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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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Hey yawl i have a question,ok here it goes.im in the popular group (not to be conceited)but my friends are too and well they kindof get on my nerves sometimes.they brag alot,and they think they are all that and that they are the best things in the world.and they r really bossy.oh yeah we are all girls.and they are always always annoying me.should i tell them how i feel?or let them keep on? thanx Haley

well if u tell them how u feel you could lose them. try to act they way u want them to act and they may follow. that or u could point little things out to them that annoy u every so often. but dont make a big deal over it. good luck,...let me know how things work out.

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UUUMMMMMMMMMMMMM.....hey...ok heres whats goin on....i really like this girl....but i never get to spend any time with her...we went to the movies as friends..and we ended up holdin hands..so thats what got us started.....and i really like her...how can i spend more time with her?

well first of all there are lots of ways. if ur skool has any football games or soccer games or any kind of sport game things u could go and hang out. maybe in between classes u could talk to her. but friends are a big deal in this situation. dont lose ur friends for her...let me know if you ever need any more help;let me no how it works out...good luck!

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sorry if this long, please read it.

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umm, ok. im not realllly ugly, but im not beautiful, hot, etc. i have lots of great friends, but sometimes i feel like i dont belong. im always worrying about what the popular people are thinking when i do something. (some popular people are my friends tho) there's this one girl, she always gives me the "stare" and she popular.(reminder: the people in my school arent like preppy, their like 'cool', punk, all that.)and she thinks shes all that, but shes so stuck up. i dont feel comfortable around her, because i think im gonna do something that she doesnt 'approve' of. i dont know, im confused. i dont know what to do. i dont wear makeup, do you think i should? i dont wanna look like a prep. i wear like billabong, oneill, and other stuff. like i shop at pac sun + other stores like that. i just dont know what to do. please help me. thank you sooo much. i really appreciate it.

be who you are. dont worry about what other people think of you. be yourself. popular ppl have expectations to who they have to be and they have ppl who think they know them but they really dont. idk just be u..dont worry about what other ppl think. that and if they were ur friends they wouldnt judge u like that.

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Okay ..i got a really bad grade on my spanish thingy .. i got an E and ive never gotten an E in my life. I mean i got grounded for a C and who knows what will happen with an E .. im too scared to show my mom so i thought about forging bcuz i've done it before but im afraid that like one day im gonna have a parent-teacher confrence and my teacher is gonna show her that and her be like i never signed that. i dont want the simple answer honesty is the key or whatever i want what yall would do! i rate really good =) please help me now!!!

show it to ur mom. its better to show her now than for her to find out later from someone else. even tho u may get grounded it is the right thing to do..good luck!

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For some reason pretty girls make me jealous. I don't have a man that I think they will steal but just seeing them makes me hate myself even more then I already do. There are only 2 things I like about myself, my eyes and my voice. But there are all these pretty girls out there and I am just not one of them. I don't know how to make myself feel better about it. I have tried making myself look good...but I can't even do that. Any idea on how I can get over this?! PLZ ~N~ thank you!

*~Carrie~*

luv u for who u are. just ignore all the so called "pretty grls" dont want to be pretty. cuz if ur not pretty then u no a guy isnt just going for ur looks. be who you are. not someone else

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hey please help! im really upset now! okay well ive had 7 boyfriends and one of them im going out with right now. well.. i love him the most out of all of the boys ive went out with! and today after school he came up to me and was like so your not gonna say ( just playin around ) i was like hi ! lol and he was like so ur not gonna give me a hug? i gave him a hug then we said our byes and then we went to our busses. well i was waiten for my bus and i looked and he was walken with 2 other girls and he hugged one of them and ive seen him with her at the ymca before with her and im really upset! what do i do??!!

talk to him about it...but dont be jealous!

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well....there is this boy at scool nd he asked me out.....im am very shy so im not so comfortable around boys but i kinda like him but im afraid that im goin to feel weird round him.....plzz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Boy Trouble

just be yourself. try not to be shy too...good luck

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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!!

there isnt much to do...besides to be yourself...good luck..and have fun

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my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..

u need to just talk to her...obviously she thinks that physical pain is better than emotional. but its not. tell her that whatever is bothering her that she can tell u and u two can work it out instead of her working it out in a dangerous way.good luck...let me no how it goes.

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okay i live in like this small town. Guys at my school think i am not pretty well they say they do but dont mean it . . but when i go to the town next to us it different they all think i am really cute or hott and like my figure . and i always chill with them and stuff the thing id otn get how cum kids in my town dotn like me but kids in the town next to me do . . i mean i am 14 n i have 16 n 17 year old guys chekin me out and gettin there number . . i jsut dont get ittt helpp me please dont dleate

its just guys have different styles or tastes..or however you would say that

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Hey Hey,

Well one of my friends hurts herself becasue she is depressed and I found this out from another friend and I wrote a letter to the friend that was hurtin herself that she shouldn't do that and that too many ppl love her and that we don't know what we would do without her and she said that she just needs ppl to understand her and I said I would. But now the friend that told me about my depressed friend is mad at me because I supposidily promised her that I wouldn't tell anyone that I knew. I don't know what to do. Should I forget it? The friend that is mad at me was one of my best friends. HELP!

aright right now you need to focus on the one who needs help. just comfort her. soon ur other friend will relize what you did was for the better and not for the worse. good luck..

