I have had a really bad guilty feeling since 2 weeks ago. I went to a dance(at my school), and me and my boyfriend snuck out of the dance. We went up behind the school, and we...uhh...had sex. I have been with him for 2 years, and i dont regret doing him. But i have had a horrible guilty feeling about it. And i dont know why. Can someone please tell me why i feel guilty, and something that i can do to make the feeling go away. Please and thank you. By the way, I'm a 14/f.
-EmoChick
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday March 25 2006, 9:58 pm: I think you just feel guilty because although it seemed ok...it might have been weird since you were behind the school. that would get me feeling pretty guilty but don't worry about it... at least you didn't get caught. next time, plan things out a little better so it's a little more guilt-free. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
AskCary answered Saturday March 25 2006, 8:42 pm: You may not regret doing it, but if you feel guilty it's because a part of you believes that it was wrong. If it makes you feel guilty then you shouldn't do it again. The only thing that will make that feeling go away is time, but that only works if you don't do it again. Otherwise, the guilt will start all over again. [ AskCary's advice column | Ask AskCary A Question ]
xlionxyouthx answered Saturday March 25 2006, 7:34 pm: I think it's normal to feel guilty of sex. It's a big step, especially if it was your first time. Hopefully, over time you'll get used to it.. and realize that being aroused at this age is completely normal. if you feel like you're just selling your body, and guilty for it.. Then don't do it again, but that's not up to me. That's up to you. [ xlionxyouthx's advice column | Ask xlionxyouthx A Question ]
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