy her to death.