ok well i have these two friends that are guys. lets call them A and K their both really good friends and very close to me. i like one of their friends a lot (M) and i told them. They both told me i should date him. but the thing is i have never had a boyfriend let alone kissed a guy. and its not cause they dont ask me its because i dont want to. but i really like this guy. Ok heres where it gets confusing. so a few weeks later me and A are getting to know eachother better and are becoming really close and im scared. evertime im with A i get this weird feeling inside of me and it makes me really happy. im not sure if i like him like that or not. hes a really good friend and i dont ever want to lose that but i dont know what to do. everytime im with him or talk to him on the phone (which lately has been every night) its like the best feeling in the world. sorry if im overdramatizing it. its just that thats truely how i feel and im confused as what to do about it. do you think i like A?? what if i do?? then what?? (oh and btw he has a girlfriend) should i date M? and thats another thing..if i were to talk to M..what would i say?? im so nieve. please help!!
thanks!
Larry1 answered Tuesday March 25 2008, 10:08 pm: Lets take this one at a time,ok? First you have A,K and you.The three musketeers,all of you are really good friends.Along comes M into your life.You never been kissed(hard to believe)or had a boy friend.Now A is seeing a little competition from M.Maybe some jealousy.The question is ,do you like M better than A? I would keep A & K just as you always were.M is too new for any kind of kissing or be considered as a boy friend yet.You haven't even gone out with him,so how do you know if your feeling are leading you down the right path.I would try and get M to join your pack of friends and see what happens.If everything goes great,then you'll have the fourth musketeer.If not,then you still have the original three.You and M still could see each other.A girl/guy could never have too many friends.After a while,you may find that M didn't have the qualifications that you are looking for in a date-mate. [ Larry1's advice column | Ask Larry1 A Question ]
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