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Q: When a guy does something that you don't like [as in touching boobs or something]
how do you say no [in a nice way] ?
and if you are too busy kissing.. would it be bad if you were to slap their hand?
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it wouldnt neccesarly be bad,but you shoud avoid hittting his hand.if he touches you somewhere that you dont want to be touched then just politly say"please dont it mkes me uncomfortable.if hes a good guy hell understand.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: My boyfriend is having guy talks with someone.. about our relationship. It's nothing bad.. just kissing and telling, you know? Like how i reacted to a french kiss or whatever.
But he's talking to my ex. [we went out for over a year] so it's really .. awkward? I honestly, don't want my ex to know what's going on with me..
my ex told me that he couldn't tell.. what their guy talks were about so he wasn't supposed to mention any of it in the first time.
I really want my boyfriend to stop having those talks with him. Is there anything I can do? I don't care who else he talks to.. just not my ex. :/
I really don't think it's any of his business. I don't want to be rude and tell my boyfriend to stop talking to him though. That would make me look like a bad girlfriend..
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your not going to be a bad girlfriend cuz you dont want your ex to know about your personal life.just tell your boyfriend simply"look you can talk to anyone else about it buit please stop talking to my ex about my personal life"if hes a good boyfriend hell understand
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: What is the most important thing when you look for love?
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1.)they make you smile
2.)they make you laugh
3.)they make you feel safe.
4.)you can trust them
5.)you know there the one
let me know how it all works out
loots of love,lizzie
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Q: ok there is this amazing girl at my school. i dated her last year, and now i am a freshman in highschool. while we were going out, i was to shy to really do anything. i wanted to kiss her so bad but i just couldnt find the strength to actually make my move. we broke up later because she did not like me anymore. we went out for about 3 weeks. before that we were really good friends, but now its like we dont talk at all anymore, part of the reason being we dont have any classes together. ever since we broke up though, its weird, it seemed like i wanted her more and more every day. i havnt stopped thinking about her every day and it has been almost a year now. i still see her almost everyday, because i go to a small private school. anyway, i have just learned that she is leaving my school, to go to another because she wants a change of things. i think i love her and i dont want her to leave, but i am too shy to step up and admit to her my feelings, not that it would change anything, but i just feel like she should know, before she goes that someone is thinking of her. i also feel that that might make things even more aukward between us, and i am really shy when it comes to this stuff. i dont know i was thinking of just going and telling her, but i dont know there is something just keeping me from doing that. maybe a note or something?
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your smart to go with the note tyhing.just tell he EXACLY how you feel.it might make things things a little akward but at least she knows now.and you never know she can feel the same about you
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: My Dad was in an argument with my Mom like always today and he said, "YOU WONT LET ME TALK TO MY KIDS! YOU WONT LET ME HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM! WELL IN 2009, I'M MOVING! THE BASE (like a military base) IS BEING SHUT DOWN AND MOVING TO ILLINOIS AND I AM MOVING THERE WHEN THAT HAPPENS! WE ARE NOT HAVING TWO HOUSES AND I AM NOT STAYING MARRIED TO YOU! I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU THINK I LOVE YOU! I HATE YOU, YOU ASSHOLE!" Yes, and lucky me...I got to listen to it like always. To make this clear, my mom has never done anything to offend him and only tries to help him. I learned that all of my conversations with him turn into him yelling at me for something, so I try to stay clear of him and not bother him...my mother has nothing to do with it. My mom asked me today if I would rather him stay here till I get out of High School. I told her yes, but I honestly don't. I mean, I want to stay in my neighborhood and all, but I can't take anymore of his yelling, screaming, and when he threatens my mom and stuff. I feel like half of this is my fault. Half of the time he is yelling and cussing at me and my family for all of these little things. I've cried myself to sleep plenty of times because of the things he's said to me. Am I wrong to not want to be around my father?
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wow calm down and take a breather girl ! you have every reason not to want to be around your father any more.If he cant do his job as a father then you dont need to put up with it.Try talking to your mom about moving to a new house or staying wth some family members just for awhile or maybe dont stay at high school at that school go to a different one but still keep in toouch and visit your friends.either way its a hard thing to go to.
let me know if it all worked out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: I have a boyfriend and we have been together for almost 6 months now. I moved away from him a few months ago. We promised that we would still be together even tho I live in Central America while he still lives in Canada. I have been away from him for 4 months now! I will be moving back to Canada in 2 months. We both knew that I would only be gone for 6 months. Thats why we chose to stay together! I know he isnt cheating on me or doing anything that would hurt me because he isnt that kind of person. I really love him and I dont want to lose him, but i feel that I am. We have been pretty steady for the last 6 months of us being together but lately things havent been going to well. We havent talked him weeks and if we do it isnt much of a conversation because we are not around each other and we do not see what each of us is doing. We have talked about everything for the last 4 months. Thats all we have done is talk. So now we have nothing to talk about. We both try to start conversations but they die so quickly. It makes me really sad. What should I do? I really like him and I dont want things to end between us, I know he doesnt either. Please help!
