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okay soo..theres this guy and i really like him. and i wanna hook up with him. but hes like one of my best friends. like we've gone out before/ liked eachother and its always ended badly. ex. liked eachother in 7th grade.. big fight after.. became friends again in 8th grade.. liked eachother.. went out over the summer.. got in a big fight (and i went out with another guy right after him, bad i know).. we became good friends again freshman year.. im pretty sure he liked me again while i had a boyfriend.. then we liked eachother again over the summer but we never hung out.. now we hang out all the time and we're like good friends again and stuff.. and he told me he likes me. and i like him. i dont think we will ever go out because i hate one of his best friends and his best friend hates me. (another long story) and 2 of the other girls he hangs out with dont really get along with me. he wont go out with me and lose his friends because he already got kicked out of his little group this summer and they would do it again. but its okay because im not really interested in going out with him anyways. it just makes everything awkward because our groups of friends hang out and stuff and when we went out before they would like pressure us to talk and watch every move we made and stuff but if we're just friends and nobody knows that we like eachother (okay thats a lie all my friends think i do and most of his friends think he does) but like nobody knows like for sure. but anyways hes like told me he wants to hook up before. he like texts me every night and stuff. dont tell me not to do anything with him because he doesnt want a relationship.. because we havent actually talked about it im just guessing what his opinions are. and again, i dont want a relationship either because it always sucks because i lose my other guy friends. but anyways my question was... hes kinda shy but we're alone sometimes like for ex. yesterday in his car and i dont think he'll make the first move because i dont know if he knows i want to but like what's something subtle i can do/ say to let him know i want to.. i dont want to be like lets hook up or something.. ya know? but like yesterday he texted me and he was like you were mean to me today when you got out of my car and i was like how? and he was like you just like left... so yeah im pretty sure he wants to do stuff and i might end up seeing him again tonight so what should i do?! thanks =)
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I think you should like, lean in kind of close to him, and smile and send him a flirty look. Maybe touch his arm or somthing. He should get the idea!
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