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Question Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 10:13 pm

well i was dating this guy for a while...then things kind of fell apart between us. nothing bad really...he was really busy with work and we kind of just drifted. anyway we just started talking again and he explained everything he was thinking and all that. but while we talked i never really got to say everything i wanted or ask him what the deal is with us. i talked to him online tonight and i had to leave but i thought we would talk when i got back. but he hasn't come back online, and i know he's really busy so i dont want to bug him on the phone. so my question is, should i email him...say what i have to and ask him where things stand, or should i just wait until i talk to him again? i'd appreciate any advice...i really dont know what i should do!

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Additional info, added Sunday August 22 2004, 11:30 pm:
so i composed an email just to see how it would sound...and it got REALLY long...i feel like i would have to make a speech in person or on the phone lol. and he checks his email at work all the time. so i dont know if that makes a differnce too....

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Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:55 am:
I think is this is an issue that is better dealt with in person. You should talk to him face to face.

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SaraEliKirk answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:43 am:
If i were you, i would write him! The worst thing that could happen is him not reply and then at least you can say you tried! :*:SaRa:*:

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:29 am:
go ahead and email him

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princs answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:48 pm:
i think asking serious questions like that through e-mail is a bad idea casue it doesnt seem like real life. I think you should just wait until you can talk to him again. I wouldnt worry about bugging him, its just a call and will only take a few minutes.

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superstar10 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:21 pm:
i would tell him in person. cuz he might not check his email...or he might get mad...and if you do it in person then you will know exactly how he feels as soon as you tell him...i hope i helped....good luck

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iLjaG answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:39 pm:
It's really up to you. If you are afraid you wont have time to tell him again, send him an e-mail. An e-mail is sort of cliche, but it is an easier way to express your feelings than on the phone/instant messaging. But, if you talk to him on the phone, it will be more personal than e-mailing him and you will probally get a straight-forward answer. It's all about personal preference.

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