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This 'family' totally makes me wana freak out


Question Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 2:38 pm

There is this family friend who is helping our family while my grandma has a stroke. I dont mind her helping because we always help her financially. You see she isn't finacially well off and I heard she theifs. Okay so that set me back, and now she wants to come and stay 3 days a week by us. I totally hate her she jus comes and preaches n my mum is always taken back by her. She's always like how she knows what she's doing and my mum doesn't think about my grandma she jus talks to this lady WHOLE friggin day and it pisses me offf and I break down! How can I stop her comin?

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x3candiigrl answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 4:34 pm:
you live there not her

just tell her you dont want her to come over and help anymore because its stressing everone else out instead of helping you get through it

if shes really a FRIEND of the family shell understnad

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iLuvcandy answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 3:53 pm:
If ur mom likes this lady then you can try to convice her to stop this lady from coming over, butif your mom dislikes her, convice her more to dislike her and your mom will have enough and thats the end. Then if that doesn't work I would get out moreand stay away from her.
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tipsy_gypsy answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 3:00 pm:
Unfortunately you cant stop her from coming. It is your mother's house, and if your mother enjoys this woman's company and wants to talk to her, then your mother has the final say.

I'm not understanding why you're getting so worked up by this person's presence in your house. Is she stealing anything from you? And what do you mean by 'preaching'? If she's stealing from you, that's another story. But if she's preaching a faith you don't believe in, then you don't have to sit there and listen to it(unless of course, your mother forces you to). My suggestion is, when you know this person is coming over to your house, go hang out with your friends or find something else to do. There's no sense in 'breaking down' over something so trivial, and something you can't control.

Sincerely,
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