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did i do the right thing?
Hey i have a frend named Mark, and his best frend told him some girl likes him. So on face book they were talking about him.
So i said "yeah i heard she likes mark" and the insults started flying. Turns out she doesnt/never liked him. I sent him the conversation, and he flipped out. He said i shouldnt have opened my big mouth and he was saying i hate you im done with you and kept telling me to F-off. I just didnt want them to be talking crap about him behind his back without him knowing. cuz were real tight. I tried explaining this to him. But he just doesnt care. what do you think?
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Your friend is just really hurt right now. He will probably most likely come around sooner or later. I think it was perfectly okay for you to say something about it, afterall he is your friend and thats what friends do. Just give him his space and I'm sure he will be alright in a while.
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I think it was definitly okay for you to say that, it might have been a little annoying to him at first, but you werent trying to be mean or piss him off. You were trying to make sure they didnt talk about stuff behind his back, and in my opinion, if he was a real friend, he wouldve known or realized thta and not have tooken it so seriously, and being so mean about it afterwardss. Hem ight just be mad at the time being because he was probably a bit embaressed when you said that and she didnt really like him, andm aybe even a bit mad that the girl didnt like him and he thought she did that whole time, so he started getting mad at you just because he could or again, he was embaressed. He probably will forget about it sooner or later, or forgive you, or maybe even say sorryy, And if he doesnt, Hoenstly, hes notttt worth your time. What a jerk, is what I'd think, And just forget about him. Dont try to suck up to him or anything, because hell just take advantage of it, and think he can just treat you like that. So forget about him, and eventually, he will probablly come to you. Trust me.
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I think mark was right. It really wasnt your business. And when you said "I heard she likes mark" after everything that was said you should have just kept it to yourself, I think what hurt him the most was the overall conversation that was had. If I was you I would just give him space.
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