My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
Website: MySpAcE
E-mail: x3candiigurrrl@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Colonie New York
Occupation: Radio Host && Singer/Songwriter
Age: 14
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MSN: raexnicolee@hotmail.com
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okay so i've had my first kiss which i have freaked out about for ever, but then i got it and it was nothing. haha and it was kinda... just bland. and does anyone have a site that helps you and gives you kissing tips? because i want to be able to you know.. have a great kiss and know how to make it spicey and stuff. haha thank youuuu :D
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a website or book or anything wont help you learn how to kiss. practice makes damn near perfect remember? I know people who paractice on their pillows (( weird I know but they havent gotten any complaints ))
if you like the person a lot the kiss will automatically just rock your socks and be good without trying.
but to spice it up use some toungue babii lol. make sure your eyes are closed the WHOLE time... and uhm yeah you get the picture
Rae
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I've been ill with a cold/cough/bronchial infection of some sort, but I didn't go to a doctor. Over the past three days I've been taking robitussin during the day and codeine syrup before bed. I've been getting plenty of rest, I've been drinking OJ to help boost my immune system and hot tea with honey to soothe my throat, and I have been staying home from school and not partaking in any strenuous activity. I even have a humidifier in my room on full blast nonstop. I feel fine now -- all exhaustion and dizziness is gone and my throat only hurts in the mornings -- but I have this horrible tickle in my throat that makes me cough ALL DAY LONG and I simply cannot get rid of it. I also have been unable to conquer my runny nose. Any tips?? (link)
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I had this EXACT same thing... I just had 3 bads of ludens cherry cough .. uhh haha brain fart I cant remember the word lol. but yeah you suck on them and they make you stop coughing haha. i feel dumb. but yeah... i used them
and try takin robitussin at bed and use a lot of vicks at night while you sleep. I also used the vicks plug in thing that puts vapors in the air while you sleep... and it smells like a strong mint
sorry for the blonde moment... hope i helped anyway
Rae
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How do you get a v-muscle? a.k.a. sex lines? (link)
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uhm work out? lol. there isnt really anyway to get them. everyone is born with them... my friends sister is like 3 and has really defined ones.
Rae
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alright so me and my boyfriend want to go soemwhere this summer like over night but we dont know where to go.. ive got camping and the beach from people but the beach is deff like 5 hours away so any body else have any good ideas (link)
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a cabin somewhere cold is pretty romantic. or you can always just go to a nearby hotel and stay there for a weekend. haha like playing pretend lol. idk where you live.. but maybe going to a town nearby would be fun.
Rae
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Ok so i have a plan to ask the guy i like (whose younger and we work together)to prom. Im going to ask his friend who i feel comfortable talking to, "If i asked Sean to prom, do you think he would come with me?" my view on it is that i will get his friends response and it will prep the guy i like (sean) about me asking him. What do you think? all advice is wanted, thanks in advance! (link)
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its never good to go to a friend. he might tell the guy, and what if the guy your gonna talk to likes YOU. you should just ask sean to prom and get it over with
Rae
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Okay, this is really really embarrassing but...I can't think of what else to do but ask it on here...because it's anonymous.
I have these little bumps around my nipples, in the areola kind of, and I was wondering if that was normal...? I'm only 16, so I don't think it would be breast cancer lumps or anything like that... (link)
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everyone has them so dont worry
but you said you didnt think it was breast cancer cause your 16... im sure u dont ahve it but anyone at any age can get it.. even guys
Rae
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I want to give this guy I like the "go-ahead" to ask me out if he really likes me, but I'd rather not just flat out say, "I like you as more than a friend." I've done that before, twice, and both times it ended badly and I was embarrassed. But, on the other hand, dropping subtle hints doesn't always do the trick with guys. What would be a sure-fire way to let a guy know that you like him without being blunt? (link)
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flirt with him constantly... stare into his eyes, compliment him, say oh wow we should hang out sometime... it works i swear :-D lol
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what is going on if a girl looses white stuff down there????? (link)
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its natural and happens when youre about to get your period. Ask your doctor if it starts to hurt, you might have an infection
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lately i feel so dull and empty and like i dont matter any more. ive tried to be happy but im just not. ive even gone to a therapist. one of my friends was like i was, and then she got into the porn industry. she said it makes her happy and she makes a lot of money now. i didnt approve but then i started to think about it and im starting to concider trying it out. im scared though so i need some advice if i should or not. and i really want to i just dont know how to start. so if anyone knows how i could get started.. or if youve done it before and what you think. thanks (link)
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whoa whoa whoa backk upp hunny
ur gonna go into the PORN industry because ur DEPRESSED at the moment
i mean COME ON.... just because you're friend likes it doesnt mean you will... a lot of bad things can come from the porn industry... not to mention thats just plain wrong.
if it once made you disgusted deep in your heart it still does.
i dont think you should at all
Rae
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There is this family friend who is helping our family while my grandma has a stroke. I dont mind her helping because we always help her financially. You see she isn't finacially well off and I heard she theifs. Okay so that set me back, and now she wants to come and stay 3 days a week by us. I totally hate her she jus comes and preaches n my mum is always taken back by her. She's always like how she knows what she's doing and my mum doesn't think about my grandma she jus talks to this lady WHOLE friggin day and it pisses me offf and I break down! How can I stop her comin? (link)
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you live there not her
just tell her you dont want her to come over and help anymore because its stressing everone else out instead of helping you get through it
if shes really a FRIEND of the family shell understnad
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I missed the day of standardized testing where you have to write an essay. My friend told me what the prompt was. Will the prompt be different when I make up the test? (link)
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actually... sometimes they do change the prompt to try and limit cheating
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Is it possible to get a profile using AIM express? (link)
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hahaha nopee sorry hun
i go on it ALL the time during skewl and found out the hard way theres no way to make a profile with it
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What are some low-calorie snacks that taste really good? I'm on a diet and I get tempted to cheat! lol (link)
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Slim Fast ANYTHIGN tastes reallly good and they are diet foods. you can buy them basically anywhere and they are totally good.
they're energy bars are small and fill you up really fast. I eat them during lunch instead of buying the food there.
