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I'm a photography major at a community college. I love music, fashion, art, my friends, books, films, theatre...and vampires. Ask me anything. I especially like questions about my opinions on something and questions that aren't even asking for advice.

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Whenever I shave my legs I always get cuts. So I tried using shaving cream but that only irritated them, and now I have little red dots everywhere! So what are some good razors that I can use, that aren't exspensive, to have smooth legs? And nair is out of the question. Thanks in advance.

I would suggest using Aveeno shaving cream and follwing it up with Aveeno lotion after you get out of the shower and dry off. This is what I do and I never get razor burn or irritation.

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i just got my lip peicred, and i wanted it peirced with a stud, but the peircer said he doesn't peirce lips with studs.my friend got her lip pierced with a stud though.after it completely heals, can i take it out and put a monroe or labret stud in it?will it do anything to my gums or teeth if i do do that?

thanks!

My friend lost her lip ring at work and has been wearing a Monroe piercing in it to keep it from closing up while she looks for a new one to wear so yeah, I think it should be okay.

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I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin.

Bulemia isn't specifically a sin. Not treating you body like the temple that God created it to be is. But God doesn't hate you for it. He'll never hate you or leave you or forsake you. Don't ever forget that!! I'd suggest you get help with your problem and talk to someone you trust about it.

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Does putting eyeliner on your top lid, bottom lid, or both make your eyes look bigger and bolder?

Yes but if you wear too much black your eyes will just look like black holes in your face.

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im starting to absolutely hate rap, hip hop etc. im starting to like 80`s music, like i've fallen in love with it ever since my dad took my to a poion concert. soo i was wondering what are really great 80's songs/bands


thanks.

I love the 80's too. Duran Duran, Rio, Save A Prayer, Wild Boys, Hungry Like The Wolf, The Reflex and View To A Kill, The Jam, The Clash, The Sex Pistols, Blondie, The Ramones, The Boomtown Rats, Belinda Carlisle, Nik Kershaw, The Pretenders, Tiffany, Pat Benatar, T'Pau, Rainbow, Kim Wilde, Huey Lewis and The News, Transvision Vamp, The Bangles, Chicago, INXS, The Pet Shop Boys, Culture Club, Adam and The Ants, Billy Joel, Cyndi Lauper...the list goes on. Enjoy!!!

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there was this guy that saw my picture on myspace and messaged me for my screename. he would say dirty things to me, and tell me i was sooo sexy and he wanted to hang out with me and that he wanted to see me and all this stuff. he also left this message on my phonee saying how hot i was and stuff. he went to my school but i never really talked to him before this - he just saw my myspace pictures and kept messaging me and IMing me every time i got on. after he kept IMing me for a couple days saying i was sexy and crap, he started saying really gross stuff like he wants to have sex with me and that i could touch his penis and stuff. then he told me he smokes marijuana, which i find really pathetic. why do guys act like this? he hasn't even talked to me in real life, just seen my pictures. what should i do?

Well how did he get your phone number? If you gave it to him when he was already creeping you out to begin with, that was stupid of you. If he got it some other way, wow, what a creep. Block him on myspace, block his instant message screen names, don't pick up the phone when he calls, delete his voicemails and don't talk to him at school. If the situation gets worse, talk to your parents about it.

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Normally for make-up, I just wear eyeliner, mascara, and the same eyeshadow every day. I put a little bit of liquid foundation to cover up problem spots. However, I want to make my eyes really stand out. What types of products could I buy, and how should I apply it?

I would suggest the Almay Intense I-Color line of eye makeup. They're sets of eyeliner, mascara and three different shades of eyeshadow. It shows you how to apply everything and it looks really pretty too. They come in sets for blue, brown, green and hazel eyes and you can get them at Target and Wal-Mart.

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do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks

I find guys with lip piercings hot. Like if it's just one and really well taken care of like really clean and nice looking...it's very attractive to me. Same thing goes for eyebrow piercings. It's so gross if they're like dirty ad not taken well care of though. Ear piercing(s) are prettys sexy too.

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okay so im 13 and im pretty flat chested. KIND OF. is there any type of cream or product that can make make breast bigger like at least 3 or 4 inches bigger?

Yeah but they're known to increase your risk of breast cancer. Don't worry, you're only 13. I didn't really "get boobs" until like this year.

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How far do you think is too far when it comes to changing for your boyfriend? Is it the hair, the clothes, the attitude & friends?! I need to know.

