Q: two people who accepted my friend requests on facebook do not show up on my list of friends and I cannot find them anywhere even though they both confirmed friendship. why is that and how can i view their profile?

Q: I met this guy 4 years ago. I am in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We hit it off. He was everything I was looking for; attractive, charming, sweet, succesful, and loving. 3 months into it he changes into a cocky, disrespectful person. Apparently he had another girlfriend. I suffered as the other woman for almost 3 years. I knew what I needed was to leave, but I didn't. Actually throughout those 3 years, we were on and off. It is now into the 4th year and he has made some changes. I think and feel like he is only seeing me. When we're together, we are deeply in love. We laugh, we enjoy each others company, We are so happy together. And I mean literally "together". He is a very busy guy, so when we're apart...we do not get along. Because I already have trust issues considering he disrespected and cheated in the part, I would think that he would try his hardest to communicate. Of course, he doesnt. Some nights he simply doesnt return my calls. His excuse the next morning is he had a long day and he was tired. I really think that he is not cheating, but I feel like I deserve to be communicated with. Would counseling be worth our time? Is our relationship savageable? I am deeply in love with him. Please help.

Q: Okay, I'm looking to get my hair cut, I've never really had my hair, seriously short, but I'm looking to cut a lot off of it. I have sort of a heart shaped face, if that helps anything.


My hair goes to my bra line, which really isnt that long, but its never been any shorter.
First I wanted to let it grow, then I realized it takes FOREVER! So I decided to cut it.

My hair is naturally curly. But I can straighten it without a problem.

I'm kind of looking for a sort of cute cut, nothing too drastic.

I want a lot of layers, short bangs, umm. nothing too major.

Q: what if youu went in the back were clearance was, took off alll the hollister tags from a flip flop, and put the flip flop in your pursee?

Q: i usually have trouble starting striking conversations with my GF and i need help like avoiding akward silences or breaking them or just shownin my GF i care help?

Q: I was wondering what to do for my teeth. I am going to college next year. In my second year I am getting braces, top and bottom at separate times.. it's really late and there are reasons for why I am caring now but w/e the damage is done. I would like my teeth whitened but is there a point if I am just going to get braces later? I would probably need the procedure done more than once.. how many months should I wait in between getting them whitened?

Reason being, I brush erratically when I feel like it and I finally kind of started brushing.. usually once a day as of last year. I am seeing the ramifications of not properly brushing or brushing at all over the 17 years I've been alive. So my question is, will laser teeth whitening work for me? I'm not sure what it's called or if there are other methods. For example, Crest Whitestrips probably aren't strong enough for me, right? Everyone is always talking about yellow stains on their teeth due to coffee and tea, but what about for teeth that are naturally a little yellow or teeth that have been neglected (have not been brushed for a long time)? :[ Please help! Thanks in advance!

Q: 13/f
okay so i have only had my period since january 07
so its still irregular and im still using pads. but in april or may my grade [at school] is going to schlitterbahn [galveston] and im scared cuz what if i get my period??
i know id have to use tampons but im scared to use them cuz i've never actually found the hole. so what do i do?
should i start practicing now or what??
help

Q: ummm i was wondering how do i get hair removed from down below((15/f)) what can i use ??? and without the itching sensation?? SORRY IF ITS THE WRONG CATEGORY BUT PLEASE HELP

Q: this is so confusing.

ok well i have these two friends that are guys. lets call them A and K their both really good friends and very close to me. i like one of their friends a lot (M) and i told them. They both told me i should date him. but the thing is i have never had a boyfriend let alone kissed a guy. and its not cause they dont ask me its because i dont want to. but i really like this guy. Ok heres where it gets confusing. so a few weeks later me and A are getting to know eachother better and are becoming really close and im scared. evertime im with A i get this weird feeling inside of me and it makes me really happy. im not sure if i like him like that or not. hes a really good friend and i dont ever want to lose that but i dont know what to do. everytime im with him or talk to him on the phone (which lately has been every night) its like the best feeling in the world. sorry if im overdramatizing it. its just that thats truely how i feel and im confused as what to do about it. do you think i like A?? what if i do?? then what?? (oh and btw he has a girlfriend) should i date M? and thats another thing..if i were to talk to M..what would i say?? im so nieve. please help!!
thanks!

Q: Two months ago, I thinned my hair out to about half the mass that it was, horribly dumb choice but whatever. Now my hair is greasy halfway into the day, its so annoying. I stopped using conditioner to make it look nicer, but it still gets pretty nasty around late afternoon. How can I get it to stay cleaner longer?