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okay well if you love him so much and he loves you so much,it shouldnt matter how far apart you are ,your love should never die.so ytou say youve talked about everything on the phone?did you talk about whats the first thing you both are gonna do when you get back ?if you did talk about it again!lol it will remind him how much you love hiim,and he loves you.Plan something really special when you get back to canada to do togetherr.Its only two months you can do it !
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: i like him
hes likes me
hes got girlfriend
im fridgid
help lol
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wow i dont think i ever had a QUESTION WRITTEN LIKE THT LOL.wELL IF HE ALLREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND THEN THERES NOT MUCH YOU CAN DO BECUASE IT WOULDNT BE RIGHT TO BRAKE THEM UP,BUT THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH LETTING HIM KNOW YOU LIKE HIM
LET ME KNOW HOW IT ALL WORKS OUT
LOTS OF LOVE,LIZZIE
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Q: okay make a long story short --
I met a boy last summer. He asked me out, I fell in love with him. I effed things up by making out in public, to affectionate, not hanging out too much. I was really stupid. So he dumped me a few times. We got back together everytime. 10/20/06 we broke up again, and that time we didn't get back together. I cried to weeks, and after a fews months I was 98% over him. Till he looked a me and smiled. I fell completely back in love.
He has been from girl to girl lately, and now he has a new girlfriend. I really want to go back out with him again. I was thinking about telling him [ how I really feel, and that I really messed things up, I'm still inlove, really sorry, and now I've comepletely changed and I want a second chance. ]Except telling him that online seems alittle pathetic and desprete. So I was thinking about telling him that in person. BUT HOW? I don't really see him in school much, and the only way for him to actually understand is in person. But I think he'll get the wrong idea if I actually show up at his house, or if he comes over him. But I want to be alone.
Or I don't know. I want to go back out with him, I miss him. I THINK i should tell him how I really feel.
What should I do?
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i woul definitly say tell him.or if you cant tell him in words write a letter to him.just say "i know that you allready have a girlfriend but if things dont work out i still like you,and im really sorry"
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: im 14 female and im bi, i have a gf. but im starting to like a boy is that cheating tho?
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its not cheating if you just like the boy but if you go out with him too at the same time as your girlfriend then thats cheating,but make sure that if you feel like you like him better to tell your girlfriend.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: My ex boyfriend is coming back to my neighborhood this summer and all i can think about is whats gonna happen.But also i like someone in my school and my friends say he like me back but whenever it's me and him or getting ready to be just me and him i always get scared and run or stop talking cause i don't wanna get hurt again.so how can i get my ex out of my head and the guts to handle my crush?
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all you have to do is think of all the bad things that happened between you and your ex and think of all the good things that happen between you and your crush.you dont evn have to act like you have a crush on him just act like hes any other friend of yours and start by saying "hey,whats up"
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: Thanks for the boyfriend advice....
yeah the one ive known for 2 years I reallt kinda want becuase while aloit of people are saying you know it wont last....
Thats kinda what I want.
I want someone to have fun with....
No strings attatched.
I dont wanna be tied down!
And i TRULY think my bf is THE ONE.
Hes amazing....
I just think the timing sucks ass! LOL
thanks
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aww your welcome well now you dont have to be stressed anymore cuz you found the one and if you keep it a secret i think i did too
lots of love,lizzie
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okay thanks i guess your a wangster
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i dont no lol cuz i love ya
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: my bff is colorblind~what do they see like black and white like a dog or what~this whole year hes been my bff~and i keep forgetting~like sendin color tests tht say like press different color buttons in order~what do colorblind people see
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well not really they just dont se white and black,but they make bright colors dark,and dark colors light.
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: I need some good teen friendship quotes.
not like by ben franklin or from the bible.
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umm theres a really long one ,but here you go
allthoough its quite a statement it happens to be true the best friend i have ever have,im gld to say is you.Your there if i should need you ,you never turn away,i know i can depend on yu at any time of day.Some people have so many friends of who they spend their time,but no one has a best friend whos as wonderfull as mine.
So thanks for allways being there,your friendships allways true,and i just wanted to let you know,i will allways be there for you.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: 23 Male
I got a phone call tonight. Old friend I used to talk to a few years ago. He wanted to talk to me about a friend he has; in particular, his own girlfriend. I like to help out my friends, so I said I would help.
He mentions a name to me. It rings a bell, because it happens to be the same name of my girlfriend, but I don't tell him that. A few minutes into the conversation I find out it is the same exact person we are talking about. I keep my big mouth shut.