Rae
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one of my friends chinchilla's is poorly, hes a male adult, but were not to sure of the age anywhere between 5 and 10 years.
Hes been lying down all day and hasnt eaten much, she tried a him with a raisin (for energy) but he didnt touch it and she tried him with water, he had a bit of that. Hes really weak and cant move about AT all. she put him back in his cage not long ago and his son jumped on him so she took him back out. my friends mum won't let her take him to the vets.
we know the life expectancy is 10-15 years but we dont want to think the worst of it because it might be something else.. what could it be? any advice??
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he could have eaten something that made him a little sick, or maybe even plastic or something. but the best thing to do is go to the vet... and if the mom wont let you guys thats awfully mean to the dog... what if the dog is really sick and the vet can help him from not dying?
you should really try to convince her to let the dog go see a vet... otherwise the dog might end up suffering for a long time.
or you can try calling a vet near by and explain the situation. they might be able to help you better than anyone on here
Rae
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hey i need help...me and my boyfreind have been going out for almost 6 months i want to get him something but i just dont know what...can anyone give me some sugestions.
i would really apreciate it
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after 6 months you should have an idea about what he likes. his music taste, clothing style, or anything quirky he just happens to like. get him a shirt... or a CD that hes been dying for. or even a DVD that both of you can watch together.
my friends a senior and for her 6 month anniversary she made her boyfriend a mix tape of all the songs that reminded her of their relationship and how she felt with him... if all else fails you could always do that.
Rae
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How many calories are in a coffee roll at dunkin donuts? (link)
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to find out go here
https://www.dunkindonuts.com/aboutus/nutrition/
and itll tell you the nutrition values for everything in the store
Rae
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I am 40/f and own my own home. Because he's just never got his act together I've had my brother and fiancee living with me since june 2005. They are paying rent, but i really want my space back! I've lived alone for almost 12 years (after being widowed at 29). They are getting married tomorrow.... how can i gracefully ask when they will be moving on? I've kinda put my mom up to saying... so, are you two planning on buying a house or what? but she's been ill and hasn't had the opportunity. Appreciate your advice! (link)
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my god they're getting married TOMORROW?! dont they see theres something wrong with that picture?
just let them know that you want your space back, and that as a 40 year old you have that right. Im not sure how old youre brother is but if hes getting MARRIED he can surely go out and rent an appartment.
i mean hes payin you rent anyway. besides... would HE want to have his own place with his wife??
im sure theyll understand seeing as how you've given them shelter for almost a full year now
hopee i helped
Rae
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Righto, my monthly visit (period) just came by again. It's weird, it's really uncomfortable and it hurts just to walk.. I was just wondering how can I make my cramps a little better and any hints/tips on periods? Thanks (link)
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Ummm try taking tyonol at school and just before you leave in the morning
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I need more than one sentence answers. If you give detailed advice on this and reasons why you chose the groups/musicians you will get a 5 out of me. I am generous but expect when I ask advice, as I give detailed ones to you usually as GDROB to get the same back.
I am producing a new radio show with movie reviews, games, trivia, etc. for teens we have chat and forums too, special guests. My biggest problem is choosing music for in between the segments. I wanted some suggestions on acts or solo performers you guys are into. I am trying to develop a playlist really and need guidance.
Also, please understand the music has to be good but squeaky clean. The rules state I cannot have swearing, violence against women, right-winged ideas etc. on the show or I am in trouble. If there are poets, spoken word or actual artists among you send me a note.
BTW, this is not to provoke the ire of the admin. I am not advertising but merely seeking guidance from teens here who know this stuff. (link)
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One of my favorite bands right now is Fall Out Boy. They're kind of a punk rock and their songs are really good. They make you think and their songs have meanings and morals. One of their songs is Sugar We're Going Down, where they talk about how all the stereotypes in high school are boring.
I really like The Click 5 too. They are considered by many as the next beatles. None of their songs swear (( the worst word they say is hell )) and they are a pop rock band. Their hit song is Just The Girl, where they sing a story about how nom matter how horrible this girl treats them she's the only girl they want.
Some contests could be win an autographed ____ or win a free lunch. I don't know things like that. I'm guessing you dont have enough money to go on free trips or concerts, or back stage passes. But maybe a free DVD or CD.
Hope I Helped.... music is my life so if yu want any help with songs e-mail me
x3candiigurrrl@yahoo.com
I also write songs so if you want anything particular....
rae x333
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ok my best friend or was best friend is trying to get attention from everyone in a bad way. shes getting on everyones nerves and i want to tell her real bad but i don't know how to tell her. she hates volleyball and shes over there going i love volleyball its the best sport just to get a attention and its getting way out of hand what can i do to keep our friendship because we are fixing to lose it. HELP!! (link)
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Tell her she's making an ass out of herself. No I'm kidding. Let her down gently. Tell her that being something she's not is really bad. And that people know she's pretending and that they're getting sick of it. Let her know you love her the way she is. And a different her isn't as good.
Candii Gurl
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