Q: yess, i put a question about this before... but something else came up. but if you didn't read it, this is what's going on. i have an ex boyfriend, and me & him broke up 2 years ago, and we had a REALLY harsh break up. and he avoided me for two years.. and this is the second year, which is this year, he messaged me at of nowhere apologizing to me for hurting me before. and he told me that he still haven't gotten over me, and he wanted to start over with me. and 2 days later we stopped talking for a while, so i was thinking maybe he was just joking around saying that he still liked me, or maybe he stopped talking to me for a while, because i have a boyfriend. -- the situation now, is that, i was hanging out with his little sister before she went back home since she traveled down here for spring break. and i didn't really expect to see him, but we ran into each other. it was VERY awkward, because we went through alot when we were together.. and i acted like he wasn't there, because i didn't know what to say and because i was nervous. when we saw each other again, he stared at me for a while, when he was looking my way.. i turned my head the way he was looking. and i think he knew that i was looking for cute guys, because everytime when i turn around looking for a cute guy, he goes "what are ya'll talking about?" or "what are ya'll looking at?" and he turns around too. and he hears me say "omgg.. he's soo cute." and he stares at me. then later on that day, i messaged him apologizing telling him why i didn't talk to him that much, and i explained everything. then he aimed me and we talked till four in the morning. and i wanted to find out if he still liked me, so i asked about this one girl that he talked about before. and he goes "everybody wants me to go out with her. -_-" and i said "then why don't you?" and he goes "idk.. naw.. she already has somebody i don't wanna interfere" when he said that.. maybe he stopped talking for a while because he didn't wanna interfere with me & my boyfriend also. and then i said "and what if she didn't have someone?" and he goes "idk.. maybe.. but i'm confused." and i said "why?" and he said "because i also like this other girl you see.." and i was wondering who was the other girl, if it was still me.. or he literally likes 2 girls. but he wouldn't tell me who. so far.. i know he likes one girl that lives in his city, i don't know who is the other girl. i'm not sure if it's me.. or someone else.

so, do you think he still likes me.. and that i'm the other girl he likes?

Q: Hello, i'm here to look for some advice. This morning I was getting the clothes off of my daughter's bed and under the pillow I found a hollowed out book. I'm confused, and have no idea why in the world she would want a hollowed out book. There was nothing in it, but she could have taken something out. I smelled inside for suspision of drugs but it just smelled like a book. She is 13 and has always been a good girl but I don't understand this. Please answer!

Q: Okay im in a situation ware i've liked this boy for a couple years now, and i know he's liked me off and on last year and we've hooked up a couple times, but thats nothing. Today me and him were talking and he admitted that he liked me again and i told him i liked him. The thing is, he has a girlfriend right now, they only been together about a week, he told me he was gonna dump her and be with me. Im scared, i really think im going to give him a chance because i like him and have, but i just want an opion to see if i shoundlt. He like's sex a lot, and i've only done it once so i'll be scared and he likes sexual intercorse often, so im just nervous, so help!! i just need some easy advice if i should or what do i do.. i'll give feedback .

Q: okay soo..theres this guy and i really like him. and i wanna hook up with him. but hes like one of my best friends. like we've gone out before/ liked eachother and its always ended badly. ex. liked eachother in 7th grade.. big fight after.. became friends again in 8th grade.. liked eachother.. went out over the summer.. got in a big fight (and i went out with another guy right after him, bad i know).. we became good friends again freshman year.. im pretty sure he liked me again while i had a boyfriend.. then we liked eachother again over the summer but we never hung out.. now we hang out all the time and we're like good friends again and stuff.. and he told me he likes me. and i like him. i dont think we will ever go out because i hate one of his best friends and his best friend hates me. (another long story) and 2 of the other girls he hangs out with dont really get along with me. he wont go out with me and lose his friends because he already got kicked out of his little group this summer and they would do it again. but its okay because im not really interested in going out with him anyways. it just makes everything awkward because our groups of friends hang out and stuff and when we went out before they would like pressure us to talk and watch every move we made and stuff but if we're just friends and nobody knows that we like eachother (okay thats a lie all my friends think i do and most of his friends think he does) but like nobody knows like for sure. but anyways hes like told me he wants to hook up before. he like texts me every night and stuff. dont tell me not to do anything with him because he doesnt want a relationship.. because we havent actually talked about it im just guessing what his opinions are. and again, i dont want a relationship either because it always sucks because i lose my other guy friends. but anyways my question was... hes kinda shy but we're alone sometimes like for ex. yesterday in his car and i dont think he'll make the first move because i dont know if he knows i want to but like what's something subtle i can do/ say to let him know i want to.. i dont want to be like lets hook up or something.. ya know? but like yesterday he texted me and he was like you were mean to me today when you got out of my car and i was like how? and he was like you just like left... so yeah im pretty sure he wants to do stuff and i might end up seeing him again tonight so what should i do?! thanks =)

Q: is it okay if i distract myself from my problems. im unhappy, but im trying to distract my mind, but i feel like im going to end up even more unhappy. but ive been unhappy since a few months ago, so im trying out this method. i figure its at least temporary partial happiness. what do you think about the method? is it worse then letting myself soak in my problems? ive been doing that since my problems started, and theyre not going away. should i continue distracting my mind instead of what i have been doing?


and does this question even make sense? lol

Q: I need some songs to describe how you keep getting back together with your boyfriend

Q: I want to put pictures of me on facebook but I want hem to be cool and "edited" (for example: different colors and textures, etc., or w/e you would think would make a picture look cool). I have Photoshop Elements. Any suggestions?

Q: is there any way i can get my eyelashes to grow? i keep rubbing my eyes. its a bad habit and my eyelashes always fall into my eye. i dont think people make falsies for bottom lashes? and id have to put them on everyday and take them off at night. makeup helps but i was wondering if there was another alternative? thanks!

Q: Me and my friend want to do a Viva La Bam style scavenger hunt.
I got all the ideas I could find on google and stuff.
I need ideas other than those.
Thannks.
:D

Q: my hair is naturally thick and wavy. if i don't blow-dry it, it gets kinky and weird and frizzy. the same thing happens if i don't straighten it. i really want soft, shiny, straight hair but i'm worried about heat damage. any tips for how i can achieve this? i want to stop using my straightening iron because of the heat damage, does anyone know how i can achieve the same effect without the iron and make it more natural?

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