They've been dating for a few months. I feel a deep hurt on the inside: we've been dating a few years. I find out the problem he is having and do the best I can to help him as a friend. I act as if I know her just as a friend and nothing more. This leads him to tell me more and more about them. I'm not reeling it out of him, he's just letting it all out. Should I confront her about this? She avoids the topic when I ask about him and my friend asks about their future. What is going on here, why does she avoid things, and do I need to tell her and possibly break things off?
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wow thats REALLY messed up.hmm...well it all really depends on how much you like this girl.its really not fare to you that you have to share your girlfriend.i think you should start off by telling your friend about you two.Then maybe you can try three way calling her so if she lies then she will be caught in the act.If you cant do that then you should both confront her at the sane time,or if you can handle it different times.but deffinity tell him .becuse who really want to hear a guy talking about his girlfriend?I would say that anyone can do better then a cheater.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: Im a sophmore in highschool. There is this girl who I have known for ever and I've always thought of her kind of like a sister. But recently I have started to have deeper feelings for her and don't know what to do. I need to know if there are any signs I could look for to tell if she is interested in me as well, ways I could bring this up in conversation with her that wouldn't be akward, and physical things I could do that wouldn't be too agressive. Thanks.
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well girls are confusing,but luckly i am one so i can help you lol.okay well if she like laughs akot and her cheeks turn red,then she likes you.if she kinda hangs on you then there may be a possibility that she likes you.you can allways try talking to her,and just say a'well someone told me that you like me as more then a friend,but i said hats okay cuz i like her tooz'.remember youll never know if you dont try.The worst she can say is no.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: Alright I know we all hate these questions but im finally in a position to ask for help.....
Here it goes...
I have a boyfriend of 4 months...But basically 6 months from the time we really started talking.
Then i have a boy that i was on and off with for 2 years. We never "went out" but we hooked up and EVRYTIME we see eachother we always get these feelings back!!!
Well this other guy called every 2 weeks asking if i am still together with my BF and i say yes and hes like okay il ttyl. So finally he called 3 days ago and he wanted to hangout so i was like YEAH!!! so I hungout 2 days NON stop. And I got these feelings back.
I missed him SOOO much.
And ive thought about him while being together with my BF.
BUT my boyfriend knows about the relationship we had or 2 years and that we were on and off and that we like loved eachother.
What do i do?
Do i leave my Bf who I love?
For someone Ive loved 2 years?
I keep thinking i should do I can just HAVE FUN for a while! But Im scared of doing that and Missing my BF terribly.
This is killing me and i havent said much to my bf I kinda avoid calls cause I wanna decide before I talk to him so I have something to say.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
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well what you have to do is spend lots of time with both of them and see who you like more.Or you can decide to just be friends with both of them and you can still like make out with them and stuff lol.If i was you i would choose the guy that i liked the longest but im not you so,its your desition.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: Hey guys! well, i've decided to do my room tropical theme. i was deciding between pink and orange stripes or tropical, but i decided to do it in tropical and i'm really excited!!! but... i live in kansas.. :( and there is not that much stuff that is tropical in kansas. hopfully as spring/summer come along we get more tropical stuff but anyways.. does anyone know of any good sites for inexpensive tropical stuff? if anyone knows of any stores in kansas that would have some tropical stuff, i would greatly appreciate getting some advice. also, any websites that have tropical stuff, please let me know, and please include the websites/tell me the websites. thanks everyone!!! MuCh LoVe!!
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umm ...i have one word for you ...ebay
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Q: theres this guy and i have a class with him...he's really cool and stuff..i like him alot...he talks to me sometimes but most of the time it's about english hmrk...i flirt with him sometimes...but i don't think he knows..he's really quiet..
theres this girl named H and this is his childhood friend...there always talking..i know they don't like each other but i don't know wat to do...sometimes i wish she would just get out of that class...but she's really nice and has a bf...
i try to have this guy talk to me more but i don't know wat to do??...i flirt with him but i don't think that's enough...i want him to find out hiself that i like him...
i also think he's the independent kind of guy the one that does'nt have a gf....i don't know wat to do
plese help
14/f
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hmm...well did you ever try talking to this childhood friend about him? maybe she can help ya out a little bit,after all she has known him for a long time.if not try writing him little notes in class.say "hey whats up"or "we should hang out sometime"
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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hey guys whats up im Lizzie .i love to give people advice and i sometimes need to ask others for advice if i dont know what to do .the most important thing i want everyone to know is that they shouldnt be ashamed to ask others for advice.it will get you far if u ask questions.im not here to tell people how to live there lives,im just here to help .so if u ever need advice or just want to make a friend im allways hear .hope to hear from u soon ,
lots of love,lizzie
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