You shouldn't change anything about yourself for anyone else unless you want to anyway. Be true to yourself.

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Do you think guys prefer girls who show alot of skin, a little skin or no skin at all when looking for a girl to start a serious relationship with?

For some reason when old ladies see girls wearing something they think is skimpy, they always say "well that leaves nothing to the imagination". And I guess it's kinda true...

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I went to a casual back-to-school dance tonight. While I was there, there's this boy, Andrew that I danced with serveral times. My heart litterally skipped a beat when he asked me to dance each time. The whole time he had his arms around me it felt so good. When I got there, I didn't really give him much thought, I mean he was a friend of mine, but I hadn't really thought about liking him again. But ever since I left, I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. Me and him have gone out before, but we broke up.

How do I let him know I'm totally into him, without having to be too straight forward?
We're both super outgoing, so I'm not like shy.
But I don't see him alot in school, and
were both kinda busy with cheerleading/football
after school for a while. What should I do?

Go up to him and say, "You...yes, you. I like you. Alot."

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13/f ok so im 5'6" but im slim and most of the guys in my grade are shorter than me or at least a little short. My height at the most. Would they not want to go out with me or kiss me if im that tall?

If guys don't want to go out with you because you're tall...psh...they're pussies. Besides, there's more than plenty of hot tall guys out there.

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There is this guy in my 6th period class and he is really cute(lets call him bob), well yesterday bob and I gave each other looks. =D. Okay and after class a girl name Abbi told bob I like him and that i think he is really hott. and he smiled and blushed. and then Abbi said you should ask her out. So....today I am hoping bob will ask me out...what should i do if he does?

If you want to be with him, say yes. If you're not ready to be with him yet, ask if he wants to hang out sometime so you can talk to him and get to know him better. Good luck!!!

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School is about to start and I always dis the my "rivals" and I need some great comebacks. Please list some of the best you've herd.
Thanks

That's the dumbest and more immature question I've ever heard. Sorry.

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my mom married my stepdaddy a couple of months of go and i told my friends about it at school and now everybody at school is making fun of me becouse my mom married a black guy iam not racist and i don't see what's wrong with a white person marrying a black guys it's just the color of your skin and we can't help it god made us that way,but how can I make my friends see it that way?

Yeah if someone starts making fun of you/your mom/your step-dad/your family in general because of that, fuck them. The color of your step-dad's skin does not make him a completely different person. Tell them that. And if your mom and your family loves him, then it's nothing...It's so stupid when people are racist, it's an irrational hate.

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My boyfriend just got braces, and I don't blame him because they're really hard to clean but... His breath STINKS!!! everytime we kiss it's like *Faint*. How can I tell him he has bad breath without hurting his feelings?

Jokingly tell him he has bad breath. Even if he thinks you're joking he'll become aware of the problem (and hopefully do something about it) but it still won't be like you pointed it out.

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okay. im 13 and all of a suden i have been craving porn. is that a bad thing? and i have been practiceing sex with my pillow? is that bad too? help.

How you do fuck a pillow? Ew.

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Guys ask me out alot. I hear the same things alot like "your very beautiful" or "I love your smile" or "There's something about you that I can't resist." I know it's just a date but becuase of this I'm rather reluctant to accept. Just how do I tell who's for real and who's not?

Well alot of guys really try to be original but can't because it's almost like all of the "original, good things" have been said already. But yeah I know how that feels like weird I guess.

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I recently asked a question and what type of pregnancy test to get since my period is late. I'm not even worried about my late period anymore, i'm just completely scared. My boyfriend and I have been talking about this and he feels that abortion is our best option since im only 16 and hes 18. I don't believe in abortion unless under very specific circumstances.

My parents don't even know i'm sexually active, and i was wondering, if this I actually am pregnant, how the hell do I tell them. He hasn't even met them yet, and I dont think my parents are going to want to here, mom dad this is ***************, oh and by the way, i'm so many months pregnant. Not exactly the best introduction.

What I'm asking is.. how will I tell my parents that i'm pregnant by a guy they just go to meet. I've known him for a long time and hes my best friend, but theyre still going to freak. Someone please help

Before you assume anything or even begin to think about abortions and adoption, get an over-the-counter pregnancy test and confirm whether you actually are pregnant or not. If you are, then you still have to talk to your parents if you want an abortion because you're a minor.

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