there was this guy that saw my picture on myspace and messaged me for my screename. he would say dirty things to me, and tell me i was sooo sexy and he wanted to hang out with me and that he wanted to see me and all this stuff. he also left this message on my phonee saying how hot i was and stuff. he went to my school but i never really talked to him before this - he just saw my myspace pictures and kept messaging me and IMing me every time i got on. after he kept IMing me for a couple days saying i was sexy and crap, he started saying really gross stuff like he wants to have sex with me and that i could touch his penis and stuff. then he told me he smokes marijuana, which i find really pathetic. why do guys act like this? he hasn't even talked to me in real life, just seen my pictures. what should i do?
Additional info, added Sunday August 13 2006, 1:49 pm: I DIDN'T GIVE HIM MY PHONE NUMBER. and after he said all that gross stuff i stopped talking to him but he still leaves like messages on AIm when i go away and messages on myspace.. i just hate how he says like he wants to have sex with me because he's one of those guys that i wouldn't be surpised if he had done that. if it was a different guy, i probably wouldn't be as freaked out but it's just weird... i don't know how to be like "no" when he messages me and sayus like we should chill really soon, you should visit me at work today. so i just dont say anything. but its still annyoing when he IMs me as soon as i get on and if i dont say anything he'll be like HELLOOOO. i dont know, i just rather him stop talking to me.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? prep21 answered Sunday August 13 2006, 8:31 pm: okay you're dealing with a freak!! not all guys are like this. some guys find that pathetic too. the freaky guy you're dealing with is considered a PREDATOR. report it to the cops, but first, look over your myspace to make sure it doesnt have stuff on it you wouldnt want your mom to see. set your profile to private, where only people you add can see it. that way, it will stop the messaging!! [ prep21's advice column | Ask prep21 A Question ]
more_than_a_feeling answered Sunday August 13 2006, 1:43 pm: Well how did he get your phone number? If you gave it to him when he was already creeping you out to begin with, that was stupid of you. If he got it some other way, wow, what a creep. Block him on myspace, block his instant message screen names, don't pick up the phone when he calls, delete his voicemails and don't talk to him at school. If the situation gets worse, talk to your parents about it. [ more_than_a_feeling's advice column | Ask more_than_a_feeling A Question ]
poetqueen answered Sunday August 13 2006, 1:05 pm: id avoid this guy at all costs! block his myspace, and block his sn, like you said you dont talk to him at school so it shouldnt be too big of a deal, if after you block him he comes up to you and gives you a hard time, then talk to a higher authority (counselor, parent, principal w/e) b/c thats totally not cool! i dont know why some guys act like that, but i do know that i avoid them at all costs, and hang out w/ the sweet guys, b/c people like that, are the ones who you shouldnt get mixed in with.
Lola answered Sunday August 13 2006, 7:41 am: hey,
Just send him a message and tell him that he is acting in a very pathetic, and naive childish way and that you just don't like it, and that you are not one of those slutty girls who goes around hooking up with any boy she meets. And then block him and make your profile viewed by friends only. Thats usually done to block out freaks like this guy.
And then if he keeps calling and saying all these stuff,you can tell your friends or guyfreinds to call and yell at him and tell him not to call you ever again. Because he is just simply going to far and crossing the line.
And don't worry, there are some pathetic losers who have no lives so they keep annoying others by saying all this shit and gross stuff.
So just do what i said,and believe me , you won't hear from him again. He is just a loser. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
ifonlytheskywasgreen answered Sunday August 13 2006, 3:21 am: First question, why would you give him your phone number? Best thing to do, tell him you do not appreciate the way he acts, and block him on AIM and delete him as a friend on myspace or block him on that too and possibly make your myspace private.
caramella answered Sunday August 13 2006, 2:56 am: Tell him to stop sending these sick messages and that you would never like him.If he doesnt then the next time you see him,just walk up to him and SLAP him with no explanation and walk away,just make sure you got some of your freinds as backup incase he tries to do anything back.Hell hate you forever after you do this and wont have the guts to even send you a message.Thats what I woulda done. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
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