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This is gunna be long so be ready, but please help! im driving myself crazy not knowing what to do... ok, i've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months, and i like him alot, but our relationship is 'dying' and he doesn't know what he wants to do with it and i wanna know how to bring it back up again, i think that we should hang out more like we used to in the summer but then school started and we stopped hanging out, but it doesn't seem like he wants to hang out now. but hes so odd, cuz at times he wont even acknowledge my presense, then 20 minutes later he'll be all over me, and hes so protective of me... like there this one kid that keeps calling me and he's trying to get with me and my boyfriend hates that and wants this kid to stop, and i dont see why he would be so protective of me if he doesn't want to go out. and i know if we just hang out once outside of school then our relationship would be great again, cause then we could do wat we used to.
soo....

1) what do you think he wants to do (break up, not break up etc.)

2) what should i do to bring my relationship back up?

PLEASE HELP!!! i rate high

id say dont break up. and try to find a time when u and him have nothing going on and just hang out and talk about what is going on and everything. good luck..

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Well me and this guy lets say him name is bob well bob has like me since the first day of 9th grade... And we were best friends since the 6th grade... Well i found out he liked me and i was shocked cause his my best friend... So we went out and i didnt feel right and i broke up with him... I was so sad cause i hurt him... Well me and bob barely started talking acouple of months ago and he had a girlfriend... and they broke up and he still has feelings for her... Well me and my friends were hanging out in my house and chris called and i went down stairs and they talked and he was like so do u like *me* and he was like ya ill always like her and then she asked do u like *her* and he said ya... Then she was like so who do u choose... And he said i dunno... And by the way me and *her* got into a fist fight at school... Cause we hate each other... But ya what should i do?

there really isnt anything to do. if he likes, he likes u. that doesnt mean that u have ot like him. one thing u never want to do..lie to urself..dont make ur self like someone just because ur friends..that never goes over well. good luck(with the fist fights in the future as well)

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first and foremost, i wouldl ike to add one thing to moderators. delete me! i do not care! you may delete at will! i trust you in your power, and the rest of us lower ppl should! quit saying dont delete me ppl! theres only like 11 or 12 levels 2's! if your deleted, theres a reason! so with that in mind, delete to your hearts content. and please, please, from the bottom of my heart, delete the next question that says do not delete. and thank you everyone, for reading this warm, heartful thing on deleted questions. or something. hm, i wonder if this makes any sence, what so ever.

Matt

well said

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I was talking to my ex and he said that my bestfriend "buth" said something about the guy i liked. I think it was something like, "he doesn't like her like that, and they'll never got out!" I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost in waht i should do. Should I ask her if she said something like that or what?

definitely ask her if she said it or not. cuz maybe that is just what someone said to make u mad at her. whos knows. so go and find out the truth.

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is it ok to go out with a perosn that is younger than you?

yea its ok...but not to young.

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Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?

umm..yea definitly...

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Posted Monday August 23 2004, 4:51 pm
Well, i am 13 and i've already had sex..Does that make my a whore?..I mean, i've been dating the guy for a year and i love him and i know i am young, but i want to be with him for the rest of my life..I also got caught in his closet with my pants down..By his dad..Am i a whore:(

no not exaclty...a whore is more like when you go around sleeping with alot of guys. but it is a lil to young. but if you say u love him and he loves you and as long as hes not using u...:-/

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heyy does anybody know any good sites with quotes. Not just lovepoetry.com but quote sites that teenagers have made? Thanks!!!

firehotquotes.com is really good or you could just go to like a search engine(ex. google, ask jeeves, msn...etc) and type in like a certain category of quotes or whatever you want..good luck

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well i was dating this guy for a while...then things kind of fell apart between us. nothing bad really...he was really busy with work and we kind of just drifted. anyway we just started talking again and he explained everything he was thinking and all that. but while we talked i never really got to say everything i wanted or ask him what the deal is with us. i talked to him online tonight and i had to leave but i thought we would talk when i got back. but he hasn't come back online, and i know he's really busy so i dont want to bug him on the phone. so my question is, should i email him...say what i have to and ask him where things stand, or should i just wait until i talk to him again? i'd appreciate any advice...i really dont know what i should do!

i would tell him in person. cuz he might not check his email...or he might get mad...and if you do it in person then you will know exactly how he feels as soon as you tell him...i hope i helped....good luck

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