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too tight


Question Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 10:06 pm

hey how do i make it not hurt when my boyfriend trys to finger me..?? it hurts reallyyy bad when he tries the normal two fingers...all he can fit is one!!! will someone tell me why is that...and how can i get losser??!!

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snowwalker69 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:01 pm:
uh, well, you can try masterbation (dilldoes or vibraters) that will loosen you up i think .... the only for sure way i know of is either continue the fingering and he can ease himself into it, or have sex, which, i hate to tell you, will be very painful of you can't handle 2 fingers. ttyl

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On3-Sh3xii-Gl answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:59 pm:
You cant just make it not hurt..you have to get use to it then it starts to loosen up..hope i helped ya out

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MCRRocks102 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:57 pm:
Well some gurls and guys are different it might be cuz his hands are big .some gurls are smaller down there and if its hurting you then just do one ......make your own normal.It takes diffrent strokes to rule the world!!!

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brunettebabe answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:57 pm:
masturbate or dildo or a vibrator or sum other sex toy or watever.hope i helped

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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:52 pm:
Ouch. I had the same problem. My guy has big fingers, I'm tight (still) and he used to only be able to get one finger in. He needs to just do one for now.
You're probably just tight 'cause you're a virgin. When I lost my virginity, I loosened up, but I'm still...kinda little. Lol.
Don't let him use two fingers if it hurts. I still don't let my guy use two fingers. The more he does it, the looser you'll get. There's no drastic change, though, so don't expect it.
You also get looser by...well, having sex, fingering, fingering yourself, etc. But as I said no drastic changes, I don't think.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:38 pm:
well your still ah virgin im guessing..so its still pretty tight! ive heard you can get it looser w/o loosing your virginity by masterbating? but no clue if that works..im not really into that whole thang. anyways, tell your bf it hurts and you only want him to do it with one..he should understand and respect you about that.

x0x-dani

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selectopaque answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:34 pm:
You don't want to be looser. There is nothing wrong with just one finger. It is a good thing to be tight.

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