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Dont know what to do about this girl
Im a sophmore in highschool. There is this girl who I have known for ever and I've always thought of her kind of like a sister. But recently I have started to have deeper feelings for her and don't know what to do. I need to know if there are any signs I could look for to tell if she is interested in me as well, ways I could bring this up in conversation with her that wouldn't be akward, and physical things I could do that wouldn't be too agressive. Thanks.
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ok what I would do if i was in your situation is try and talk to her about who she likes and if she gives you a name then obv you no that its not you . Also you could try telling her about a girl you like (obv her)but use a different name and if she starts appearing jealous then thats a good start and you could keep this going for a while until you finally get the courage to tell her how you feel.
hugs as said in the other answer are always good but other than that I cant think of any un agressive things .
In the end the only way to let her no is and I no that this sounds daunting but is to tell her.
You could start with the whole weve been friends for a while speech and that way you can reassure her that you still want to be friends just in case it doesnt work out.
My advice is not very good I know but I have been in this situation myself and I didnt go for it which i now regret.
Good luk either way and i hope I have helped even if its only minimal.
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well girls are confusing,but luckly i am one so i can help you lol.okay well if she like laughs akot and her cheeks turn red,then she likes you.if she kinda hangs on you then there may be a possibility that she likes you.you can allways try talking to her,and just say a'well someone told me that you like me as more then a friend,but i said hats okay cuz i like her tooz'.remember youll never know if you dont try.The worst she can say is no.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Start by making a little more eye contact, & see how she reacts to that first. Then if she's staring at you back, advance to real flirting like, arm around the shoulder in the hallway, & when you're not interested in what she has to say, really pretend like you really wanna hear it. Give her more compliments & ask her opinions of things..but don't get too carried away. Tease her a little like...jokes about her but see how she takes it, most girls take it well and joke back but there's always a 50% she won't if she's in a bad mood. So that's a risky one. Offer to help her with homework or something. Just an excuse to hang out with her a little more. Have fun
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flirt with her a little but dont make it too obvious yet. just give her random hugs if you talk to her at her locker or afterschool. once she starts doing the same thing then flirt with her a little more.
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